When Tom thinks he still has a girlfriend

[LukeB]

In the diary room, Tom reveals to Big Brother; “I had a down moment, I’ve got a girlfriend I’ve been with her for 5 months, I just want to make sure everything’s good, I’m worried about how she’s doing…”


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if only he knew

[ChristmasNeeve]

oh I missed that, did she dump him?

[LukeB]

oh I missed that, did she dump him?

Yeah,

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[armand.kay]

poor that.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Yeah,

877877272275013632

:laugh2:

[Kazanne]

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if only he knew

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty,says a lot about people really.

[LukeB]

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty,says a lot about people really.

it's harmless and he is the reason why he doesn't have a gf anymore. I wouldn't laugh if she was in the wrong. :shrug:

[Christmas Dynasnow]

the sister of that horrible person latesha grace? :umm2:

Tom my son what a result. You have won in the race of life

:clap1:

:joker:

[Jack_]

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

[Kazanne]

it's harmless and he is the reason why he doesn't have a gf anymore. I wouldn't laugh if she was in the wrong. :shrug:

You know nothing other than what another fan faves sister has said all hearsay and surmising ,imo laughing at someone who could be hurt by that is mean in my book,it's not harmless to him is it?

[Rob!]

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

:clap1:

[LukeB]

You know nothing other than what another fan faves sister has said all hearsay and surmising ,imo laughing at someone who could be hurt by that is mean in my book,it's not harmless to him is it?

if it hurt him because of what she has done then that would be mean

but because he did this to himself, i have no sympathy. it's his own fault.

[Kazanne]

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

[Jack_]

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

Sorry but that logic doesn't wash with me, because you could quite easily extend that to this thread and surmise that 'well, he isn't likely to see it so what's the problem'. I don't agree with that and I don't agree with degrading women or insulting their appearances, be it in real life or on a forum, what's the need for it?

And your dislikes of people concern their appearance? And how sexually promiscuous they may or may not be? Isn't that a bit shallow?

[Ashsleigh]

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

Yeah I don't think so, Kazanne.

[Candy Annie Cane]

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

Yeah to be fair...we are all on a forum so these.threads arent going to be read most likely. There are plenty of awful things said about people on here....id say this thread is pretty tame compared to many ive seen

[poppsywoppsy]

I am sure Tom will find another girlfriend but what will he do when all the decent girls swerve him and only the sort he described would be interested.

[armand.kay]

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty,says a lot about people really.

sorry but you've been cosigning posts that completely dehumanises Isabelle is that not really nasty?

[thesheriff443]

He is all mouth and short trousers, if any one would go with him he would be all over them, problem is they cant see him over their cleavage.

[Epic.]

His chance of remaining in that relationship is "as interesting as a piece of poop". Hurts, don't it? :laugh:

[Kazanne]

Sorry but that logic doesn't wash with me, because you could quite easily extend that to this thread and surmise that 'well, he isn't likely to see it so what's the problem'. I don't agree with that and I don't agree with degrading women or insulting their appearances, be it in real life or on a forum, what's the need for it?

And your dislikes of people concern their appearance? And how sexually promiscuous they may or may not be? Isn't that a bit shallow?

I really don't care what 'washes' with you,I don't see you pulling up your 'mates' when they are degrading anyone that they don't like,tit for tat and all that.

[Greg!]

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

Inserts The "oh there's the tea!" Vine here.

[Greg!]

I really don't care what 'washes' with you,I don't see you pulling up your 'mates' when they are degrading anyone that they don't like,tit for tat and all that.

Mess what are you on about.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

sorry but you've been cosigning posts that completely dehumanises Isabelle is that not really nasty?

Which ones armand do you speak of specifically?

The dehuman ones?

[Greg!]

Which ones armand do you speak of specifically?

The dehuman ones?

This doesn't make any sense. What do you mean?

[Christmas Dynasnow]

This doesn't make any sense. What do you mean?

armand?

[Kazanne]

armand?

:laugh::laugh: Give over you.

[sampvt]

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

[LukeB]

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

Jack is right you know / nearly headless nick.

[Jack_]

I really don't care what 'washes' with you,I don't see you pulling up your 'mates' when they are degrading anyone that they don't like,tit for tat and all that.

