[Kate!]

Update.

So we are off to Liverpool again, confirmed on the 11th December to see the Rock n Roll pantomime Rapunzel. Staying over at a lovely hotel by the Albert Dock. The Christmas Market will be on in the city centre. I'm so excited.

Next year in April I'm more than likely travelling to London, I wanted to go to Vanessa this time as she has travelled to me each visit so far. It is not set in stone yet as we'll need to assess finances after Christmas but it's looking quite possible atm.

The show in London we'd be seeing is called Now That's What I Call A Musical and it stars Nina Wadia (Eastenders Zainab) and Sonia (80s popular and UK Eurovision entry) It's all 80s music which we both absolutely love.

It's truly lovely to have things to look forward to.

[Ammi]

…we’re loving your style, ladies……it’s giving Patsy and Eddie in the city…fabulous……

[Cherie]

aw you two, its lovely to see your friendship thrive

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…we’re loving your style, ladies……it’s giving Patsy and Eddie in the city…fabulous……

Originally Posted by Cherie

aw you two, its lovely to see your friendship thrive

I've always seen myself as a Patsy lol.

Lovely comments ladies. This is why I love you so much.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…we’re loving your style, ladies……it’s giving Patsy and Eddie in the city…fabulous……

It’s giving Effel and Dot.

[Benjamin]

That musical sounds fun though!

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

It’s giving Effel and Dot.

Originally Posted by Benjamin

That musical sounds fun though!

and you're little Willie.

And yes the musical sounds really great. I'm almost wishing time away waiting for it.

[AnnieK]

Sounds fab ladies

[Kate!]

Only 3 more sleeps till we go!

[Ammi]

…two more sleeps, an exciting week for the ladies……

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Pigeon Lady

…two more sleeps, an exciting week for the ladies……

I had a very disturbed night. Bad dream. I was on the Titanic and then I was in the water with no safety jacket! I woke up before I drowned phew!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Holly Christmas

I had a very disturbed night. Bad dream. I was on the Titanic and then I was in the water with no safety jacket! I woke up before I drowned phew!

Such dreams can symbolise that you are facing significant challenges or changes in your life. You may feel like you are "in over your head" with responsibilities or situations that seem unmanageable. These could include work-related stress, personal relationships, or major life transitions. The sensation of drowning in a dream can be a metaphor for how these challenges are consuming your energy and attention, making it difficult for you to stay afloat.

…I don’t know if any of that would apply…/…I was just reading it on a site…

[Cherie]

Exciting, never been to Liverpool ...

[Kate!]

It could apply yes Ammi. Not in a major way but yes it makes sense. I'm virtually running the household now, Karl's mum can't do as much as she used to so I take care of it all. Yes it's a challenge but I feel I'm doing well and yet it can be overwhelming a bit trying to remember and juggling everything.

Thank you xx @Pigeon Lady

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Cherie Christmas

Exciting, never been to Liverpool ...

Oh it's really excellent Cherie. Loads to see, huge amount of shops, street markets etc. If you look for deals hotels can be very reasonable and it has a massive library with exhibits, museums and a few Theatres. 3 train stations. It's an experience. And the Albert Dock with the ferry port and plenty of bars etc.

Could stay for more than 1 night easily and not get bored.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Holly Christmas

It could apply yes Ammi. Not in a major way but yes it makes sense. I'm virtually running the household now, Karl's mum can't do as much as she used to so I take care of it all. Yes it's a challenge but I feel I'm doing well and yet it can be overwhelming a bit trying to remember and juggling everything.

Thank you xx @Pigeon Lady

…I’m sure that you’re doing wonderfully, Kate…but everything doesn’t always have to be juggled…some things can be put aside and wait …self care is the most important thing, otherwise the overwhelming can just envelope it all…take time for yourself to make sure that you’re replenishing your energy levels…both physically and emotionally…Liverpool will hopefully help that a lot……

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Holly Christmas

Oh it's really excellent Cherie. Loads to see, huge amount of shops, street markets etc. If you look for deals hotels can be very reasonable and it has a massive library with exhibits, museums and a few Theatres. 3 train stations. It's an experience. And the Albert Dock with the ferry port and plenty of bars etc.

Could stay for more than 1 night easily and not get bored.

When my girl friends came last weekend they pointed out that trains go directly from Norwich to Liverpool so we might have to have a weekend away...

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Pigeon Lady

…I’m sure that you’re doing wonderfully, Kate…but everything doesn’t always have to be juggled…some things can be put aside and wait …self care is the most important thing, otherwise the overwhelming can just envelope it all…take time for yourself to make sure that you’re replenishing your energy levels…both physically and emotionally…Liverpool will hopefully help that a lot……

Yes an occasional break is lovely Ammi. I don't go for long but when I do Karl steps in. I'm lucky in that respect. I'm just so glad we still have his mum at 83 years of age and she's so lovely. I get on with her very well, she made me welcome from the start. I'd known her a couple of years before I moved in. We took her out in the wheelchair for the first time a few days ago when the weather was decent and she loved it. Life's.little pleasures.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Holly Christmas

It could apply yes Ammi. Not in a major way but yes it makes sense. I'm virtually running the household now, Karl's mum can't do as much as she used to so I take care of it all. Yes it's a challenge but I feel I'm doing well and yet it can be overwhelming a bit trying to remember and juggling everything.

Thank you xx @Pigeon Lady

Having a routine can help, a washing day, a food shop day, a cleaning day ... a day to yourself day

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Cherie Christmas

When my girl friends came last weekend they pointed out that trains go directly from Norwich to Liverpool so we might have to have a weekend away...

I'd highly recommend it. I can give you recommendations hotel wise and eating out if you like if you decide to go.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Holly Christmas

I'd highly recommend it. I can give you recommendations hotel wise and eating out if you like if you decide to go.

Thank you will take you up on that sometime Kate xx

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cherie Christmas

When my girl friends came last weekend they pointed out that trains go directly from Norwich to Liverpool so we might have to have a weekend away...

…living close to Norwich is just the best thing, isn’t it…it’s the gateway to the world, I’m thinking…plus lovely sparkly Christmas decorations/lights in the centre……

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Cherie Christmas

Having a routine can help, a washing day, a food shop day, a cleaning day ... a day to yourself day

I tend to do a bit of all of those every couple of days and I do still manage some me time. I'm quite organised now I've been doing it for a while. Thank you Cherie for that. Routine is good. Ironing is the only chore I'm not fond of but I do it little and often to keep on top. The overwhelming part is mainly if we ever lost Joan.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Holly Christmas

Yes an occasional break is lovely Ammi. I don't go for long but when I do Karl steps in. I'm lucky in that respect. I'm just so glad we still have his mum at 83 years of age and she's so lovely. I get on with her very well, she made me welcome from the start. I'd known her a couple of years before I moved in. We took her out in the wheelchair for the first time a few days ago when the weather was decent and she loved it. Life's.little pleasures.

…when my mother in law answers her phone…(…she’s in her 90’s…)…she always says…’hello darling, I’m still alive…!!!!!!’….Im glad that Karl’s mom likes her wheelchair, she’ll be able to be a part of so much more than she was before…

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Pigeon Lady

…when my mother in law answers her phone…(…she’s in her 90’s…)…she always says…’hello darling, I’m still alive…!!!!!!’….Im glad that Karl’s mom likes her wheelchair, she’ll be able t9 be a part of so much more than she was before…

Yes, she didn't have much of a life when she couldn't get out anymore. Even taking stuff out to the wheelie bin is hard for her so I do all that.