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reece(:
07-06-2017, 09:45 PM
This moment was unintentionally a mess :joker::joker::joker:
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 09:46 PM
Perched for tibb to overlook it when if it was Lotan or Tom they would be baying for blood
https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ead3a3991ea11c782538a9ab7ef2df3/tumblr_onmeortEeA1uc6xbco3_400.gif
Denver
07-06-2017, 09:47 PM
Imagine making a big deal about telling producers then (fake) cry when it is revealed
Fetch The Bolt Cutters
07-06-2017, 09:47 PM
Perched for tibb to overlook it when if it was Lotan or Tom they would be baying for blood
https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ead3a3991ea11c782538a9ab7ef2df3/tumblr_onmeortEeA1uc6xbco3_400.gif
https://media.tenor.com/images/bddae3139cf047eb58dffc59129c90a2/tenor.gif
Ross.
07-06-2017, 09:48 PM
This moment was unintentionally a mess :joker::joker::joker:
:joker::joker:
Shaun
07-06-2017, 09:49 PM
perched for jordan to carry on pretending he isn't letting tibb prejudices cloud his judgment bc he's really edgy [gif]
UserSince2005
07-06-2017, 09:50 PM
I can't believe it, what a sly boy.
Nothing i hate more than a cheater.
Cheated on everyone hes been with!!!
Perched for tibb to overlook it when if it was Lotan or Tom they would be baying for blood
https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ead3a3991ea11c782538a9ab7ef2df3/tumblr_onmeortEeA1uc6xbco3_400.gif
This tea is burning me
LukeB
07-06-2017, 09:50 PM
perched for jordan to carry on pretending he isn't letting tibb prejudices cloud his judgment bc he's really edgy [gif]
:joker:
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 09:51 PM
perched for jordan to carry on pretending he isn't letting tibb prejudices cloud his judgment bc he's really edgy [gif]
Whoa you mad cause someone you spend 2 days in a musty caravan with just got exposed huh
Shaun
07-06-2017, 09:51 PM
Whoa you mad cause someone you spend 2 days in a musty caravan with just got exposed huh
just pointing out you're desperate to be different and it's quite sad.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 09:52 PM
just pointing out you're desperate to be different and it's quite sad.
Setting trends since 2009!
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 09:52 PM
just pointing out you're desperate to be different and it's quite sad.
Let's take a moment to calm down and stick to discussing housemates :pat:
Oliver_W
07-06-2017, 09:53 PM
Weren't most of them highschool "relationships"? They don't really count, so who cares? Especially as he was working out his gayness.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 09:53 PM
Perched for tibb to overlook it when if it was Lotan or Tom they would be baying for blood
https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ead3a3991ea11c782538a9ab7ef2df3/tumblr_onmeortEeA1uc6xbco3_400.gif
this is so true.
http://i.imgur.com/hteCTWc.gif
Shaun
07-06-2017, 09:53 PM
Let's take a moment to calm down and stick to discussing housemates :pat:
didn't understand that without a tired gif after it, sorry
Denver
07-06-2017, 09:54 PM
just pointing out you're desperate to be different and it's quite sad.
He is a housemate you cant get personal everytime someone calls him out
Braden
07-06-2017, 09:54 PM
Raph channeling BB16's Jade and her polyamorous lifestyle. Life imitiating art, imitating life.
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 09:55 PM
this is so true.
It would seem
https://uploadir.com/u/nxuabgzi
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 09:55 PM
He is a housemate you cant get personal everytime someone calls him out
:clap1:
Black Dagger
07-06-2017, 09:55 PM
He has always seemed remorseful of it. I remember very well about our heart to heart about it in that lovely caravan x
Ross.
07-06-2017, 09:55 PM
Raph channeling BB16's Jade and her polyamorous lifestyle. Life imitiating art, imitating life.
Raph's ARTPOP could mean anything
Santa's NaughtiNess
07-06-2017, 09:55 PM
Raph channeling BB16's Jade and her polyamorous lifestyle. Life imitiating art, imitating life.
:joker:
Nice one Raph, every holes a goal son.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 09:57 PM
Nice one Raph, every holes a goal son.
He seems more of a bottom to me :think:
Daniel.
07-06-2017, 09:59 PM
It's not gonna be fair discussing BB when Raph's friends get defensive every time someone makes a comment about him :/
Lostie!
07-06-2017, 09:59 PM
He is a housemate you cant get personal everytime someone calls him out
Pretty sure making barbed comments about his supporters on here is personal too :think:
Moosething
07-06-2017, 10:00 PM
Perched for tibb to overlook it when if it was Lotan or Tom they would be baying for blood
https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ead3a3991ea11c782538a9ab7ef2df3/tumblr_onmeortEeA1uc6xbco3_400.gif
Where's the lie tho
Raph's ARTPOP could mean anything
:joker:
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:01 PM
Pretty sure making barbed comments about his supporters on here is personal too :think:
But it is true TIBB slag fake criers of till the end of the earth but soon as it is one of their own they can do no wrong
Santa's NaughtiNess
07-06-2017, 10:01 PM
We all made mistakes when we were young. I made a lot myself, so I can't judge.
It's not gonna be fair discussing BB when Raph's friends get defensive every time someone makes a comment about him :/
:clap1:
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:02 PM
It's not gonna be fair discussing BB when Raph's friends get defensive every time someone makes a comment about him :/
it is literally the same as someone saying "i hated Bea" and you replying "she was a queennn <3333"
Fetch The Bolt Cutters
07-06-2017, 10:02 PM
Raph's ARTPOP could mean anything
sfgddgddhgb
Daniel.
07-06-2017, 10:03 PM
it is literally the same as someone saying "i hated Bea" and you replying "she was a queennn <3333"
Well no because I'm not friends with Bea so I'm not basing it on knowing her before?
Fetch The Bolt Cutters
07-06-2017, 10:03 PM
it is literally the same as someone saying "i hated Bea" and you replying "she was a queennn <3333"
this is solid fact though
I get Raph has friends on here and maybe he's decent but on the show he's not looked good, instead he has come across a bit of a tool with his VT. can't blame the public for not warming to him.
Firewire
07-06-2017, 10:06 PM
Yeah the whole applauding thing was a bit of a mess
I hope he feels remorseful for it because it's a pretty ****ty thing to do once, never mind four (or more) times
armand.kay
07-06-2017, 10:07 PM
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smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:07 PM
Sounds more like young people enjoying themselves.:shrug:
You can't cheat unless you make a commitment of some sort, not that I have any clue if they had or not.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:07 PM
Well no because I'm not friends with Bea so I'm not basing it on knowing her before?