Talk above defensive, I only pulled you up on your hypocrisy that's all.

And what degradation? Quote some posts here right now and I'll criticise them if they in any way mock a housemates appearance or slut shame them. Hell, in my first reply to you I pretty much criticised Luke for making this thread. I don't think it's right to mock Tom for losing his girlfriend, I don't like him as a housemate but don't think he's done anything in the house to warrant that.

I am actually pretty consistent, you know. I pulled people up for mocking Jason's appearance last year even though I didn't care for him. The question is did you pull your 'friends' up for mocking Lateysha's? Or Charlie's? I don't think you did as a matter of fact, which makes you a hypocrite again.

There is absolutely no need for anyone on here or elsewhere to be degrading women by calling them sluts or slappers, or mocking them or men for the way they look, regardless of whether you like them or not. It's a television show and this isn't a playground. Stick to criticising their characters, that is after all the point of the show.

[Kazanne]

Jack is right you know / nearly headless nick.

:laugh: so predictable.

[Greg!]

armand?

:laugh::laugh: Give over you.

The old people bants is like a foreign language. What's funny about that? :think:

[Kazanne]

Talk above defensive, I only pulled you up on your hypocrisy that's all.

And what degradation? Quote some posts here right now and I'll criticise them if they in any way mock a housemates appearance or slut shame them. Hell, in my first reply to you I pretty much criticised Luke for making this thread. I don't think it's right to mock Tom for losing his girlfriend, I don't like him as a housemate but don't think he's done anything in the house to warrant that.

I am actually pretty consistent, you know. I pulled people up for mocking Jason's appearance last year even though I didn't care for him. The question is did you pull your 'friends' up for mocking Lateysha's? Or Charlie's? I don't think you did as a matter of fact, which makes you a hypocrite again.

There is absolutely no need for anyone on here or elsewhere to be degrading women by calling them sluts or slappers, or mocking them or men for the way they look, regardless of whether you like them or not. It's a television show and this isn't a playground. Stick to criticising their characters, that is after all the point of the show.

Go lecture someone who cares :shrug: I am a terrible person so best to steer clear :wavey:

[LukeB]

(in my defence Tom did share a shower with another female and kept flirting which isn't nice for the gf to see, i would dump someone if they did that.)

[sampvt]

Jack is right you know / nearly headless nick.

Are these posts codes for something we the general public are not allowed to understand but have secret meaning to only the select few. Would you care to explain this nearly headless nick line.

[Kazanne]

The old people bants is like a foreign language. What's funny about that? :think:

Typical smart arse wannabe,so 40 is old now is it,you'll feel lucky to reach it

[Jack_]

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

Because I consistently criticise anyone that mocks any housemate's appearance or slutshames them. Half of this forum may not be consistent but I am.

I don't care who's a mod and who isn't, I continue to believe that the vitriolic and nasty posts about the way housemates look year in, year out make this place a very miserable place to frequent during on season. It's got progressively worse over the last few years and I'll call it out whenever I see fit, because there's absolutely no justification for it whatsoever.

[sampvt]

Typical smart arse wannabe,so 40 is old now is it,you'll feel lucky to reach it

Kaz, step away, let me take the heat. You know whats going on.

[Amy Jade]

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

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[Sophia.]

That's well awkward. I feel a bit sorry for him.

[LukeB]

Are these posts codes for something we the general public are not allowed to understand but have secret meaning to only the select few. Would you care to explain this nearly headless nick line.

A character from harry potter.

[Jack_]

Go lecture someone who cares :shrug: I am a terrible person so best to steer clear :wavey:

In other words I'm right and you don't know how to respond? Next time try to make your hypocrisy a little more discreet, because I'm quite adept at exposing it and I guess that can be embarrassing.

But kudos for having the guts to admit it.

[armand.kay]

Which ones armand do you speak of specifically?

The dehuman ones?

idk the ones calling her a blowup doll and basically speaking of her as if she's an object.

[Greg!]

Typical smart arse wannabe

Oh absolutely
so 40 is old now is it,
Oh absolutely
https://media.giphy.com/media/148KryZ71pEhSU/giphy.gif

[sampvt]

Because I consistently criticise anyone that mocks any housemate's appearance or slutshames them. Half of this forum may not be consistent but I am.

