[Wizard.]

oh and locking you outside butt naked as a form of humiliation

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Discipline, something sadly missing today

Discipline by an act of violence......

I've never raised a hand to either of my kids and they're really good, non bratty kids, how ever did I manage that?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Riley.

oh and locking you outside butt naked as a form of humiliation

whaaat?

[Wizard.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

whaaat?

yeah in our street

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Nicky if this is true then its really horrendous .

it is true

[Denver]

Social services have destroyed this country

My brothers he is not allowed to do anything with her new born like she did with her other child.

Your not even allowed to feed them how you want

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Kids need to learn right from wrong and how to behave early on in life or they end up brats ,my children used to get a tap ( A single tap ) on the backside if they did anything really wrong, I prefer a slap to ending up with some of the youths roaming the streets like we have now who were never taught right from wrong

Whos to say those kids aint getting leathered senseless at home?

[Wizard.]

he has apologised since, but like whatever some people don't know how to treat children

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Whos to say those kids aint getting leathered senseless at home?

Yeah, that's a great point actually.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Discipline by an act of violence......

I've never raised a hand to either of my kids and they're really good, non bratty kids, how ever did I manage that?

But all parents think they kids aren't brats, but the neighbours and people they come across in life may not agree

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Discipline, something sadly missing today

Thank god, we don't have need for such a weak brand of parenting. A parent that raises their hand to their children have failed at parenting. Fear is not a healthy way of parenting children at all.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Speak roughly to your little boy,
And beat him when he sneezes:
He only does it to annoy,
Because he knows it teases.'

Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Riley.

But try having your step-dad kick you in the balls as an 8-year-old because you told your mum that he brought her home flowers when it was meant to be a 'surprise'

That is ****ing disgusting..what a bullying.....argh i need to count to 10

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Riley.

he has apologised since, but like whatever some people don't know how to treat children

You should never, ever humiliate a child, that stays with them forever

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Thank god, we don't have need for such a weak brand of parenting. A parent that raises their hand to their children have failed at parenting. Fear is not a healthy way of parenting children at all.

How many children do you have ?

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Thank god, we don't have need for such a weak brand of parenting. A parent that raises their hand to their children have failed at parenting. Fear is not a healthy way of parenting children at all.

Because the reason brand of parenting that has allowed kids to become addicting with stabbing other kids and joy riding and other stupid stiff is the best way

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

How many children do you have ?

i am going to say

Spoiler:

none

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

But all parents think they kids aren't brats, but the neighbours and people they come across in life may not agree

Right, so how do you know yours weren't brats either even though you hit them?

But just for an outside perspective, I've never once had a bad review from any of their teachers at parents evenings so that's a good indicator I think

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yeah, that's a great point actually.

Dont sound so surprised.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

You should never, ever humiliate a child, that stays with them forever

You don't think a larger person hitting a little person is humiliating?

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Because the reason brand of parenting that has allowed kids to become addicting with stabbing other kids and joy riding and other stupid stiff is the best way

You act like violence is a new thing born of not using physical abuse as a parenting tool. It's not. People were killed and harmed in the 'good ol' days' too. You are letting nostalgia colour the facts.

Violence is the tool of the lazy parent not willing to put in the effort of raising their kids right.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Dont sound so surprised.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

How many children do you have ?

Oh look, another blatant attempt at suppressing opinions.

[Kizzy]

Kids are annoying.... Have you seen secret lives of 4yr olds?
They act cute but among themselves they have sophisticated hierarchical structures and detailed conversations.
Don't fall for the cute act!
If you want your brat to do something make it a direct order, no compromises.

If my dad wanted me to turn the TV off I turned it off... I didn't want 'the look!!'
I knew when teatime was and I knew when bedtime was.
I think most kids respond well to routine, it's reassuring.
I wasn't smacked, and I didn't smack.

Ok.. I lied, but seriously I can count the times on my fingers, for both of them... And most of them were the boy, he was the most annoying.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

You act like violence is a new thing born of not using physical abuse as a parenting tool. It's not. People were killed and harmed in the 'good ol' days' too. You are letting nostalgia colour the facts.

Violence is the tool of the lazy parent not willing to put in the effort of raising their kids right.

Since the social Service have told parents what to do and threatened to take the child of a parent for the smallest thing that is when the children of today became the worst