Right, but it's still you supporting someone and somebody else disagreeing
I mean tbh I'd pay Raph the £100k if it meant he'd cheat on me
Daniel.
07-06-2017, 10:08 PM
Right, but it's still you supporting someone and somebody else disagreeing
But you lot are being bias because you knew him before, I bet you wouldn't defend if you hadn't met him, and it's making BB annoying to discuss because it's like walking on eggshells
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:09 PM
Sounds more like young people enjoying themselves.:shrug:
You can't cheat unless you make a commitment of some sort, not that I have any clue if they had or not.
I bet the three girls and the guy he cheated on had a great time! Nothing more fun than your boyfriend cheating on you.
reece(:
07-06-2017, 10:09 PM
Sounds more like young people enjoying themselves.:shrug:
There's no enjoyment in a relationship with cheating :shrug:
Withano
07-06-2017, 10:10 PM
I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:10 PM
Perched for tibb to overlook it when if it was Lotan or Tom they would be baying for blood
https://68.media.tumblr.com/2ead3a3991ea11c782538a9ab7ef2df3/tumblr_onmeortEeA1uc6xbco3_400.gif
Lotan or Tom would actually be funny if they bragged about it in the task.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:10 PM
But you lot are being bias because you knew him before, I bet you wouldn't defend if you hadn't met him, and it's making BB annoying to discuss because it's like walking on eggshells
And at the same time you're biased because you know it's him/you already dislike him so you're upping the hate
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:10 PM
But you lot are being bias because you knew him before, I bet you wouldn't defend if you hadn't met him, and it's making BB annoying to discuss because it's like walking on eggshells
Say what you want, Josy has said he is free to be discussed as a housemate.
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:11 PM
I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.
Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy
Daniel.
07-06-2017, 10:12 PM
And at the same time you're biased because you know it's him/you already dislike him so you're upping the hate
I don't dislike him from the forum, but I am disliking him on the show and I will say if I want
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:12 PM
But you lot are being bias because you knew him before, I bet you wouldn't defend if you hadn't met him, and it's making BB annoying to discuss because it's like walking on eggshells
Imagine yourself in the same situation had one of your friends gone in, you'd be supporting him/her no matter what. None of us are applauding him for cheating though
ChristmasNeeve
07-06-2017, 10:12 PM
I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.
I'm sure being cheated on feels the same regardless though. If you want to explore stay single :shrug:
Withano
07-06-2017, 10:13 PM
Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy
True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:13 PM
I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.
It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:13 PM
I don't dislike him from the forum, but I am disliking him on the show and I will say if I want
As will we all
If your pal was in there you'd be in the same position, it's luck of the draw
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:13 PM
It's not gonna be fair discussing BB when Raph's friends get defensive every time someone makes a comment about him :/
It does seem like some people want to bring him down on anything just because he is from TIBB.
No wonder not many Forum members ever try to get on BB.
Locke.
07-06-2017, 10:14 PM
Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:14 PM
Imagine yourself in the same situation had one of your friends gone in, you'd be supporting him/her no matter what. None of us are applauding him for cheating though
This,there's nothing wrong with supporting friends. all of the housemates have friends who will support them so why is it different for Raph?
I think they were probably applauding him for being honest. He could've easily just said "oh my partner was cheating so I cheated on revenge" or some bull**** lie, and he could've just not included the fact he cheated on his boyfriend
He was honest and put himself out there and the whole nation/all BOTS audience + 2 people watched and know that he's cheated, and that may affect future relationships (maybe not romantic, since he doesn't 'believe in love', but regardless he was under the impression the nation's gonna define him as a cheater)
ChristmasNeeve
07-06-2017, 10:14 PM
Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this
[emoji23]
Black Dagger
07-06-2017, 10:15 PM
Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this
Excuse me I dont lie
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 10:15 PM
True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.
He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.
Withano
07-06-2017, 10:16 PM
It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.
It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?
ChristmasNeeve
07-06-2017, 10:16 PM
It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?
Um no
It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?
Not sure, still hurts I guess
Braden
07-06-2017, 10:17 PM
Once is an instance, twice is a hobby.
I don't actually care that he did it tbh, but I'm just ****-stirring.
Withano
07-06-2017, 10:18 PM
Um no
Oh lol. I would have thought it would be less of a blow. I've not been on either side.
Lostie!
07-06-2017, 10:18 PM
But it is true TIBB slag fake criers of till the end of the earth but soon as it is one of their own they can do no wrong
What's also true is the fact that Raph is the only TiBBer in the house so all these bitchy comments about his friends on the site (and there's been a few) aren't really called for.
EspeonBB
07-06-2017, 10:18 PM
Yeah the applause after was inappropriate (but in a funny way). I don't know the full story but cheating isn't something to be applauded imo
reece(:
07-06-2017, 10:18 PM
Messy tho since wasn't Natalie on BBUS being condemned for allegedly cheating on James and called the devil incarnate etc
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:19 PM
He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.
He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:19 PM
Weren't most of them highschool "relationships"? They don't really count, so who cares? Especially as he was working out his gayness.
We're not talking about mistakes though or cheating that was regretful. He said as much in his VT that monogamy is not his thing.
reece(:
07-06-2017, 10:19 PM
Once is an instance, twice is a hobby.
I don't actually care that he did it tbh, but I'm just ****-stirring.
Rebecca to investigate?
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:19 PM
What's also true is the fact that Raph is the only TiBBer in the house so all these bitchy comments about his friends on the site (and there's been a few) aren't really called for.
The only on es i saw are that they are biased
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:19 PM
The only on es i saw are that they are biased
you've spelt loyal wrong
ChristmasNeeve
07-06-2017, 10:19 PM
Oh lol. I would have thought it would be less of a blow. I've not been on either side.
Well I havent either but besides the betrayal of being cheated on you could also be left thinking your whole relationship was a lie and your b/f was possibly repulsed everytime you did anything
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 10:20 PM
He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience
Was this after the 3rd or 4th?
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:20 PM
Raph's ARTPOP could mean anything
:joker:
Firewire
07-06-2017, 10:20 PM
I don't dislike him from the forum, but I am disliking him on the show and I will say if I want
Now this is a bit of a lie isn't it
Santa's NaughtiNess
07-06-2017, 10:20 PM
Maybe he's polyamorous like Jade.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:21 PM
It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?
