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View Poll Results: How deep does your dislike for certain people go? | ||||||
I try thinking about everyone in somewhat amicable terms. Nobody’s perfect | 0 | 0% | ||||
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I might not be everyone’s no.-1 fan but I don’t hate. I just grin-and-bear/avoid where possible | 1 | 9.09% | ||||
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No-doubt I dislike some people very much but again it’s just a case of avoidance | 3 | 27.27% | ||||
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When I hate someone, I really hate them but there’s always a good reason for it | 5 | 45.45% | ||||
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I’m low-key a jaded cynic about most people but 9/10 it doesn’t reach hate | 0 | 0% | ||||
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I don’t know. Such people aren’t going to occupy any cognisant rent-free headspace, so I don’t care | 2 | 18.18% | ||||
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30-06-2023, 06:22 PM | #1 | |||
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A basic fact of life is that you’re just going to have to cross paths with people you dislike very much from time to time but how strong can the actual feeling of hatred go in your case? Do you try and appreciate the supposed good in everyone or are you really not trying to suffer any fools?
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30-06-2023, 06:24 PM | #2 | |||
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ive not murdered anyone yet
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30-06-2023, 06:37 PM | #3 | |||
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"A basic fact of life is that you’re just going to have to cross paths with people you dislike very much"
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30-06-2023, 06:40 PM | #4 | |||
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4th one down, but there doesnt have to be a good reason.
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30-06-2023, 06:41 PM | #5 | |||
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Sod orf
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30-06-2023, 06:55 PM | #6 | |||
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Someone has to do something REALLY bad for me to purely hate them, there have been a few.
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30-06-2023, 07:02 PM | #7 | |||
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Ditto. I like to draw a line under things where I can but there are certain things that I’ll probably never, ever forgive certain people for and I really don’t feel bad about feeling that way. People who continue to disrespect you in the most indefensible ways aren’t automatically entitled to your niceness or forgiveness.
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Don’t let your regret be stronger than your gratitude. And don’t hang on to negativity. That’s all. Last edited by Redway; 30-06-2023 at 07:08 PM. |
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30-06-2023, 07:08 PM | #8 | ||
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30-06-2023, 07:10 PM | #9 | |||
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Yup. The last people I added to my hate list were from 2021 and nothing’s changed in those two years. I wouldn’t piss on them if they were rotting in hell fire. Definitely don’t want to see any of those idiots again.
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30-06-2023, 07:13 PM | #10 | ||
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Yes be true to who you are , some people are so out for themselves and their narrative they'll throw friends or family under the bus.
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30-06-2023, 07:15 PM | #11 | |||
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And they’ll wonder why you keep giving them the cold shoulder every time you are misfortuned to see them, as if they don’t know what they did. It’s better when these things stay low-key though because if it becomes a big talking point you’ll be painted as the bully and the bad guy. They’re rarely capable of telling the full story and the foulness of what they did to and said about you. The people around them who know them (or at least think they do) but don’t know you (or maybe, maybe not, they know you a little bit but never really liked you) will be more inclined to go with their side of the story (because they just don’t know you) but I do believe that karma deals with those people when the time’s right.
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Don’t let your regret be stronger than your gratitude. And don’t hang on to negativity. That’s all. Last edited by Redway; 30-06-2023 at 07:18 PM. |
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30-06-2023, 07:19 PM | #12 | ||
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30-06-2023, 07:20 PM | #13 | |||
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Hopefully. The battle’s ultimately the Lord’s so sometimes you’ve just got to trust that God will deal with them mercilessly (and I mean mercilessly) when the time comes.
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Don’t let your regret be stronger than your gratitude. And don’t hang on to negativity. That’s all. Last edited by Redway; 29-08-2023 at 02:02 PM. |
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30-06-2023, 07:24 PM | #14 | |||
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I told my brother that I hoped God struck him down for what he and my sister in law did, and I meant every word.
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30-06-2023, 07:28 PM | #15 | |||
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And listen, I’m really sorry you had such a bad experience with your brother and sister-in-law. It sounds like they were horrendously in the wrong.
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Don’t let your regret be stronger than your gratitude. And don’t hang on to negativity. That’s all. Last edited by Redway; 30-06-2023 at 07:35 PM. |
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30-06-2023, 07:42 PM | #16 | |||
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I hope so..
A nemesis of mine from the early 80s was diagnosed throat cancer, he was given 3 months to live...8 bloody months ago. |
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30-06-2023, 07:42 PM | #17 | |||
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30-06-2023, 07:47 PM | #18 | |||
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I can’t even imagine how tough that must have been for you.
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30-06-2023, 07:53 PM | #19 | |||
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POW! BLAM!
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I'm waaay too chill and meditate too much to hold onto hate I don't give such things the headspace.
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30-06-2023, 07:58 PM | #20 | |||
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I’m extremely chill ordinarily but when it comes to having a valid reason to hate someone I’m one of those people who just doesn’t let it go.
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30-06-2023, 08:36 PM | #21 | |||
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POW! BLAM!
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One might be inclined to ask you if you believe that's a productive use of your headspace?
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30-06-2023, 08:42 PM | #22 | |||
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Plenty of other things, no doubt, but when someone crosses the line it’s just another thing that sticks. If you’re the sort of person who just moves on and kicks people like that out of your head completely, more power to you.
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30-06-2023, 08:44 PM | #23 | |||
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Outbursts of irrationsl hatred when exploded into a pillow costs you thousands in la, for an hour long session. It must help the mind and soul. |
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30-06-2023, 08:53 PM | #24 | |||
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POW! BLAM!
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I tend to confront people who I feel have wronged me, but maybe I'm lucky in that I've not been on the receiving end of anything that bad (yet), so it could be argued I've not had to opportunity to really seethe.
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30-06-2023, 09:13 PM | #25 | |||
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I know there’s a crusty cynicism about me that pops up here-and-there but by-and-large I’m a die-hard lover of humankind (if quite a reserved one) and very easy-going interpersonally for the most-part. It’s not like I take pleasure in hating on people but people like me and Kate kind of have been on the receiving end of things that really were *that* bad and when you get to that point you’re going to be a lot more jaded and bitter against people who really did a number on you. It’s not always that obvious but there comes a point where you lose every last shred of respect and affection you might’ve had for that person and ultimately all these things are experiences that often stick, inasmuch as you’d probably rather forget.
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