[Ramsay]

I've been the "other guy" a good few times but no, i'd never cheat on my girlfriend.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

I don't think you realise how wrong and hurtful cheating is when you are young.

When you're on the wrong end of it you do.

[Toy Soldier]

If either me or my wife developed feelings for someone else we'd just be honest about it. There's no point not being, to be honest.

Also, I (both of us) think that this "emotional cheating" thing is utter bollocks, you should be able to have as many people in your life as you want who you can turn to emotionally and be emotionally close to, and whether they're male or female shouldn't matter. You only get one life... Closing yourself off to close relationships seems like a needless waste. If your partner having emotional closeness with someone else makes you feel insecure then you have problems already. In my opinion.

[Lostie!]

I detest the whole principle of cheating, I'd never cheat and I'd never be the bit on the side either.

And if someone cheated on me, they'd get no second chances.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

If either me or my wife developed feelings for someone else we'd just be honest about it. There's no point not being, to be honest.

Also, I (both of us) think that this "emotional cheating" thing is utter bollocks, you should be able to have as many people in your life as you want who you can turn to emotionally and be emotionally close to, and whether they're male or female shouldn't matter. You only get one life... Closing yourself off to close relationships seems like a needless waste. If your partner having emotional closeness with someone else makes you feel insecure then you have problems already. In my opinion.

How would you feel if you came down stairs, say,to get a drink of water at 1 am and your wife was in the living room texting a "friend" ie a man on her phone?

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

How would you feel if you came down stairs, say,to get a drink of water at 1 am and your wife was in the living room texting a "friend" ie a man on her phone?

Err, she has plenty of male friends who she texts at various times.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Err, she has plenty of male friends who she texts at various times.

[Ross.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I wonder if she has a secret phone for this man and a bag of clothes hidden in the boot of her car LT

[Toy Soldier]

Seriously though, life is waaaaaaayyyy too short for co-dependant, controlling relationships. Maybe I'm a hippy?

[Ramsay]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Err, she has plenty of male friends who she texts at various times.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Ross.

I wonder if she has a secret phone for this man and a bag of clothes hidden in the boot of her car LT

Poor TS

I wonder if the man in question is pregnant?

[Toy Soldier]

She's not going to get better than yours truly tbh. She's welcome to give it a go .

[LeatherTrumpet]

TS comes home and his wife is naked getting battered by 2 men in both holes and he is like

"Darling, I didnt know we had company, I would have brought wine"

later



"er Darling, who were these 2 men"


"Of for gawds sake TS cant I have some work colleges over without 20 questions and your constant checking up on me??"

[Kizzy]

I've been the cheater and been cheated on hard to say which hurt me more.

[Toy Soldier]

Just so long as everyone's been AIDS tested.

[Toy Soldier]

The speed you've managed to get from texts to DP is a bit worrying though, LT. Does someone have some jealousy / possessiveness issues maybe?

[Natalie.]

Haven't cheated
It's horrible,the things it can do to the person who was cheated on.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

The speed you've managed to get from texts to DP is a bit worrying though, LT. Does someone have some jealousy / possessiveness issues maybe?

I am a naturally suspicious person and dont trust no one


im damaged goods, DONT LOOK AT ME

[Toy Soldier]

Did you get burned LT? Or is it a mummy thing?

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Did you get burned LT? Or is it a mummy thing?

like kizzy i have been in both camps and its ****ed me up bigtime

but if I had my time again i would never cheat

[Toy Soldier]

Well I thought I hadn't cheated but it turns out I've done an absolute tonne of emotional cheating! Oh well...

[Kyle]

Its gotta be said you are doing a lot of fantasising about TS and his wife. I actually thought it was Kirk you had a man crush on.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Its gotta be said you are doing a lot of fantasising about TS and his wife. I actually thought it was Kirk you had a man crush on.

TS and Mrs TS

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

TS and Mrs TS

Looks like they are wearing one of my GCSE art projects.

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

TS and Mrs TS

That's me, but it's not Mrs TS. We didn't cheat together but we did simulate breastfeeding each other for a while... No skin to skin contact just curling in the fetal position and snuggling in. Is that emotional cheating though?? I guess I used her as a bit of an emotional crutch. Good old Mrs Johnson. God rest her soul.