No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.
He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.
armand.kay
07-06-2017, 10:21 PM
Maybe he's polyamorous like Jade.
It's not really cheating when you have consent
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:21 PM
it is literally the same as someone saying "i hated Bea" and you replying "she was a queennn <3333"
To be fair
*someone makes negative comment*
*someone makes positive comment*
Isn't the same as the personal jabs being thrown in this thread from both sides.
Cherry Christmas
07-06-2017, 10:22 PM
Once is an instance, twice is a hobby.
I don't actually care that he did it tbh, but I'm just ****-stirring.
:laugh: a new side to you Braden
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:22 PM
Sounds more to me that he was playing the field, sowing his wild oats.
I don't know what is considered a girlfriend or boyfriend these days, do you go by how many dates you have?
I can understand the upset if you have been together a while and consider yourself a couple, but if you are just playing the field it's different.
I suppose it's a question of being honest about it.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:22 PM
He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience
Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.
Braden
07-06-2017, 10:23 PM
Raph's ARTPOP could mean anything
I want to find this funny but I don't get it :(
Maybe he's polyamorous like Jade.
I hope Raph comments "aww, do the members of the forum not like me? :( :(" when he comes back in 50 days, £100k richer <3
https://33.media.tumblr.com/0c561e9f0b63fd4a14e6286c90aa69c4/tumblr_np74jzOncF1sfysqqo4_250.gif
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:23 PM
He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience
A remorseful person wouldnt keep doing it
Braden
07-06-2017, 10:23 PM
:laugh: a new side to you Braden
There are many sides to me that you're not aware of Cherie :hehe:
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:24 PM
I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.
:umm2:
Yeah I'm sure the wife of a cheating husband would prefer to know her husband was testing out his ass in some new experiences with men than banging a lass. Makes the world of difference.
Santa's NaughtiNess
07-06-2017, 10:24 PM
I hope Raph comments "aww, do the members of the forum not like me? :( :(" when he comes back in 50 days, £100k richer <3
https://33.media.tumblr.com/0c561e9f0b63fd4a14e6286c90aa69c4/tumblr_np74jzOncF1sfysqqo4_250.gif
:joker:
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:24 PM
I want to find this funny but I don't get it :(
I think it relates the the album being messy
Cherry Christmas
07-06-2017, 10:24 PM
There are many sides to me that you're not aware of Cherie :hehe:
Liking this new side :love:
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:25 PM
I hope Raph comments "aww, do the members of the forum not like me? :( :(" when he comes back in 50 days, £100k richer <3
https://33.media.tumblr.com/0c561e9f0b63fd4a14e6286c90aa69c4/tumblr_np74jzOncF1sfysqqo4_250.gif
he's already won. He's on big brother and getting everyone talking and getting some people acting like hypocrites by pretending they are perfect when they have done worse especially on this forum.
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:25 PM
Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.
I don't condone it, but people feel remorse for all types of things, i don't know why cheating has to be excluded from it?
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:25 PM
I'm not saying that what Raph did was right, but I'm sure that he'd said something like this on here in the past and it wasn't blown into such an epic proportion like it is now.
It really does feel like some people are being trendy on here by disliking Raph to say "look I dislike someone on the show that posts on the same Forum as me" I mean we've got some shocking people in there and people want to carry on some sort of grievance with a chilled out dude who's a bit eccentric on certain issues, and isn't perfect on everything.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:26 PM
He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience
So remorseful he repeated the mistake in multiple relationships?
Santa's NaughtiNess
07-06-2017, 10:26 PM
he's already won. He's on big brother and getting everyone talking and getting some people acting like hypocrites by pretending they are perfect when they have done worse especially on this forum.
:clap1:
Withano
07-06-2017, 10:27 PM
No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.
He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.
Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.
It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.
It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:27 PM
So remorseful he repeated the mistake in multiple relationships?
Yes because i obviously meant he was remoseful and then went on to cheat again, but you make up and believe what you like :)
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:27 PM
Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.
It's a Human flaw that he has, overall I like that he feels like a Human Being.
Daniel.
07-06-2017, 10:27 PM
he's already won. He's on big brother and getting everyone talking and getting some people acting like hypocrites by pretending they are perfect when they have done worse especially on this forum.
Who's done worse than cheat
reece(:
07-06-2017, 10:27 PM
I'm not saying that what Raph did was right, but I'm sure that he'd said something like this on here in the past and it wasn't blown into such an epic proportion like it is now.
Tbf scrutiny is fair game when it's televised for the country to see
All was forgiven when he voted Trump, his sins have been revoked.
Cherry Christmas
07-06-2017, 10:27 PM
he's already won. He's on big brother and getting everyone talking and getting some people acting like hypocrites by pretending they are perfect when they have done worse especially on this forum.
I agree just getting on there when he is such a fan makes him a winner, and it makes it s really interesting watch
I'm not saying that what Raph did was right, but I'm sure that he'd said something like this on here in the past and it wasn't blown into such an epic proportion like it is now.
It really does feel like some people are being trendy on here by disliking Raph to say "look I dislike someone on the show that posts on the same Forum as me" I mean we've got some shocking people in there and people want to carry on some sort of grievance with a chilled out dude who's a bit eccentric on certain issues, and isn't perfect on everything.
This is ridiculous. 'Oh you don't like him, it's because you're trying to be edgy!!!'
not really, people are trying to have their opinions on him as a HM rather than having a bias by knowing him. Sorry.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:28 PM
I don't condone it, but people feel remorse for all types of things, i don't know why cheating has to be excluded from it?
I'm not saying anyone is condoning his cheating but can you blame anyone for questioning how remorseful he is after he admitted he cheated on 4 partners?
Once is a mistake but 4 times? Nope.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:28 PM
I'm not saying that what Raph did was right, but I'm sure that he'd said something like this on here in the past and it wasn't blown into such an epic proportion like it is now.
It really does feel like some people are being trendy on here by disliking Raph to say "look I dislike someone on the show that posts on the same Forum as me" I mean we've got some shocking people in there and people want to carry on some sort of grievance with a chilled out dude who's a bit eccentric on certain issues, and isn't perfect on everything.
Because it wasn't a topic on an episode of the very TV show this forum was created to discuss? Whereas now... it is.
