Home Menu

Site Navigation


Notices

Serious Debates & News Debate and discussion about political, moral, philosophical, celebrity and news topics.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Old 10-06-2020, 02:28 PM #1
parmnion's Avatar
parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
parmnion's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


Default 34 out of 54 African nations dont allow same sex relationships.

All sorts of stories about this, police torturing people for confessions..people being necklaced.


Should the world demand change in these countries?

Should British born people of African origin be airing this more for public debate?
parmnion is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:30 PM #2
Smithy's Avatar
Smithy Smithy is offline
Skinny Legend
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 55,533


Smithy Smithy is offline
Skinny Legend
Smithy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 55,533


Default

1. Yes
2. What?
Smithy is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:30 PM #3
MB.'s Avatar
MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
MB.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


Default

You mean the homophobic values we imposed on our colonies?

https://www.theguardian.com/world/20...cy-colonialism
__________________


Spoiler:



MB. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:37 PM #4
parmnion's Avatar
parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
parmnion's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MB. View Post
You mean the homophobic values we imposed on our colonies?

https://www.theguardian.com/world/20...cy-colonialism
Uganda is laughable considering what they done with their indian population under idi Amin
parmnion is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:39 PM #5
MB.'s Avatar
MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
MB.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


Default

Germany is laughable considering what they done with their Jewish population under Hitler

Your point being?
__________________


Spoiler:



MB. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:44 PM #6
Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Default

If you would of actually bothered to research into this topic, you would find as a user posted above it’s mostly at fault of the British Empire and other colonisers that imposed these social values.

But of course you didn’t. It was just an attempt to cause some friction on a forum where a good majority of its posters are LGBT! Nice try though!

Last edited by Samm; 10-06-2020 at 02:44 PM.
Samm is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:48 PM #7
Jessica. Jessica. is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Portugal
Posts: 24,133


Jessica. Jessica. is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Portugal
Posts: 24,133


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MB. View Post
You mean the homophobic values we imposed on our colonies?

https://www.theguardian.com/world/20...cy-colonialism
__________________
Jessica. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:49 PM #8
Cherie's Avatar
Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 61,563

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
Cherie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 61,563

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Samm View Post
If you would of actually bothered to research into this topic, you would find as a user posted above it’s mostly at fault of the British Empire and other colonisers that imposed these social values.

But of course you didn’t. It was just an attempt to cause some friction on a forum where a good majority of its posters are LGBT! Nice try though!
They aren't under British rule now though so change can happen?
__________________


'put a bit of lippy on and run a brush through your hair, we are alcoholics, not savages'
Cherie is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:52 PM #9
Oliver_W's Avatar
Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
Oliver_W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MB. View Post
You mean the homophobic values we imposed on our colonies?

https://www.theguardian.com/world/20...cy-colonialism
Quote:
Originally Posted by Samm View Post
If you would of actually bothered to research into this topic, you would find as a user posted above it’s mostly at fault of the British Empire and other colonisers that imposed these social values.

But of course you didn’t. It was just an attempt to cause some friction on a forum where a good majority of its posters are LGBT! Nice try though!
Then I guess it's lucky how much of the rest of the world (including the people who live in the place that started the British Empire) have grown up and moved on.
__________________


Oliver_W is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:53 PM #10
MB.'s Avatar
MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
MB.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Cherie View Post
They aren't under British rule now though so change can happen?
Because we did such a thorough job of forcing our Christian values upon them that homophobia has, in most cases, become both culturally ingrained and enshrined in law

That's like saying "well America hasn't been under British rule for three hundred years so why do they still speak English?"
__________________


Spoiler:



MB. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:54 PM #11
parmnion's Avatar
parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
parmnion's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Samm View Post
If you would of actually bothered to research into this topic, you would find as a user posted above it’s mostly at fault of the British Empire and other colonisers that imposed these social values.

But of course you didn’t. It was just an attempt to cause some friction on a forum where a good majority of its posters are LGBT! Nice try though!



I'm afraid they have continued it whilst we have rightly moved on...

Dont you think they should be challenged on it by the rest of the world?
parmnion is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:54 PM #12
MB.'s Avatar
MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


MB. MB. is offline
like the boys
MB.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 33,551

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Minh-Ly
Survivor 40: Michele


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Oliver_W View Post
Then I guess it's lucky how much of the rest of the world (including the people who live in the place that started the British Empire) have grown up and moved on.
Britain could have "grown up and moved on" from its love for colonial-era racism but we haven't
__________________


Spoiler:



MB. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:57 PM #13
Cherie's Avatar
Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 61,563

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
Cherie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 61,563

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MB. View Post
Because we did such a thorough job of forcing our Christian values upon them that homophobia has, in most cases, become both culturally ingrained and enshrined in law

That's like saying "well America hasn't been under British rule for three hundred years so why do they still speak English?"
that's a weird comparison, changing a countries language would be kinda crazy

laws on the other hand can be changed and countries can move on, look at Ireland in the 80s it was a Bastion of Catholicism, not any more due to progressive governments?
__________________


'put a bit of lippy on and run a brush through your hair, we are alcoholics, not savages'
Cherie is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 02:58 PM #14
Oliver_W's Avatar
Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
Oliver_W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MB. View Post
Britain could have "grown up and moved on" from its love for colonial-era racism but we haven't
Even if that were true, it doesn't mean those 34 African nations shouldn't have moved on from their homophobia.
__________________


Oliver_W is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:05 PM #15
Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by parmnion View Post
I'm afraid they have continued it whilst we have rightly moved on...