I don't care who's a mod and who isn't, I continue to believe that the vitriolic and nasty posts about the way housemates look year in, year out make this place a very miserable place to frequent during on season. It's got progressively worse over the last few years and I'll call it out whenever I see fit, because there's absolutely no justification for it whatsoever.

If you give me 20 mins ill search back to see how many times you have pulled your mates up for vitriolic posts. Isnt that what you are ragging Kaz about. Whats good for the goose, etc. You hunt and rag me loads but all I do is fight with you (metaphorically of course) and I end up in trouble for arguing my points. Isnt this what you mean, your post has so many holes Im having trouble following your points. You cant insult someone for something they did not do just because it upsets your morals.

[Kazanne]

Kaz, step away, let me take the heat. You know whats going on.

:joker:No worries Sam my shoulders are broad I can take it, I wont step away for anyone, I'm such a bitch :joker::joker::joker:

[sampvt]

A character from harry potter.

ah so its an insult then is it, cool, thanks for the poke.

[Amy Jade]

Jack didn't insult anyone...

[LukeB]

ah so its an insult then is it, cool, thanks for the poke.

No :umm2:

I used a quote of his

[Greg!]

In other words I'm right and you don't know how to respond? Next time try to make your hypocrisy a little more discreet, because I'm quite adept at exposing it and I guess that can be embarrassing.

But kudos for having the guts to admit it.

Oop

[Kazanne]

Oh absolutely

Oh absolutely
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Lost for words are we,so much so we have to use a pic :joker::joker: great stuff so mature, my gif was better anyway as no doubt you are off to find that

[armand.kay]

wow this thread is a mess :laugh:

[Kazanne]

In other words I'm right and you don't know how to respond? Next time try to make your hypocrisy a little more discreet, because I'm quite adept at exposing it and I guess that can be embarrassing.

But kudos for having the guts to admit it.

:joker::joker: Be careful you don't slip over that halo :dance:

[Greg!]

ANYWAY Isabelle and Chanelle are made of tough stuff and have bright futures ahead of them. I don't think nasty comments from ancient fossil relics slating their appearance and dehumanising them will bother them too much.
http://i.imgur.com/rh3VFQl.gif

[Jack_]

If you give me 20 mins ill search back to see how many times you have pulled your mates up for vitriolic posts. Isnt that what you are ragging Kaz about. Whats good for the goose, etc. You hunt and rag me loads but all I do is fight with you (metaphorically of course) and I end up in trouble for arguing my points. Isnt this what you mean, your post has so many holes Im having trouble following your points. You cant insult someone for something they did not do just because it upsets your morals.

Be my guest, if you quote them here and they display the same qualities that I'm describing (mocking someone's appearance or slutshaming them) I'll denounce them right here and now, because I'm a man of my word and consistent. You must realise however that I'm not going to always see every post, but I can assure you that last year in particular I was criticising people who were mocking Jason's appearance. What I was 'ragging' Kaz about (strange turn of phrase) was more that she was (rightly) saying that threads like these are nasty and unnecessary, but at the same time allowing herself and others to be nasty about the way other housemates look, and call women sluts and slappers.

And let's just get this clear Sam - I don't hunt you at all. The large majority of the time (with a few exceptions that I'll concede), it is you that responds to my posts in an abrasive and patronising manner - and so I respond in kind, that's the way it works. Then you accuse me of the very same thing and make out I started it. Look, I'm sure you're a nice man and I have no desire to constantly argue with you, but more often than not it is you that talks down to me and thus what starts it off. If you responded to my posts in a more civilised manner there honestly wouldn't be an issue.

[LukeB]

ANYWAY Isabelle and Chanelle are made of tough stuff and have bright futures ahead of them. I don't think nasty comments from ancient fossil relics slating their appearance and dehumanising them will bother them too much.
http://i.imgur.com/rh3VFQl.gif

This

and I don't think Tom will see this thread anyway even though it is his fault that his gf dumped him. I would not have made this if she dumped him for no reason/cheated on him etc.

[Jack_]

:joker::joker: Be careful you don't slip over that halo :dance:

I am a great person, I'm glad you agree.