Shocking I know.
reece(:
07-06-2017, 10:29 PM
This is ridiculous. 'Oh you don't like him, it's because you're trying to be edgy!!!'
not really, people are trying to have their opinions on him as a HM rather than having a bias by knowing him. Sorry.
If another HM was the one exposed, they would have been righteously scrutinised also.
This is purely speculation (about him as a HM, not as a member) but on BOTS yesterday Raph was in the diary room talking about his gameplan and this was analysed by Trisha Goddard
What i'm thinking is perhaps these two events might be connected and it was Raph explaining that he was fake crying for his game and it wasn't shown or something and he was trying to do something similar to BBUS and BBCAN where after a game move they were explaining his strategy?
ChristmasNeeve
07-06-2017, 10:30 PM
Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.
It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.
It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.
See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 10:30 PM
I'm not saying that what Raph did was right, but I'm sure that he'd said something like this on here in the past and it wasn't blown into such an epic proportion like it is now.
It really does feel like some people are being trendy on here by disliking Raph to say "look I dislike someone on the show that posts on the same Forum as me" I mean we've got some shocking people in there and people want to carry on some sort of grievance with a chilled out dude who's a bit eccentric on certain issues, and isn't perfect on everything.
Also take into account he isn't exactly liked by the public either. It's hardly trendy or edgy.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:30 PM
It's a Human flaw that he has, overall I like that he feels like a Human Being.
You can like it. I will continue not to.
Rustic bauble
07-06-2017, 10:31 PM
He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.
I agree. He has obviously given this information to make good housemate material. He knows the show inside and out...don't tell me he didn't think this stuff would be exposed :shrug:
Then crying about it purely out of concern on how it will make him look is pathetic.
TIBB member or not...I will judge him like any other housemate. He is not dislikeable by any means...I don't really care about what he has done. But just stand up and say you regret it instead of crying for the sympathy vote. The most telling thing is that he really only cares about the way it portrays HIM and how it may ruin his chances of progressing in his beloved programme.
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:31 PM
Who's done worse than cheat
All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:31 PM
Tbf scrutiny is fair game when it's televised for the country to see
I just feel like some people will scrutinise Raph on here out of some sort of personal vendetta against him even if he said the Sky was blue.
I mean we've got some right twats in there, and people seem to think it's cool to go for Raph, I honestly don't get it as his a great Forum member on here, and his been a likable Housemate so far.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:31 PM
Yes because i obviously meant he was remoseful and then went on to cheat again, but you make up and believe what you like :)
I've not made anything up you're the one telling us what Raph thinks pal? :)
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:32 PM
I'm not saying anyone is condoning his cheating but can you blame anyone for questioning how remorseful he is after he admitted he cheated on 4 partners?
Once is a mistake but 4 times? Nope.
I don't blame anyone for questioning it, i just think it's a chance some people were waiting for to jump in to grill him
If another HM was the one exposed, they would have been righteously scrutinised also.
I'm honestly just getting sick of feeling like walking on eggshells everytime I want to say something about him as a HM. Apparently it's 'overbearing' yet everytime the camera goes on him there's reams of posts about him. I get the excitement and everything, but the people saying criticism are apparently the overbearing ones. Hmm.
Also take into account he isn't exactly liked by the public either. It's hardly trendy or edgy.
Steady on Columbo, he hasn't faced a public vote yet
Withano
07-06-2017, 10:32 PM
See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with
Yeh.. I presumed they werent really meaningful relationships.. like hes gay.. how far can he literally go with a girl? But perhaps im wrong, maybe they were meaningful. Guess id need more info.
ChristmasNeeve
07-06-2017, 10:32 PM
All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:
Drop it Luke
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:32 PM
All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:
So you are bringing up members pasts because you cant take criticism of your friend who is on national TV?
Firewire
07-06-2017, 10:33 PM
Drop it Luke
Eh wait a minute
reece(:
07-06-2017, 10:33 PM
I just feel like some people will scrutinise Raph on here out of some sort of personal vendetta against him even if he said the Sky was blue.
I mean we've got some right twats in there, and people seem to think it's cool to go for Raph, I honestly don't get it as his a great Forum member on here, and his been a likable Housemate so far.
I respect that he's a valuable member that has done a lot on the forum, and is pursuing his dream but that doesn't exempt one from criticism.
"The right twats" haven't acted up yet, when they do I'm sure they will be criticised all the same
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:33 PM
So you are bringing up members pasts because you cant take criticism of your friend who is on national TV?
i can take criticism but there's people who would jump the grill and act like they haven't done anything bad :hee:
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
Who's done worse than cheat
People on here have called other member paedophiles in the past, and have wished Celebrities to die (I know jokingly) but over the years I've seen alot worse posted on here that the public would be horrified if they saw it (including from myself tbf) that Raph has never said.
Daniel.
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:
What have permanently banned members got to do with this
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
I've not made anything up you're the one telling us what Raph thinks pal? :)
You couldn't give two ****s what i say about him lol, this is a free chance to take shots at him for you, i'll leave you to it though
Jordan.
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
All i'm saying is twitter and ammi :hee:
This was done by a permabanned member, not sure what relevance it has now
Good King Glennceslas
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
I'm pale now thanks mock
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
i can take criticism but there's people who would jump the grill and act like they haven't done anything bad :hee:
Most of us are judging him as we see him and that is how it should be we are discussing him as a housemate not a forum member
Just jealous of Raph getting plenty of pickle tickle?
Me too
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:34 PM
This was done by a permabanned member, not sure what relevance it has now
sure.jan
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:35 PM
I don't blame anyone for questioning it, i just think it's a chance some people were waiting for to jump in to grill him
I still support him personally as I like him as a person but as I have been cheated on and know how ****ty it made me feel I will grill him for it as I would any housemate.
Ask yourself if you would be defending any other housemate being grilled for being a serial cheat. I doubt it.
Shaun
07-06-2017, 10:35 PM
See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with
Yeah I agree with this. It's all fine and well excusing it by saying he was only 16 or whatever but it was a conscious decision and became a habit, it seems.
I wouldn't defend what he did, and am a bit baffled by him mentioning it to producers and not expecting them to drop it in an icebreaker task. Thankfully the housemates will have bigger arguments and seemed (oddly) sympathetic to him for being honest.
