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Originally Posted by Vicky.
What I dont get about this is...ok jay is apparently trying to stop the animosity in the house. That would be fair comment...however, Aaron hasn't even mentioned this since it happened. It is Jay and Louise that keep bringing it up, and therefore Jay and Louise who are continuing the animosity in the first place.
Also it was Jay that said he swears he will never speak to Aaron again and went a bit mental raging on about it(during the party...you know, the party that he was moaning that AARON was ruining) and swapping the money round, but then after hes had his rant he expects Aaron to jump to what he wants? Reminiscent of Jems attempt to 'build bridges'...she had her say and then expected Aaron to forget it because she had decided enough was enough.
The excuse is that its Aaron causing an atmosphere for the whole house, when this isnt the case. There is no atmosphere between Aaron/Alex/Tom. Only with Aaron/Lou/Jay. If they were really bothered about the atmosphere, they would leave Aaron to do his own thing, and stop ranting on about it in front of Alex and Tom. Both of whom look quite out of place and awkward during this clip. Because other people are still ranting.
Basically, because Aaron didnt do what Jay wanted... Jay has brought it all back up again in front of everyone to try and score points. Thats what I get from this video.
Also, what doesnt make sense at all..is that Jay is trying to rid the house of atmosphere...right...but he had already had this particular convo with Aaron...so why have it again in front of everyone? Because he had backup? In having the same rant yet again, he is continuing it.
It's interesting that when Jay was outside with Aaron alone they were having a calm, reasonable conversation but when there's an audience he becomes confrontational. Very interesting indeed  |
But Aaron not mentioning it is precisely the reason why there's a negative atmosphere, it's because of his refusal to try and talk about the whole thing, he might not be outward and expressive with his anger but it's always there bubbling underneath the surface and that creates an uncomfortable living situation.
We all say things when we're pissed off in the heat of the moment that we don't mean; Aaron has said plenty of times that he's not going to talk to X for the rest of the series, Aden said it about Louise as well, I don't see why it comes under so much scrutiny now that Jay has said it. And he's not really expecting Aaron to "jump to what he wants" by apologising and admitting he was wrong. It's the other way round really, Jay has had to jump to what Aaron wants and swallow his pride because it was the
only way of getting Aaron to even utter a word to him
Aaron came in, Jay said he could come and sit with them so they could have a proper discussion because he realised it wasn't just about the two of them, they needed to resolve things as a group and also considering he'd been out there slagging Louise off then she does have a right to defend herself as well tbf. And I think he became more confrontational because Louise was kind of inflaming the whole situation in a way