[Kazanne]

ANYWAY Isabelle and Chanelle are made of tough stuff and have bright futures ahead of them. I don't think nasty comments from ancient fossil relics slating their appearance and dehumanising them will bother them too much.
http://i.imgur.com/rh3VFQl.gif

So you answer a post about people calling people names,by calling people names,OMG,:joker: the irony

[Greg!]

So you answer a post about people calling people names,by calling people names,OMG,:joker: the irony

What goes around comes back around babes, you lowered the tone. Didn't actually address that post to anyone in particular mind.
http://i.imgur.com/rh3VFQl.gif

[y.winter]

Oouch.
But, well, Lateysha's sister... The bar was already set low...

[Amy Jade]

I hope they tell him on screen that she's dumped him

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[T*]

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

this tea is SCALDING

[armand.kay]

ANYWAY Isabelle and Chanelle are made of tough stuff and have bright futures ahead of them. I don't think nasty comments from ancient fossil relics slating their appearance and dehumanising them will bother them too much.
http://i.imgur.com/rh3VFQl.gif

yeah I don't really care about the comments coz I'm no angel on her but when they're calling other people out on their posts :laugh:

[Rustic bauble]

ANYWAY Isabelle and Chanelle are made of tough stuff and have bright futures ahead of them. I don't think nasty comments from ancient fossil relics slating their appearance and dehumanising them will bother them too much.
http://i.imgur.com/rh3VFQl.gif



Isabelle has a bright future ahead of her for sure...:laugh:

[sampvt]

Be my guest, if you quote them here and they display the same qualities that I'm describing (mocking someone's appearance or slutshaming them) I'll denounce them right here and now, because I'm a man of my word and consistent. You must realise however that I'm not going to always see every post, but I can assure you that last year in particular I was criticising people who were mocking Jason's appearance. What I was 'ragging' Kaz about (strange turn of phrase) was more that she was (rightly) saying that threads like these are nasty and unnecessary, but at the same time allowing herself and others to be nasty about the way other housemates look, and call women sluts and slappers.

And let's just get this clear Sam - I don't hunt you at all. The large majority of the time (with a few exceptions that I'll concede), it is you that responds to my posts in an abrasive and patronising manner - and so I respond in kind, that's the way it works. Then you accuse me of the very same thing and make out I started it. Look, I'm sure you're a nice man and I have no desire to constantly argue with you, but more often than not it is you that talks down to me and thus what starts it off. If you responded to my posts in a more civilised manner there honestly wouldn't be an issue.

I guess im gonna have to concede that you made your point well and I cant fault it, so i give you this one, but coming for Kaz was wrong, she did nothing wrong, so lets agree to disagree. I admit when i am wrong.

[Kazanne]

I am a great person, I'm glad you agree.

You are wonderful,unlike myself who really doesn't care a jot.BTW I have NEVER seen a post of yours where you have pulled any of your pals up for calling people names,and I have seen some of the ones pretending they are lily white say some awful things,but no worries eh? This is me :devil:Can you find us some of those posts ?

[armand.kay]

I hope they tell him on screen that she's dumped him

http://i55.tinypic.com/2ns6r91.gif

hmm her coming in to do his family and friends noms only to nominate him and his pals?

[LukeB]

I hope they tell him on screen that she's dumped him

http://i55.tinypic.com/2ns6r91.gif

don't be so mean :( (sarcasm :worry:)

it's funny enough that he has only just talked about his girlfriend. from what we have been seeing he's been acting like a single lad flirting and getting in showers with Kayleigh.

[Amy Jade]

hmm her coming in to do his family and friends noms only to nominate him and his pals?

I would scream!

[Greg!]

yeah I don't really care about the comments coz I'm no angel on her but when they're calling other people out on their posts :laugh:

Don't get me wrong I'm not perfect either and have made lighthearted personal comments about housemates, but some of the nastiness and vitriol spouted on here by certain people towards housemates is really bad and worrying.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

:clap1:

[Rob!]

Can I just point out though, there's a huge difference in making a thread with a feeling of schadenfreude, that a housemate's girlfriend has dumped him for his behaviour in the house than making a thread specifically to be horrible about someone's appearance? We watch Big Brother to study a housemate's behaviour and if that behaviour is something we don't agree with then we're entitled to empathise it when even Tom's girlfriend seems to agree.