Just think certain members have been sitting with their hand on the trigger ever since the fanclub was made and he was leaked as a housemate. Digging up posts about Mollie, about being sweety_samy, about COL, about his BBUSA favourites, whatever - so don't act like you're all just discussing him on the show when you've already had posts deleted for screenshotting completely irrelevant stuff to BB18.
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:35 PM
If Raph was living in the same area all the time he was cheating, surely the people he was sleeping around with would have known his reputation.
It's not like he is old enough to have been in long term relationships...or does he just look very young for his age?
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:36 PM
Because it wasn't a topic on an episode of the very TV show this forum was created to discuss? Whereas now... it is.
Shocking I know.
This Forum doesn't normally care about this sort of stuff to this extent, even when other Housemates have done **** like this.
It's a classic case of building Raph up and then knocking him down.
Good King Glennceslas
07-06-2017, 10:37 PM
Yeah I agree with this. It's all fine and well excusing it by saying he was only 16 or whatever but it was a conscious decision and became a habit, it seems.
I wouldn't defend what he did, and am a bit baffled by him mentioning it to producers and not expecting them to drop it in an icebreaker task. Thankfully the housemates will have bigger arguments and seemed (oddly) sympathetic to him for being honest.
Just think certain members have been sitting with their hand on the trigger ever since the fanclub was made and he was leaked as a housemate. Digging up posts about Mollie, about being sweety_samy, about COL, about his BBUSA favourites, whatever - so don't act like you're all just discussing him on the show when you've already had posts deleted for screenshotting completely irrelevant stuff to BB18.
It's not even subtle either.
Locke.
07-06-2017, 10:37 PM
If Raph was living in the same area all the time he was cheating, surely the people he was sleeping around with would have known his reputation.
It's not like he is old enough to have been in long term relationships...or does he just look very young for his age?
He moves around a lot, but I believe it was said that the 3 girlfriends he cheated on was during his high school days. He was young.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:37 PM
If Raph was living in the same area all the time he was cheating, surely the people he was sleeping around with would have known his reputation.
It's not like he is old enough to have been in long term relationships...or does he just look very young for his age?
Yes lets blame the victims instead. Wow.
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:37 PM
This Forum doesn't normally care about this sort of stuff to this extent, even when other Housemates have done **** like this.
It's a classic case of building Raph up and then knocking him down.
Cheats are the most hated type of housemate on here
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:38 PM
You couldn't give two ****s what i say about him lol, this is a free chance to take shots at him for you, i'll leave you to it though
Eh? I knew nothing about him prior to BB beyond him being friends with Luke.
In fact if me and Raph even posted in the same thread at any time I'd be surprised.
But yeah. I've been waiting for free shots.. ... just because eh?
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:38 PM
He moves around a lot, but I believe it was said that the 3 girlfriends he cheated on was during his high school days. He was young.
So they probably knew he was just a player then, not in it for love ever after and all that.
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:38 PM
I still support him personally as I like him as a person but as I have been cheated on and know how ****ty it made me feel I will grill him for it as I would any housemate.
Ask yourself if you would be defending any other housemate being grilled for being a serial cheat. I doubt it.
Realistically i probably wouldn't, but i don't personally know any of the other housemates, i wouldn't know if they were being genuine saying things like they were remorseful, whereas i do in this situation
armand.kay
07-06-2017, 10:38 PM
I just feel like some people will scrutinise Raph on here out of some sort of personal vendetta against him even if he said the Sky was blue.
I mean we've got some right twats in there, and people seem to think it's cool to go for Raph, I honestly don't get it as his a great Forum member on here, and his been a likable Housemate so far.
Tbf I've never had a problem with Raph on the forum, like I'm in his fan club now. But he did not come across well on todays show like I can't really see why some people are getting so defensive..
EspeonBB
07-06-2017, 10:39 PM
So they probably knew he was just a player then, not in it for love ever after and all that.
This doesn't really excuse him cheating though
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:39 PM
Also take into account he isn't exactly liked by the public either. It's hardly trendy or edgy.
Tbf he does seem to have quite a bit of support on DS and Social Media, his in fact the very definition of controversial rather than unpopular.
And tbf they've mainly got it in their heads that his a Trump supporter rather than knowing what his actually like on here, or even judging him fully on the fact that he's just a normal guy who's playing a game in the house, his not being malicious.
LukeB
07-06-2017, 10:40 PM
He moves around a lot, but I believe it was said that the 3 girlfriends he cheated on was during his high school days. He was young.
It was and that was years ago and you can regret and feel remorse years later (doesn't mean we condone it) you can make loads of mistakes when you are young.
Santa's NaughtiNess
07-06-2017, 10:41 PM
It was and that was years ago and you can regret and feel remorse years later (doesn't mean we condone it) you can make loads of mistakes when you are young.
Yes. We all make mistakes when we're young. No one is perfect.
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:41 PM
Yes lets blame the victims instead. Wow.
Maybe the second victim knew about the first victim..what would that make her then?
Just sounds like a load of young people having fun to me.
If they all lived in the same area it must have been a very large area for none of them to know what was going on.
It was and that was years ago and you can regret and feel remorse years later (doesn't mean we condone it) you can make loads of mistakes when you are young.
girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though :(
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:41 PM
I am sorry but the he was young so is allowed to cheat argument is bull****
Firewire
07-06-2017, 10:42 PM
girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though :(
That's not true though is it
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:42 PM
Maybe the second victim knew about the first victim..what would that make her then?
Just sounds like a load of young people having fun to me.
If they all lived in the same area it must have been a very large area for none of them to know what was going on.
People like to believe they learn from mistakes
That's not true though is it
Idk, he said it, not me
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:42 PM
Thing is you can't expect people to fully take a step back and try and see him as a "standard" housemate.. He's always going to be "Raph from TiBB". I certainly don't condone cheating, but I don't condone looking for any excuse to jump on the bandwagon of hate either. As someone who's met him I can vouch for him being a great guy who has changed from those days. It's not like coming out is notorious for being a walk in the park either, is it?
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:43 PM
girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though :(
In his VT...
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:43 PM
This doesn't really excuse him cheating though
So are you saying he was the only one that knew he was playing the field at the time, nobody else in school knew who was doing who...hardly likely.:shrug:
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:43 PM
I respect that he's a valuable member that has done a lot on the forum, and is pursuing his dream but that doesn't exempt one from criticism.
