[parmnion]

Would you consider arranging a prostitute for your son on his 16th 18th or 21st birthday?

[Kate!]

Not in a million years.

[parmnion]

Not even if he asked for one? ..on his 21st.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Not even if he asked for one? ..on his 21st.

My lad would never ask for such a thing. But no not even if he asked.

[Ammi]

...no that’s not something I would ever consider for my children or anyone else’s children...

[parmnion]

That's a bit heartless if you don't mind me saying..it is his 21st after all.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by parmnion

That's a bit heartless if you don't mind me saying..it is his 21st after all.

...okey doke..I’m very happy to be heartless.....

[Cherie]

No at 21 I think he would be well able to source one himself if he saw the need, why would I need to be arranging that, I don't arrange his social life after all

[AnnieK]

Nope....never....no way.

I'm happy to be heartless too.

If he was of an age where he did it himself (when I say of an age I mean 50), thats up to him

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Cherie

No at 21 I think he would be well able to source one himself if he saw the need, why would I need to be arranging that, I don't arrange his social life after all

It wouldn't cost him anything...


It's a gift...if he just wandered up to you with the number??

Would you, if that's what he wanted.

[Livia]

I agree with Cherie. If I had a 21 year old son who needed his mother to get him laid, maybe sex isn't for him.

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Nope....never....no way.

I'm happy to be heartless too.

If he was of an age where he did it himself (when I say of an age I mean 50), thats up to him

Would you pay for it on his 50th?

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Nope....never....no way.

I'm happy to be heartless too.

If he was of an age where he did it himself (when I say of an age I mean 50), thats up to him

...hmmmm maybe campaign for that 50yr age to be raised, Annie....

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Livia

I agree with Cherie. If I had a 21 year old son who needed his mother to get him laid, maybe sex isn't for him.

Isn't it a parents duty to ensure your offspring experience all joys of life?


Hi..nice to see you back

[bitontheslide]

only if i could do the background research to select the best candidate.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Isn't it a parents duty to ensure your offspring experience all joys of life?


Hi..nice to see you back

No! I'm pretty sure it's not at all a parent's duty.

(Thanks, been away for work, got delayed... nightmare).

[Ammi]

...I’m curious to why that question only regarding sons as well...no daughters..?...

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Livia

No! I'm pretty sure it's not at all a parent's duty.

(Thanks, been away for work, got delayed... nightmare).

It's not a parents duty to deny ones dreams on such an important occasion either....

He could have asked for a car

[Matthew.]

Thought this thread was about the leadership debates at first

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...I’m curious to why that question only regarding sons as well...no daughters..?...

I admit, I was going to word it as a prostitute of the kids choice...but saying kids and prostitutes in my head freaked me out so in lost my train of thought....


I'm assuming that nobody would get thier daughter such a gift now you have pointed it out...so imo...the debate only works this way round.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by parmnion

It's not a parents duty to deny ones dreams on such an important occasion either....

He could have asked for a car

I wouldn't buy him a prostitute, neither would I arrange his stag night... there are just some things that parents should step away from. Makes me feel strange to think about my parents thinking about me having sex. It's just... wrong.

I'd rather buy him a car.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by parmnion

I admit, I was going to word it as a prostitute of the kids choice...but saying kids and prostitutes in my head freaked me out so in lost my train of thought....


I'm assuming that nobody would get thier daughter such a gift now you have pointed it out...so imo...the debate only works this way round.

...why though..I mean why does it ‘work’ for a son ...I have two sons and for me there would be the exact same assumption..that no parent would do that for a son or daughter...

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Livia

I wouldn't buy him a prostitute, neither would I arrange his stag night... there are just some things that parents should step away from. Makes me feel strange to think about my parents thinking about me having sex. It's just... wrong.

I'd rather buy him a car.

You do realise everytime he gets into that car he's going to abuse it senseless...then feel all sad when he gets out...think costs liv.

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...why though..I mean why does it ‘work’ for a son ...I have two sons and for me there would be the exact same assumption..that no parent would do that for a son or daughter...

That's a different debate..sorry..I see your point and people are free to say they wouldn't buy thier daughter a male prostitute but in my head the debate I started only works this way round....That's probably just down to tibb and it's demographic. ..but I know I should include both sees for a fairer and more open debate..

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...why though..I mean why does it ‘work’ for a son ...I have two sons and for me there would be the exact same assumption..that no parent would do that for a son or daughter...

On the oher hand...there will be many parents who will do that for thier son...not daughter though..perhaps a better debate....


But there will be plenty dad's who would buy thier son a prostitute for his birthday.