[Glenn-C]

Steph did it first
https://static.standard.co.uk/s3fs-public/thumbnails/image/2016/02/09/13/Stephaniedavis.jpg

Maybe Tom's girlfriend and Sam Reece can get together?

[Ashsleigh]

ah so its an insult then is it, cool, thanks for the poke.

Luke called me headless once.

http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Will-Ferrell-Confused-Stare.gif

[LukeB]

Luke called me headless once.

http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Will-Ferrell-Confused-Stare.gif

my evil ways are being exposed

[Jack_]

You are wonderful,unlike myself who really doesn't care a jot.BTW I have NEVER seen a post of yours where you have pulled any of your pals up for calling people names,and I have seen some of the ones pretending they are lily white say some awful things,but no worries eh? This is me :devil:Can you find us some of those posts ?

Again, thank you - I'm glad you agree I'm wonderful.

I've just done a bit of searching, here's a few:

It's par for the course on here these days and the comments about Jason being ugly aren't any better

It's all so childish and petty and unnecessary on all sides. Grow up

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=8846465&postcount=150

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=7943706&postcount=184

And the Award for the Most Sluttiest housemate of All time goes to ...

Biancca Lake.

http://i.huffpost.com/gen/1910517/thumbs/o-BIG-BROTHER-BIANCCA-570.jpg?6

http://cdn.bbspy.co.uk/images/uploads/bb2014_biannca_eviction2.jpg

yeah can we not slut shame k thanks, it's bad enough on here as it is

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Um yes she did. Sitting in a group of people calling someone a slug is bullying. The very thing she's bitched about everyone doing to Simon this week.

Not only is the slut a bullying vile bastard but she's a hypercrite too.
No it isn't. And once again, all of that stopped after two weeks.

I don't think there's any need to be calling people 'sluts' either.

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So because it stopped it was ok?

The woman was a prostitute so the word slut is more than appropriate

Didn't say that either. What she did was out of order and she is a ****, but she isn't a bully. The rest of her time in the house wasn't that bad and this week she's been fine, why hold two weeks of her life against her forever?

Well first of all there's nothing wrong with being a prostitute, second of all the word 'slut' isn't really appropriate because it's a profession not a pastime and lastly calling people (well let's be honest, it's mainly women) 'sluts' is just nasty and misogynistic. You're better than that Glenn and you know you are, don't stoop to her level.

And? What's wrong with sleeping with dozens of men, or sleeping with as many people as you personally want to? The word 'slut' or 'slag' or anything like that is pointless and nasty, who cares how many people someone has slept with, or whether they do it for money?

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She's a nasty vile slut and I have no problem saying that whatsoever, so

Well you're letting yourself down by using such misogynistic terminology to be quite honest. Still yet to hear what the problem with sleeping around is but whatever.

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I didn't say he was absolved. The useless tart should have got a proper job to support her child and pay debts like a normal person, instead of laying on her back getting banged for an hour a pop.

Who are you to define what's a 'proper job'? A job is a job, you can't define 'proper'.

Once again, there is nothing wrong with two consenting adults exchanging money for sexual gratification. Who made this ridiculous rule?

I'm actually defending people (that goes for anyone) from being called 'sluts' because it's misogynistic and silly. In fact, it's nasty terms like that being thrown around the Big Brother section that puts me off viewing it every series.

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It's time for some truth tea to hit this thread

1) For the umpteenth time, winning Big Brother UK is NOT an effective barometer of measurement as to how good of a housemate you are, since the public are in charge and the public largely know nothing. They crowned Sam ****ing Evans a winner for **** sake. Can we please stop churning out 'so and so won' as if it's at all relevant? Thanks

2) There is nothing wrong with prostitution and there is everything wrong with the constant slut shaming that goes on series after series. 'Helen was a prostitute', 'Aisleyne was a prostitute', 'Harry IS a prostitute', 'Nikki was a prostitute!!!'...who the **** cares? It doesn't matter, can we please stop using 'prostitute' as an insult when there's absolutely nothing wrong with the profession? The double standards are simply astounding and that goes for people on all sides. It is irrelevant and nasty, please stop bringing it up.