Dont you think they should be challenged on it by the rest of the world?
MB has explained that already.

We haven't "moved on" either, yes we have gay marriage and gay adaption but homophobia is still apparent in the UK and the western world. If you're not homosexual you can't say "we've moved on".
Samm is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:07 PM #16
Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Cherie View Post
that's a weird comparison, changing a countries language would be kinda crazy

laws on the other hand can be changed and countries can move on, look at Ireland in the 80s it was a Bastion of Catholicism, not any more due to progressive governments?
Some governments in Africa are corrupt due to the state we and the rest of the world left them in.
Samm is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:13 PM #17
parmnion's Avatar
parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
parmnion's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Samm View Post
MB has explained that already.

We haven't "moved on" either, yes we have gay marriage and gay adaption but homophobia is still apparent in the UK and the western world. If you're not homosexual you can't say "we've moved on".



So do you think they should be challenged on their outdated laws that ban same sex relationships or not?

Cause Britain has ended its ban on same sex relationships years ago...shouldn't we now be challenging other countries to do the same.!
parmnion is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:17 PM #18
Oliver_W's Avatar
Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
Oliver_W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Samm View Post
MB has explained that already.

We haven't "moved on" either, yes we have gay marriage and gay adaption but homophobia is still apparent in the UK and the western world. If you're not homosexual you can't say "we've moved on".
I'm gay and I've never had any real problems like sure there are some dickheads out there, but we're generally at the point where no-one gives a flying monkeys.
__________________


Oliver_W is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:20 PM #19
Tom4784 Tom4784 is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 45,095
Tom4784 Tom4784 is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 45,095
Default

Homohobia is no more, a straight person on a BB forum said so, the world has moved on!
Tom4784 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:21 PM #20
parmnion's Avatar
parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


parmnion parmnion is offline
Senior Member
parmnion's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: scotland
Posts: 41,610

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Hallie
BB18: Deborah


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Dezzy View Post
Homohobia is no more, a straight person on a BB forum said so, the world has moved on!
I'm sure I said the exact opposite to that.
parmnion is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:25 PM #21
Jigs Jigs is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 1,336

Favourites (more):
BBUSA22: Bayleigh
Survivor 40: Parvati
Jigs Jigs is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 1,336

Favourites (more):
BBUSA22: Bayleigh
Survivor 40: Parvati
Default

Many African and Native American civilizations always welcomed third genders, ambiguous gender norms and same-sex relations. That was, of course, until they were colonized and Christian values were imposed on them by their white rulers.

It's our fault things like this are still happening so I guess to answer your question, yes, we should all be speaking up about it way more!
Jigs is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:25 PM #22
Tom4784 Tom4784 is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 45,095
Tom4784 Tom4784 is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 45,095
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Oliver_W View Post
I'm gay and I've never had any real problems like sure there are some dickheads out there, but we're generally at the point where no-one gives a flying monkeys.
You're incredibly lucky and ultimately an outlier rather than the norm. Things are better than they used to be but there is always danger, there's always a need to be careful in public, to consider who might potentially start a situation that could lead to violence if you even try to hold the hand of someone of the same sex.

I'm bi, I know how things are different when I'm with a woman and when I'm with a man. It's different in a same sex relationship, you can't be as open as you could if you were with a woman, you've got to consider people around you and be careful. I've never felt in danger with a woman but I certainly have if I've gone anywhere with a man.

Bisexuals are unique in that regard, we get to experience the differences and know how the world changes when it thinks we're straight or gay (because bisexual isn't an option until you tell someone you are and then you have to deal with potential biphobia).
Tom4784 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:35 PM #23
Jake.'s Avatar
Jake. Jake. is offline
-
 
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 35,548


Jake. Jake. is offline
-
Jake.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 35,548


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Oliver_W View Post
I'm gay and I've never had any real problems like sure there are some dickheads out there, but we're generally at the point where no-one gives a flying monkeys.
Sorry but that’s really not the case.
Jake. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:37 PM #24
Oliver_W's Avatar
Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Oliver_W Oliver_W is offline
POW! BLAM!
Oliver_W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2015
Location: Bill's Secret Garden
Posts: 16,009

Favourites (more):
BBCanada 8: Chris
Apprentice 2019: Lottie


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jigs View Post
That was, of course, until they were colonized and Christian values were imposed on them by their white rulers.

It's our fault things like this are still happening so I guess to answer your question, yes, we should all be speaking up about it way more!
That's like forgiving a rapist because his victim was wearing a short skirt.


It's not anyone's fault but the nations themselves, they've had more than enough time to sort out their homophobia.
__________________


Oliver_W is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 10-06-2020, 03:42 PM #25
Jigs Jigs is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 1,336

Favourites (more):
BBUSA22: Bayleigh
Survivor 40: Parvati
Jigs Jigs is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 1,336

Favourites (more):
BBUSA22: Bayleigh
Survivor 40: Parvati
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Oliver_W View Post
That's like forgiving a rapist because his victim was wearing a short skirt.


It's not anyone's fault but the nations themselves, they've had more than enough time to sort out their homophobia.
I don't really know what to say to you. Go and tell them that then.
Jigs is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Reply

Bookmark/share this topic

Tags
34, 54, african, nations, relationships, sex


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 02:36 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
 

About Us ThisisBigBrother.com

"Big Brother and UK Television Forum. Est. 2001"

 

© 2023
no new posts