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04-04-2022, 12:05 PM | #1 | |||
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So if you were marrying into money would you be willing or not to sign a pre-nup? Reasons please.
Equally if you were minted would you want your partner to sign a pre-nup if you were to get married?
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04-04-2022, 12:09 PM | #2 | |||
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Yeah, I don't think it's fair that that person has to hand over half of their money if it was money they had prior to the relationship happening
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04-04-2022, 12:15 PM | #3 | |||
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Yep, think it's kind of the norm now or at least it will be with the introduction no fault divorce.
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04-04-2022, 12:22 PM | #4 | |||
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Yes ...
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04-04-2022, 12:33 PM | #5 | |||
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I don’t know, if someone asked me to sign one that would send signals to me that they have the intention to screw me over at some point and I have trust issues at the best of times
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04-04-2022, 12:43 PM | #6 | |||
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i think any agreement should take into account assets brought in to the marriage at the beginning. I think the key word is fairness
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04-04-2022, 12:47 PM | #7 | |||
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04-04-2022, 12:59 PM | #8 | ||
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On personal physical assets (right up to things like expensive cars/boats/etc.) yes, on "liquid" wealth and property no. If you have an issue with someone you intend to marry getting half of your wealth on divorce ... don't marry them. IMO who deserves what after several years of marriage becomes very murky, anything other than a 50/50 split is questionable in terms of fairness, because questions like "would partner A have been able to maintain this wealth without partner B's role in the relationship e.g. child-raising" strart to come up and are all but impossible to properly answer ... it's guesswork.
There should however be legal avenues that can be pursued when there's evidence of actual "love fraud" - i.e. the person was only EVER intending to marry and then divorce for financial gain, and had no intention of maintaining the relationship. |
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04-04-2022, 01:01 PM | #9 | |||
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Absolutely not. I'd come to an agreement beforehand with the person, that would then be put into a legal contract, but either dictating terms or having them dictated without input is a pretty bad way to start a marriage.
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04-04-2022, 01:06 PM | #10 | |||
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There isn't any incentive for men to get married these days.
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04-04-2022, 01:24 PM | #11 | ||
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From what I've read most of them don't really stand up to a good going over in court anyway; there are usually elements at play that weren't considered in the original contract and so plenty of "loopholes" for a good lawyer to exploit. Of course the famous one in Alf's Liar Liar example, that she was actually younger than she said, and while she was old enough to get married at the time of the marriage and prenup, she wasn't old enough to sign a contract without a co-signature from a parent or guardian, making the marriage valid but the prenup invalid. Movie gold, obviously. |
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04-04-2022, 01:25 PM | #12 | ||
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Have you ever heard of affection, Alf
Would also point out that my wife now earns more than me Last edited by Toy Soldier; 04-04-2022 at 01:25 PM. |
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04-04-2022, 01:30 PM | #13 | |||
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04-04-2022, 01:32 PM | #14 | |||
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04-04-2022, 01:33 PM | #15 | |||
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Not enough women on 4chan?
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04-04-2022, 01:34 PM | #16 | |||
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04-04-2022, 01:36 PM | #17 | |||
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For me to even consider it, there would have to be an infidelity clause included, cause if he cheats on me, I’m taking half of everything
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04-04-2022, 01:37 PM | #18 | |||
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Just like your info, Alf is a parody
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04-04-2022, 01:39 PM | #19 | |||
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It's only really going to be a thing if one person is hugely wealthy anyway, I don't think us normal folk will ever have to worry about it
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04-04-2022, 01:40 PM | #20 | |||
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What info in particular are you talking about?
You're just angry at me because I was right about most things whereas you really wanted me to be just a mad conspiracy theorist and it didn't turn out that way for you. Last edited by Alf; 04-04-2022 at 01:41 PM. |
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04-04-2022, 01:43 PM | #21 | |||
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I actually said you may be right about Hunter, but until any kind of actual accusation is made and evidence is provided, it's impossible to know, which is still the case afaik.
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04-04-2022, 01:43 PM | #22 | ||
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It's not really an issue for me any my wife, we got together at 21 and 19 and neither of us had **** to our names. Or careers of any kind. So literally everything we own and every aspect of each other's earnings is interwoven with other responsibilities/childcare etc... nothing to separate out at all. Though actually she has an old lamp she got from her aunt as a teenager that's worth a bit, and I guess I have some classic SNES games that would do OK on eBay . |
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04-04-2022, 01:45 PM | #23 | ||
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04-04-2022, 01:49 PM | #24 | |||
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I never said Trump was still President. I said the election was rigged and that Trump didn't hand over power to Biden |
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04-04-2022, 01:53 PM | #25 | |||
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Errrrrrrr...... not how I remember it. Pretty sure you were convinced the army were about to step-in on inauguration day. Think TS was involved in the convo's so maybe he can chip in with his recollections. I could be wrong but I think I'm remembering it correctly.
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