"The right twats" haven't acted up yet, when they do I'm sure they will be criticised all the same
Tbf this wasn't exactly Raph's doing either, it was a task set out to humiliate alot of the Housemates and he used a tactic to try and save himself with the Housemates.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:44 PM
Maybe the second victim knew about the first victim..what would that make her then?
Just sounds like a load of young people having fun to me.
If they all lived in the same area it must have been a very large area for none of them to know what was going on.
Still a victim as he cheated on her.
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:44 PM
girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though :(
Thats where the whole thing about people just waiting to take a dig at him comes into play, you're all ignoring the fact hes repeatedly said hes remorseful to us just so you can keep this up
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:46 PM
So are you saying he was the only one that knew he was playing the field at the time, nobody else in school knew who was doing who...hardly likely.:shrug:
Sorry but what's this got to do with anything? [emoji23]
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:46 PM
Thats where the whole thing about people just waiting to take a dig at him comes into play, you're all ignoring the fact hes repeatedly said hes remorseful to us just so you can keep this up
So we are meant to take his friends words for it?
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:46 PM
I'm pale now thanks mock
I didn't mean to single you out on anything if I have.:laugh:
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:46 PM
So we are meant to take his friends words for it?
It's the most reliable stuff you'll get
Jason.
07-06-2017, 10:46 PM
Not the "young" excuse being thrown around when polyamorous Jade was branded a slut when she was only a year older than Raph :nono:
armand.kay
07-06-2017, 10:47 PM
Thing is you can't expect people to fully take a step back and try and see him as a "standard" housemate.. He's always going to be "Raph from TiBB". I certainly don't condone cheating, but I don't condone looking for any excuse to jump on the bandwagon of hate either. As someone who's met him I can vouch for him being a great guy who has changed from those days. It's not like coming out is notorious for being a walk in the park either, is it?
I feel like him being a member hasn't made as much of a difference as people are making out. The members who seem not like him very much don't tend to support housemates like him.
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:47 PM
People like to believe they learn from mistakes
Maybe at the time he didn't think of it as a mistake, or hurting anyone, then as you grow up you mature and see things differently.
I am only playing devils advocate here, I don't know Raph, all I know is he is young and I like what I see of his personality on BB.
Thats where the whole thing about people just waiting to take a dig at him comes into play, you're all ignoring the fact hes repeatedly said hes remorseful to us just so you can keep this up
not really? If you were a viewer that didn't look at this forum then you'd be thinking 'is this the real him in the house? Or is it part of his gameplay because it's not what he said in his VT...'
Denver
07-06-2017, 10:47 PM
It's the most reliable stuff you'll get
I will wait till he admits in national TV until then it is hearsay
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:48 PM
I feel like him being a member hasn't made as much of a difference as people are making out. The members who seem not like him very much don't tend to support housemates like him.
But the members who don't like him very much are waiting on the edges of their seats for him to slip up because it's Raph
smudgie
07-06-2017, 10:49 PM
Still a victim as he cheated on her.
Hmmm, but she would be as guilty as him, sleeping with someone else's boyfriend.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:49 PM
I will wait till he admits in national TV until then it is hearsay
I'm sure Raph's first priority when he leaves will be to win you round
Firewire
07-06-2017, 10:50 PM
People are really taking this seriously aren't they
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:50 PM
Cheats are the most hated type of housemate on here
Argumentative people are normally the most hated across the BB fandom, unless they've got something else going on to stop that from happening.
Cheats normally don't hit TIBB's radar as much as it's conveniently done here.
The only ones I understand having this reaction are people like Amy Jade who has been on the receiving end of this, otherwise it feels out of character to me with how this Forum usually feels.
Mitchell
07-06-2017, 10:50 PM
Cheats are the most hated type of housemate on here
Weren't you stanning Jeremy and Steph?
Locke.
07-06-2017, 10:50 PM
not really? If you were a viewer that didn't look at this forum then you'd be thinking 'is this the real him in the house? Or is it part of his gameplay because it's not what he said in his VT...'
Luckily for you you are on this forum and get some extra insight into how much Raph regrets it then. Sorted.
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:51 PM
Thats where the whole thing about people just waiting to take a dig at him comes into play, you're all ignoring the fact hes repeatedly said hes remorseful to us just so you can keep this up
He said he lies in his VT though.
Questioning the realness of him being 'remorseful' in the wake of that is what this forum is all about, why shouldn't we be allowed to discuss if his tears were real or his remorse was genuine or part of a game plan?
He put himself up for our judgement. He is a self proclaimed super fan and must have known he would be heavily talked about.
Luckily for you you are on this forum and get some extra insight into how much Raph regrets it then. Sorted.
Why use it as a point in your VT if you regret it so much then...
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:52 PM
Hmmm, but she would be as guilty as him, sleeping with someone else's boyfriend.
Wha
Jake.
07-06-2017, 10:53 PM
Why use it as a point in your VT if you regret it so much then...
To get in?
Headie
07-06-2017, 10:53 PM
People are really taking this seriously aren't they
It's only a gameshow!
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 10:53 PM
Hmmm, but she would be as guilty as him, sleeping with someone else's boyfriend.
Nope not at all. He was the one with commitments.
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 10:55 PM
Not the "young" excuse being thrown around when polyamorous Jade was branded a slut when she was only a year older than Raph :nono:
Jade's alot more unlikable than Raph.
Drew.
07-06-2017, 10:56 PM
He said he lies in his VT though.
Questioning the realness of him being 'remorseful' in the wake of that is what this forum is all about, why shouldn't we be allowed to discuss if his tears were real or his remorse was genuine or part of a game plan?
He put himself up for our judgement. He is a self proclaimed super fan and must have known he would be heavily talked about.
Crack on tbh, we're just gonna go round in circles all series
Locke.
07-06-2017, 10:56 PM
Why use it as a point in your VT if you regret it so much then...
Because he thought it would make his dream of getting on Big Brother more likely, and he was right
Jason.
07-06-2017, 10:57 PM
Jade's alot more unlikable than Raph.
I don't think it works that way
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 10:57 PM
This Forum doesn't normally care about this sort of stuff to this extent, even when other Housemates have done **** like this.
It's a classic case of building Raph up and then knocking him down.
Yes they do. In fact most recent series have bloody been built around it.
Jeremy and Steph as a big example. Let's not pretend we haven't had debates like this about 1000 housemates before.
