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Originally Posted by Withano

Thanks Cherie, I'm actually fine with it, I've talked about my sexuality before on here - will do again, if it was relevant to the discussion ofcourse.

I think Livia was quite clear with her first response.

Originally Posted by Livia

No, I am not attracted to transsexuals.

Originally Posted by Smithy

But you wouldn’t know unless they told you

Originally Posted by Smithy

So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

Originally Posted by Smithy

So you think within one minute of meeting this man you’d click that he was trans? I very very much doubt that but if that’s the story you want to tell go for it

Originally Posted by Withano

none of you have answered Smithy though, which speaks volumes

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

So come on Livia how many have you dated

Originally Posted by Withano

I think hes asking you to think metaphorically, in a situation where you meet that blatantly attractive man, at what point would he become an unattractive transman?

Originally Posted by Smithy

Christ at least some people on this site have common sense

Originally Posted by Withano

So its more your issue than theirs? (I'm not saying you're wrong but just to clarify, this is in your own head?)

Originally Posted by Withano

It is a personal choice, but others like LT clarified that he is turned off by big hands and big feet, which is fair enough, thats his personal choice. Your personal choice (and Livia's) seems to be with the word trans itself being the turn off... which seems more your problem than theirs?

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

You and the fear of a constructed penis, lol snunday afternoon on the tibb forum, more tea vicar?

Originally Posted by Withano

But that is to do with words. You would be physically into that man, until you learn he is a transman? (Unless youre an expert at spotting 'constructed penis', I'd argue that your issue is only in your own mind)

Originally Posted by Withano

I'm with you. It is hard to believe that Livia has a chromosome fetish.

Originally Posted by Withano

I simply asked you to answer a question, and even clarified in my post that you wasnt wrong in your answer, you dont have to discuss your preference if you dont want to. But I've concluded from your posts that you wouldnt date a trans because of the word trans, now I'm asking if I'm right or wrong? You dont need to get defensive.

Originally Posted by Withano

No not at all, your answers didnt make sense to me, so I wanted to clarify if I was right. LT's answer did make sense to me. I don't care what gender yoh are, many men may answer the same way as you, and I'd ask them the same questions, some women may answer in a similar way to LT, and I'd understand where theyre coming from.