[LukeB]

In the diary room, Tom reveals to Big Brother; “I had a down moment, I’ve got a girlfriend I’ve been with her for 5 months, I just want to make sure everything’s good, I’m worried about how she’s doing…”

if only he knew

[Niamh.]

oh I missed that, did she dump him?

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

oh I missed that, did she dump him?

Yeah,

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Yeah,

[armand.kay]

poor that.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by LukeB

if only he knew

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty,says a lot about people really.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty,says a lot about people really.

it's harmless and he is the reason why he doesn't have a gf anymore. I wouldn't laugh if she was in the wrong.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by LukeB

it's harmless and he is the reason why he doesn't have a gf anymore. I wouldn't laugh if she was in the wrong.

You know nothing other than what another fan faves sister has said all hearsay and surmising ,imo laughing at someone who could be hurt by that is mean in my book,it's not harmless to him is it?

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

You know nothing other than what another fan faves sister has said all hearsay and surmising ,imo laughing at someone who could be hurt by that is mean in my book,it's not harmless to him is it?

if it hurt him because of what she has done then that would be mean

but because he did this to himself, i have no sympathy. it's his own fault.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

How mean,whether you like him or not,that is really nasty

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

Sorry but that logic doesn't wash with me, because you could quite easily extend that to this thread and surmise that 'well, he isn't likely to see it so what's the problem'. I don't agree with that and I don't agree with degrading women or insulting their appearances, be it in real life or on a forum, what's the need for it?

And your dislikes of people concern their appearance? And how sexually promiscuous they may or may not be? Isn't that a bit shallow?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Sorry but that logic doesn't wash with me, because you could quite easily extend that to this thread and surmise that 'well, he isn't likely to see it so what's the problem'. I don't agree with that and I don't agree with degrading women or insulting their appearances, be it in real life or on a forum, what's the need for it?

And your dislikes of people concern their appearance? And how sexually promiscuous they may or may not be? Isn't that a bit shallow?

I really don't care what 'washes' with you,I don't see you pulling up your 'mates' when they are degrading anyone that they don't like,tit for tat and all that.

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

Originally Posted by Jack_

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

Yeah I don't think so, Kazanne.

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Big difference is I am on a forum,where the HM8s don't hear so it doesn't hurt them they are none the wiser we are just venting our likes and dislikes,this for Tom is real life and when he comes out it could hurt him a lot for all we know,

Yeah to be fair...we are all on a forum so these.threads arent going to be read most likely. There are plenty of awful things said about people on here....id say this thread is pretty tame compared to many ive seen

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

Inserts The "oh there's the tea!" Vine here.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by sampvt

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

Jack is right you know / nearly headless nick.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Jack is right you know / nearly headless nick.

so predictable.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Jack is right you know / nearly headless nick.

Are these posts codes for something we the general public are not allowed to understand but have secret meaning to only the select few. Would you care to explain this nearly headless nick line.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by sampvt

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

Because I consistently criticise anyone that mocks any housemate's appearance or slutshames them. Half of this forum may not be consistent but I am.

I don't care who's a mod and who isn't, I continue to believe that the vitriolic and nasty posts about the way housemates look year in, year out make this place a very miserable place to frequent during on season. It's got progressively worse over the last few years and I'll call it out whenever I see fit, because there's absolutely no justification for it whatsoever.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Because I consistently criticise anyone that mocks any housemate's appearance or slutshames them. Half of this forum may not be consistent but I am.

I don't care who's a mod and who isn't, I continue to believe that the vitriolic and nasty posts about the way housemates look year in, year out make this place a very miserable place to frequent during on season. It's got progressively worse over the last few years and I'll call it out whenever I see fit, because there's absolutely no justification for it whatsoever.

If you give me 20 mins ill search back to see how many times you have pulled your mates up for vitriolic posts. Isnt that what you are ragging Kaz about. Whats good for the goose, etc. You hunt and rag me loads but all I do is fight with you (metaphorically of course) and I end up in trouble for arguing my points. Isnt this what you mean, your post has so many holes Im having trouble following your points. You cant insult someone for something they did not do just because it upsets your morals.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by sampvt

How can you slap Kazanne for something other people have done. She isnt a mod and neither are you. That was a low blow and totally unnecessary.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I actually agree but so is calling women slappers and wh*res and sluts and sperm banks and insulting their appearances and saying they're not good for much else, but I haven't seen you denouncing that or refraining from doing it yourself?