[Freddythefrog]

For not saying something to his face after the suggestion box task - but surely everyone wrote something on their card which had not been said to the person's face!!

Why then aim so much venom at Dexter - some one had a go many of the housemates.....

Dan obviously cannot handle criticism but is very happy to criticise - how original!

[joeysteele]

Just maybe if everyone knew anything negative that was said about them in those messages and who said then they may well just challenge the person if they dared to reveal they said it.

Full credit to Dexter absolutely though,he did eventually reveal he had said it and then even more to his credit, when challenged by Dan, withdrew the words he had said in the message.

A good and satisfactory outcome, just a shame anyone else who had anything negative said about themhasn't been able to get the same resolving of the issue Dan and Dexter were able to come to.

[letmein]

This again?

[Kizzy]

I know, wow dan overkill on the forum or what haha!

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I know, wow dan overkill on the forum or what haha!

I know,Dan's supporters don't need to do anything other than counter balance the acidic views expressed on the threads currently being made as to him.
There must have been over 10 made in the last few hours alone, all from people who don't even want him there too.

[BigBrotherfan4ever]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I know,Dan's supporters don't need to do anything other than counter balance the acidic views expressed on the threads currently being made as to him.
There must have been over 10 made in the last few hours alone, all from people who don't even want him there too.

Lol

[fingers]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I know,Dan's supporters don't need to do anything other than counter balance the acidic views expressed on the threads currently being made as to him.
There must have been over 10 made in the last few hours alone, all from people who don't even want him there too.

Let them post their infantile gay jibes the voting public won't see them and will vote as they please.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I know, wow dan overkill on the forum or what haha!

Better to have negative threads than no threads (twins, sophie etc) I say

Originally Posted by fingers

Let them post their infantile gay jibes the voting public won't see them and will vote as they please.

Where in this thread has there been a gay gibe? Not liking someone who happens to be gay doesnt mean its because they are gay or anything...if you see any homophobic posts, report them.

[flamingGalah!]

Yes I have not seen anyone say they don't like Dan because he is gay??

I am gay myself & cannot stand him, because I find him arrogant, full of himself & bitchy...

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

Yes I have not seen anyone say they don't like Dan because he is gay??

I am gay myself & cannot stand him, because I find him arrogant, full of himself & bitchy...

I know. He says he's not bitchy, but he's always talking about Dexter when he's not there. Ugh!

[fingers]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Better to have negative threads than no threads (twins, sophie etc) I say

Where in this thread has there been a gay gibe? Not liking someone who happens to be gay doesnt mean its because they are gay or anything...if you see any homophobic posts, report them.

Call me old fashioned but calling a man a bitch used to be questioning his manhood.

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by fingers

Call me old fashioned but calling a man a bitch used to be questioning his manhood.

What?!? lol

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by fingers

Call me old fashioned but calling a man a bitch used to be questioning his manhood.

Never ever heard of this... :S

[Indy]

Originally Posted by fingers

Call me old fashioned but calling a man a bitch used to be questioning his manhood.

While this is precisely why I think he took offense to that word and had no issue at all with being accused of isolating people, it's not really accurate. He has been bitchy, even gossiping about Sallie right behind her back in the garden. If he were straight, it would still apply.

[fingers]

Originally Posted by Indy

While this is precisely why I think he took offense to that word and had no issue at all with being accused of isolating people, it's not really accurate. He has been bitchy, even gossiping about Sallie right behind her back in the garden. If he were straight, it would still apply.

It really cannot be applied to "straight" men, check Wikipedia's definitions.

[joeysteele]

Very and genuinely sadly,I haven't been able to say though BB so far this series that I agree with Vicky,that saddens me a fair bit but no one can agree on everything.

However, I am now over the moon and really happy to say here now, 'I agree with Vicky', when she said negative threads are better than no threads. Spot on.

I am of the thinking that all publicity, good and bad, is good publicity anyway. It keeps news and people in others minds.

[Indy]

Originally Posted by fingers

It really cannot be applied to "straight" men, check Wikipedia's definitions.

Sure, I'll check the site where fundamentalist Christians have been forcing the deletion of multiple non-Christian religious and gay rights leaders and topics over the past several years for an accurate definition of a slang term as it applies to homosexuals vs straight males.

Or I could just refer to the context in which it's used on a daily basis in real life...

[Sun Tzu.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Better to have negative threads than no threads (twins, sophie etc) I say

Where in this thread has there been a gay gibe? Not liking someone who happens to be gay doesnt mean its because they are gay or anything...if you see any homophobic posts, report them.

Can't believe Fingers said that. So if you hate him, you are homophobic?

[BigBrotherfan4ever]

[QUOTE=Vicky.;6094093]Better to have negative threads than no threads (twins, sophie etc) I say your spot on Vicky, I would be rather be talked than not talked about at all, good or bad Dan is a great HM, at least he has opinions, & doesn't sit on the fence, like other HM seem to be doing .....IMHO

[ThisIsNickkk]

The difference is, Dexter threw Dan under the bus, that's why he was pissed.

It's not a case of saying it to his face, it's the case that Dexter tried to make out Michael was his friend, when he couldn't care less about him. He was a pawn in his slimy little game. Then, he used the task to throw Dan under the bus so he appeared to be the superior one and that he cared about Michael, when in fact, Dexter is a selfish and obnoxious... I'm not surprised he has no friends on the outside world if he just treads on people to get what he wants.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by fingers

It really cannot be applied to "straight" men, check Wikipedia's definitions.

It is applied to straight men too though, very very often. If anyone bitches, they bitch. No matter what their sexuality or gender.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by ThisIsNickkk

The difference is, Dexter threw Dan under the bus, that's why he was pissed.

It's not a case of saying it to his face, it's the case that Dexter tried to make out Michael was his friend, when he couldn't care less about him. He was a pawn in his slimy little game. Then, he used the task to throw Dan under the bus so he appeared to be the superior one and that he cared about Michael, when in fact, Dexter is a selfish and obnoxious... I'm not surprised he has no friends on the outside world if he just treads on people to get what he wants.

Dexter didnt know Michael was going to be able to 'save' one of them though when the suggestion box task was on. So its a bit unfair to say that he couldnt care less and such..as he obviously did care or he wouldnt have put in that suggestion to begin with.

[lostalex]

Are people actually getting this upset over a thread made by someone who has 10 posts?

[ThisIsNickkk]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

It is applied to straight men too though, very very often. If anyone bitches, they bitch. No matter what their sexuality or gender.

Indeed.

When people go on about Dan being a stereotypical gay, they don't realise they're stereotyping too...

Not to mention there's a difference between giving your opinion on something and bitching.

Anyone that says they have never discussed someone without the person being there is a liar. It happens every year, the twins were talking about Michael the other day when he wasn't there. Jen was talking behind Dan's back the other day... she couldn't say it to his face though.

That being said, they all talk about people behind their backs in that sense, but it seems the forum has gunned for Dan, unfortunately.

[lostalex]

Dexter is far more of a "stereotypical gay" than Dan is.

Dexter is way more "faggy". (pardon my french)