Mitchell
07-06-2017, 10:58 PM
I know of Raph from being on here, nowhere near as well as other members, in the past I've disagreed with a lot of his posts, in the past I've agreed with a lot of his posts, but the housemate I'm seeing on the show is someone who is a decent person, if we shouldn't judge Tom on tweets from a year ago I don't see why we should judge Raph on mistakes made years ago when he was a teenager?
I'm happy that he's got to be on the show and has been able to achieve his dream, good on him for putting himself on a platform to be judged by the public who quite frankly can be absolute *****
To get in?
then don't get surprised when people are confused and wondering if he was using tears and remorse as a part of his gameplan?? we're listening to his words and how he portrays himself in the show?
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/ba/fa/2b/bafa2b8971cbaf11f7ad6d0bcf8c2007.gif
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 11:00 PM
I don't think it works that way
Likability (rightly or wrongly) does play it's part on how severe the reaction will be on the same scenario.
And also Jade was changing relationships in the house where as Raph is Showmance free so far.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:00 PM
So basically "Raph does something not very nice or says something not very nice which causes a debate on the forum like most other housemates and we'll get 'I was with him in a caravan I know him better."
WHAT a fun on season. :/
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:00 PM
I'm sure Raph's first priority when he leaves will be to win you round
this is why people feel they cant say anything negative about him
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:00 PM
then don't get surprised when people are confused and wondering if he was using tears and remorse as a part of his gameplan?? we're listening to his words and how he portrays himself in the show?
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/ba/fa/2b/bafa2b8971cbaf11f7ad6d0bcf8c2007.gif
When have I claimed to have been surprised?
Locke.
07-06-2017, 11:01 PM
this is why people feel they cant say anything negative about him
People clearly don't think that because it's all they've done all night
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 11:01 PM
Yes they do. In fact most recent series have bloody been built around it.
Jeremy and Steph as a big example. Let's not pretend we haven't had debates like this about 1000 housemates before.
I remember people's reactions that series and Jeremy had almost nobody talking about him he was that dull, and Stephanie was hailed as some sort of bullied victim on here and was forgiven because of being bullied.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:02 PM
People clearly don't think that because it's all they've done all night
Right?
http://i.imgur.com/giXs3MT.gif
could y'all imagine if tomorrow in the highlights Raph's all 'it was part of my gameplan' in the diary room
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:03 PM
People clearly don't think that because it's all they've done all night
All i get is you dont have a right to judge because you didnt sleep in a caravan with him
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 11:03 PM
So basically "Raph does something not very nice or says something not very nice which causes a debate on the forum like most other housemates and we'll get 'I was with him in a caravan I know him better."
WHAT a fun on season. :/
How about judging Raph on what he does in the house by himself rather than on tasks about his personal life, or VT's?
smudgie
07-06-2017, 11:03 PM
Nope not at all. He was the one with commitments.
That's what I am trying to get to the bottom of.
Was he actually committed?
Not being awkward, but I just don't know, or indeed understand when having a bit of fun becomes a commitment.
If they all went to the same school then surely they all knew what was going on.
If the second girl was happy to sleep with him knowing he was already seeing another girl then she can't complain if he done the same to her.
Do you wear someone's badge if you are going out with them at school, saying you have exclusivity...I just don't know, things were different in my day.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:04 PM
All i get is you dont have a right to judge because you didnt sleep in a caravan with him
That's "all you get"? Could you quote where you've got that?
So basically "Raph does something not very nice or says something not very nice which causes a debate on the forum like most other housemates and we'll get 'I was with him in a caravan I know him better."
WHAT a fun on season. :/
yep. :facepalm:
LukeB
07-06-2017, 11:04 PM
people can be negative about it no one said they can't
but friends can be loyal to him and defend him. which is what every housemates friends would do. but doesn't mean anyone condones it. it's really the same as supporting a hm really. I stanned Nicola and defended her but i didn't condone her comments
this is getting a bit more messy
Drew.
07-06-2017, 11:04 PM
But yeah. I've been waiting for free shots.. ... just because eh?
So basically "Raph does something not very nice or says something not very nice which causes a debate on the forum like most other housemates and we'll get 'I was with him in a caravan I know him better."
WHAT a fun on season. :/
Ok then
Jason.
07-06-2017, 11:04 PM
Likability (rightly or wrongly) does play it's part on how severe the reaction will be on the same scenario.
And also Jade was changing relationships in the house where as Raph is Showmance free so far.
I mean people were throwing that around as soon as she entered the house, when they didn't really know her. And I was referring more to her mentioning it general rather than her actions inside the house
How about judging Raph on what he does in the house by himself rather than on tasks about his personal life, or VT's?
VT's are part of the show and literally how the housemates are INTRODUCED to us. We're allowed to read into it.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:05 PM
I remember people's reactions that series and Jeremy had almost nobody talking about him he was that dull, and Stephanie was hailed as some sort of bullied victim on here and was forgiven because of being bullied.
Well sort your memory out pal. :oh:
Locke.
07-06-2017, 11:05 PM
All i get is you dont have a right to judge because you didnt sleep in a caravan with him
It's true though isn't it? You can't ever truly know a person until you've experienced a caravan in Dawlish Warren with them
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:05 PM
How about judging Raph on what he does in the house by himself rather than on tasks about his personal life, or VT's?
Because they're part and parcel of the show too and we don't have those rules for other housemates? :/
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 11:05 PM
this is why people feel they cant say anything negative about him
I literally don't get this POV.
If he does something I dislike I'll drag him. If he does something I like I'll cheer him on.
Couldn't care less if his mates don't like it. He put himself forward for this.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:06 PM
Everyone can literally say what they want though?
If you write something I disagree with then I can post my opinion and vice versa.
That's literally it.
reece(:
07-06-2017, 11:06 PM
VT's are part of the show and literally how the housemates are INTRODUCED to us. We're allowed to read into it.
True, Chris BB15 VT rings a bell
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:06 PM
It's true though isn't it? You can't ever truly know a person until you've experienced a caravan in Dawlish Warren with them
He put himself on TV and he wil be judge on how he is on TV
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 11:07 PM
VT's are part of the show and literally how the housemates are INTRODUCED to us. We're allowed to read into it.
I prefer to judge them in the house for how many weeks they'll be in there than some overproduced VT that every Housemates talks the big talk and then is nothing like that in the house 99% of the time.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:07 PM
That's what I am trying to get to the bottom of.
Was he actually committed?
Not being awkward, but I just don't know, or indeed understand when having a bit of fun becomes a commitment.