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Good post, especially the last paragraph. Really getting sick of seeing words like 'home wrecker' and slag bandied about on here, it's exactly the same as those people who blame the person who cheated with their partner (usually a woman) more than their partner themselves. The latent misogyny is not only disgusting but it's also quite scary.

Also if it emerged that someone like Jale or Kimberly had been a prostitute, I can almost guarantee those terms wouldn't be used as much as they are for Helen, it's just because it's her that they are. And just because she's acting like a **** in the house it doesn't give people the right to drag up totally irrelevant issues and use misogynistic terminology. Criticise her present actions, not her past.

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Discussing his merits as a housemate should be fine but as I always say vitriolic personal attacks shouldn't be acceptable regardless of who it is, it's so toxic

Good job he doesn't have any family on this forum (yet) cause if anyone insulted someone I care about like what happens on here I'd ruin their life

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If you find any others you don't think I've criticised, I implore you to quote them and I will.

Now where are the examples of you denouncing your friends for making 'nasty' posts?

[Kazanne]

Again, thank you - I'm glad you agree I'm wonderful.

I've just done a bit of searching, here's a few:



http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=8846465&postcount=150

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showpost.php?p=7943706&postcount=184





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If you find any others you don't think I've criticised, I implore you to quote them and I will.

Now where are the examples of you denouncing your friends for making 'nasty' posts?

I don't denounce any of them they are free to post what they want,I may not agree but it's sod all to do with me what opinions others have,I don't go round telling people what they should and should not post, I just think affairs of the heart are kinda below the belt, ,my opinion whether people like it or not, and thankyou for the posts,lol but I was talking about THIS time round ,but no worries.these are people that have hardly been posting this time,

[Rob!]

Not Glenn exposed

[Jack_]

I don't denounce any of them they are free to post what they want,I may not agree but it's sod all to do with me what opinions others have,I don't go round telling people what they should and should not post, I just think affairs of the heart are kinda below the belt, ,my opinion whether people like it or not, and thankyou for the posts,lol but I was talking about THIS time round ,but no worries.

So why didn't you afford the same freedom to Luke? Is it because he's not your friend, or because you don't mind Tom as a housemate? This was literally your first post in this thread:

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty,says a lot about people really.

I agree that mocking people's affairs outside of the house isn't really necessary, in the exact same way that mocking the way people look, or calling women sluts and slappers isn't either. This is a genuine question - why do you think it's acceptable or necessary to do that? Don't you think this place would be a lot more civilised if we could discuss the housemates solely on their characters and what they do in the house - rather than the way they look or their sexual promiscuity? I genuinely, honestly don't get what relevance the way someone looks is to whether they're a good housemate or not? These are just people on a television show we watch for 48 minutes a night, yes some of them may be annoying or boring or do things we don't like - but why does that mean we need to slut shame or insult their appearance? They're still human. Is there not a part of you that finds it bit juvenile and childish? The only reason I call people out for it is because I find it draining, it really makes this forum a miserable place to frequent during on season and that's a damn shame.

With regards to 'this time around', I honestly can't say I've seen anyone insult a housemate other than Isabelle's appearance? I don't think Lotan even had insults levelled at him like that and he was detested. I'm not sure why that is because Jason got it bad last year, but like I said, if I saw it I'd have called it out.

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[Kazanne]

So why didn't you afford the same freedom to Luke? Is it because he's not your friend, or because you don't mind Tom as a housemate? This was literally your first post in this thread:



I agree that mocking people's affairs outside of the house isn't really necessary, in the exact same way that mocking the way people look, or calling women sluts and slappers isn't either. This is a genuine question - why do you think it's acceptable or necessary to do that? Don't you think this place would be a lot more civilised if we could discuss the housemates solely on their characters and what they do in the house - rather than the way they look or their sexual promiscuity? I genuinely, honestly don't get what relevance the way someone looks is to whether they're a good housemate or not? These are just people on a television show we watch for 48 minutes a night, yes some of them may be annoying or boring or do things we don't like - but why does that mean we need to slut shame or insult their appearance? They're still human. Is there not a part of you that finds it bit juvenile and childish? The only reason I call people out for it is because I find it draining, it really makes this forum a miserable place to frequent during on season and that's a damn shame.

