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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy
I think this is lacking in Carolines life, clearly been spoilt to the extreme,maybe by parents who have dumped her off in boarding school and made her someone elses problem
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That seems pretty likely Chuff.
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Originally Posted by kistar
I personally think you should treat others how you want to be treated your self, live by example it's the only way to make a difference, tit for tat is ridiculous and things never get resolved, in a personal war like they are having one party needs to move things forward by changing how they are , understanding the bigger picture and knowing that's how to get resolution. Luke A is 31 he should be doing that.
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I disagree, in my own personal experience I've found if you let people get away with bad behaviour they'll keep on walking all over you, if you stand up for yourself and give back what you're getting from them, they tend to not treat you badly in future. It doesn't change them in general but it does make them treat you personally different because they know you won't be treated that way easily. I don't think people like Caroline learn from others being nice, that just makes them push boundaries even further.
What you're saying
should be the way to change peoples perspectives but sadly it just doesn't work on most people.