If they all went to the same school then surely they all knew what was going on.
If the second girl was happy to sleep with him knowing he was already seeing another girl then she can't complain if he done the same to her.
Do you wear someone's badge if you are going out with them at school, saying you have exclusivity...I just don't know, things were different in my day.
Well I don't think we're talking about Raph casually sleeping with one girl and then casually sleeping with another girl. THAT'S a bit of fun.
I would imagine the point you start referring to one another as your girlfriend/boyfriend would be when the commitment comes in.
There's a clear difference between a relationship and a casual fling but maybe that's just me.
I prefer to judge them in the house for how many weeks they'll be in there than some overproduced VT that every Housemates talks the big talk and then is nothing like that in the house 99% of the time.
Good for you.
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:08 PM
I prefer to judge them in the house for how many weeks they'll be in there than some overproduced VT that every Housemates talks the big talk and then is nothing like that in the house 99% of the time.
That makes them fake and boring if they have to lie on a VT
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:08 PM
Ok then
And the purpose of you quoting those posts just to say that was?
Leave me to take my free shots at Raph... the guy I've never spoken to. Sheesh.
Locke.
07-06-2017, 11:08 PM
He put himself on TV and he wil be judge on how he is on TV
What about people that watch on other devices?
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:08 PM
That makes them fake and boring if they have to lie on a VT
Well every housemate in the history of Big Brother has exaggerated or lied on a VT so no it doesn't
Lostie!
07-06-2017, 11:09 PM
What about people that watch on other devices?
:joker:
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:09 PM
Good for you.
What was the point in this?
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:09 PM
What about people that watch on other devices?
:joker:
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:09 PM
Well every housemate in the history of Big Brother has exaggerated or lied on a VT so no it doesn't
Not really only the dull people
What was the point in this?
What was the point in this? :shrug:
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 11:10 PM
Because they're part and parcel of the show too and we don't have those rules for other housemates? :/
I think that it's kind of a basic rule for all of the Housemates, unless they're a murderer or a rapist their personal lives shouldn't be coming into Big Brother, and I don't get the point on watching 8 to 9 weeks of this series if we're gonna judge someone purely off of their VT?
LukeB
07-06-2017, 11:10 PM
Everyone can literally say what they want though?
If you write something I disagree with then I can post my opinion and vice versa.
That's literally it.
It's what people have been saying but it's going around in circles. No one has said they are not allowed to write negative stuff because the can like any other housemate and people will defend Raph like they would do with a housemate they like. I don't see how it's all different really. Supporting a housemate doesn't entirely mean condoning comments either.
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:10 PM
What was the point in this? :shrug:
So essentially you're having a go at not being allowed an opinion yet you're shutting down Mock for having an opinion
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:11 PM
Not really only the dull people
You actually talk too much ****
armand.kay
07-06-2017, 11:12 PM
But the members who don't like him very much are waiting on the edges of their seats for him to slip up because it's Raph
isn't that the same as when people have a bad first impression of someone and they jump on them for the first thing they do? (see jack bb15)
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:12 PM
I think that it's kind of a basic rule for all of the Housemates, unless they're a murderer or a rapist their personal lives shouldn't be coming into Big Brother, and I don't get the point on watching 8 to 9 weeks of this series if we're gonna judge someone purely off of their VT?
It's not personal lives as such. It"s their character? Of course their lives and who they are is all encompassing. I would've thought that was fairly obvious.
Also it's information raph has volunteered. I'd feel a lot differently if it was information from a trashy tabloid thrown in there to catch him off guard. That would be out of order.
Marsh.
07-06-2017, 11:12 PM
Good for you.
Alright Jade.
Merry Mockmas
07-06-2017, 11:13 PM
That makes them fake and boring if they have to lie on a VT
Or that BB would've favoured another Geordie Shore wannabe caked in brown and entering Showmances, getting fake drunk, and then pissing the bed if he hadn't have made himself more VT friendly.
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:13 PM
You actually talk too much ****
Just proving the point that when your friend gets called out you can not take the criticism
smudgie
07-06-2017, 11:13 PM
Well I don't think we're talking about Raph casually sleeping with one girl and then casually sleeping with another girl. THAT'S a bit of fun.
I would imagine the point you start referring to one another as your girlfriend/boyfriend would be when the commitment comes in.
There's a clear difference between a relationship and a casual fling but maybe that's just me.
No, I get that Marsh, what I don't know is when it becomes a commitment.
I can see the first girl could feel she was in a relationship( again, I don't understand at such a young age why you would be committed) but if the second and third girl knew he was in it for the fun then I can't see a problem with it.
I guess I just can't see what the rush is to get into a committed relationship that young, I was all for a good time before I settled down.
Locke.
07-06-2017, 11:13 PM
I see Raph is into 10/1 to win after tonights show, looks like this went down well after all
Amy Jade
07-06-2017, 11:13 PM
It's what people have been saying but it's going around in circles. No one has said they are not allowed to write negative stuff because the can like any other housemate and people will defend Raph like they would do with a housemate they like. I don't see how it's all different really. Supporting a housemate doesn't entirely mean condoning comments either.
Not you ignoring people claiming anyone not praising him has been waiting to go on the attack.
Fetch The Bolt Cutters
07-06-2017, 11:13 PM
i think we can all agree that it's best raph is evicted on friday so we can go back to normal in terms of how we use the forum/stuff we say
So essentially you're having a go at not being allowed an opinion yet you're shutting down Mock for having an opinion
I didn't shut him down, I was saying it was okay for him to have that opinion. Good for him!
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:14 PM
Just proving the point that when your friend gets called out you can not take the criticism
I'm saying that you're spouting rubbish as per, this time regarding people not playing up in their vts
Not like you to twist words though
i think we can all agree that it's best raph is evicted on friday so we can go back to normal in terms of how we use the forum/stuff we say
^
Jake.
07-06-2017, 11:14 PM
I didn't shut him down, I was saying it was okay for him to have that opinion. Good for him!
You didn't at all though
Denver
07-06-2017, 11:15 PM
I'm saying that you're spouting rubbish as per, this time regarding people not playing up in their vts
Not like you to twist words though
He has gone in the house and so far come over as fake simply as that
Drew.
07-06-2017, 11:15 PM
Just proving the point that when your friend gets called out you can not take the criticism
Friends with Raph or not lets not act like these types of threads dont happen every series
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