With regards to 'this time around', I honestly can't say I've seen anyone insult a housemate other than Isabelle's appearance? I don't think Lotan even had insults levelled at him like that and he was detested. I'm not sure why that is because Jason got it bad last year, but like I said, if I saw it I'd have called it out.

Nothing to do with that,I have explained once real life is different to what happens on the forum for what its worth I thought it pretty nasty that people were gloating about Lotan losing his job,and also I have never called anyone a slut,*****,sperm bank ,yes I have used slapper ,but so have plenty others why choose me to vent at, if you are gonna get that wrapped up in it call them all out,I do not appreciate being singled out for doing something the majority do and still do in here,so probably best you just ignore me and I you.You have said NOTHING to anyone else about name calling during this BB

[Jack_]

Nothing to do with that,I have explained once real life is different to what happens on the forum for what its worth I thought it pretty nasty that people were gloating about Lotan losing his job,and also I have never called anyone a slut,*****,sperm bank ,yes I have used slapper ,but so have plenty others why choose me to vent at, if you are gonna get that wrapped up in it call them all out,I do not appreciate being singled out for doing something the majority do and still do in here,so probably best you just ignore me and I you.You have said NOTHING to anyone else about name calling during this BB

But like I said in my first response to you, by that logic if real life is different to what happens on a forum, and Tom is unlikely to ever see this thread - what's the issue? It's exactly the same argument that I'm making with regards to slut shaming/insulting appearances. Wouldn't you agree that one's appearance is the same or even more sensitive a subject as one's family/relationships? By that token they should both be off-limits.

I know you haven't used all the terms, my point was that some of your 'friends' have and you haven't criticised them for it in the way you have Luke for making this thread. On another note, and at risk of me sitting here mansplaining, do you not feel as a woman that calling other women slappers and the like is just nasty and unnecessary? It's bad enough when men do it, I just don't ~get it~? Why denigrate members of your own sex for something as irrelevant as sexual promiscuity? I've just never understood why how often or little someone sleeps around - or how much or little they wear - is not only a marker of whether someone's a good Big Brother housemate, but whether they're a good person in general? It's one of the least important characteristics of a person, surely. I don't understand what people gain from mocking people so nastily on this matter.

And come on Kazanne, you know full well it's not just you I call out for this stuff - perhaps I haven't done it so often this series but I've had plenty of run-ins with others (including your friends) on this subject in the past. Like I said, the only reason I brought it up with you is because it seemed a tad hypocritical in the context of your original post.

[Kazanne]

But like I said in my first response to you, by that logic if real life is different to what happens on a forum, and Tom is unlikely to ever see this thread - what's the issue? It's exactly the same argument that I'm making with regards to slut shaming/insulting appearances. Wouldn't you agree that one's appearance is the same or even more sensitive a subject as one's family/relationships? By that token they should both be off-limits.

I know you haven't used all the terms, my point was that some of your 'friends' have and you haven't criticised them for it in the way you have Luke for making this thread. On another note, and at risk of me sitting here mansplaining, do you not feel as a woman that calling other women slappers and the like is just nasty and unnecessary? It's bad enough when men do it, I just don't ~get it~? Why denigrate members of your own sex for something as irrelevant as sexual promiscuity? I've just never understood why how often or little someone sleeps around - or how much or little they wear - is not only a marker of whether someone's a good Big Brother housemate, but whether they're a good person in general? It's one of the least important characteristics of a person, surely. I don't understand what people gain from mocking people so nastily on this matter.

And come on Kazanne, you know full well it's not just you I call out for this stuff - perhaps I haven't done it so often this series but I've had plenty of run-ins with others (including your friends) on this subject in the past. Like I said, the only reason I brought it up with you is because it seemed a tad hypocritical in the context of your original post.

No Tom wont see this thread but he will come out to no girlfriend and people are relishing in that, Isabelle and co wont see the threads or come out to it,not from us anyway,not sure I am getting this across as its meant,the relishing of someone coming out to be hurt seems much worse imo. Just my take on it.

[fitz2k2]

lmaoooooooooooooooo I just saw her in the BET Awards hahaha