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Withano · 07-01-2018, 12:18 PM

none of you have answered Smithy though, which speaks volumes

thesheriff443 · 07-01-2018, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

Again, you've not met many transsexuals if you think that's true.

So come on Livia how many have you dated

Livia · 07-01-2018, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

none of you have answered Smithy though, which speaks volumes

What is the question you'd like answered, withano?

I have said clearly I do not find transsexuals attractive, in much the same way I don't find men under 5'5" attractive. So I'm getting a LITTLE tired of having to explain myself.

Brillopad · 07-01-2018, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443

So come on Livida how many have you dated

She is under no obligation to date any. What is this - a nanny state.

Smithy · 07-01-2018, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

Like I said, you've not met many transsexuals in THE REAL WORLD.

Where the **** is he from then?

Withano · 07-01-2018, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

What is the question you'd like answered, withano?

I have said clearly I do not find transsexuals attractive, in much the same way I don't find men under 5'5" attractive. So I'm getting a LITTLE tired of having to explain myself.

I think hes asking you to think metaphorically, in a situation where you meet that blatantly attractive man, at what point would he become an unattractive transman?

Livia · 07-01-2018, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Brillopad

She is under no obligation to date any. What is this - a nanny state.

Yeah, I'm not answering that Brillo. He's like Finbar Saunders without the humour.

Smithy · 07-01-2018, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I think hes asking you to think metaphorically, in a situation where you meet that blatantly attractive man, at what point would he become an unattractive transman?

Christ at least some people on this site have common sense

Brillopad · 07-01-2018, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I think hes asking you to think metaphorically, in a situation where you meet that blatantly attractive man, at what point would he become an unattractive transman?

As a woman I would imagine at the point you discovered he had once been a woman.

thesheriff443 · 07-01-2018, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

Yeah, I'm not answering that Brillo. He's like Finbar Saunders without the humour.

I was playing with you livia as I often do!

Livia · 07-01-2018, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I think hes asking you to think metaphorically, in a situation where you meet that blatantly attractive man, at what point would he become an unattractive transman?

I have met lots of attractive men. And if it got to the point of undressing in the bedroom and they had not told me clearly they were transsexual, when they pulled out their constructed penis, I would be calling for a cab.

Withano · 07-01-2018, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Brillopad

As a woman I would imagine at the point you discovered he had once been a woman.

So its more your issue than theirs? (I'm not saying you're wrong but just to clarify, this is in your own head?)

Brillopad · 07-01-2018, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

So its more your issue than theirs? (I'm not saying you're wrong but just to clarify, this is in your own head?)

It’s personal choice. No more complicated than that.

Withano · 07-01-2018, 12:25 PM

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It’s personal choice. No more complicated than that.

It is a personal choice, but others like LT clarified that he is turned off by big hands and big feet, which is fair enough, thats his personal choice. Your personal choice (and Livia's) seems to be with the word trans itself being the turn off... which seems more your problem than theirs?

Livia · 07-01-2018, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

It is a personal choice, but others like LT clarified that he is turned off by big hands and big feet, which is fair enough, thats his personal choice. Your personal choice (and Livia's) seems to be with the word trans itself being the turn off... which seems more your problem than theirs?

It's nothing to do with words.

It's a physical thing. I am not physically attracted to men who used to be women and who have a constructed penis.

Lynette69 · 07-01-2018, 12:28 PM

Sadly throughout my life my choices have been made (I hope) without any bias or prejudice ... am I a saint ? Nope but as a fat bi disabled person I have been constantly aware of the unequality and bias that exists. My point is though I do believe that people assume that ur acceptance and support is 100% guaranteed if for example a bi woman goes to a gay bar and trust me on many many levels a gay bar to me offers as many problems as visiting a 'straight' bar in fact more in some experiences. Just on cbb examples of bias is constant from EVERYONE ... the misgendering ... likening a drag queen to a clown ... I don't need go on do I ?? And on a purely personal note ... if its the year of the woman and all aspects of society have been given a voice where is a disabled womans voice ? Ohhhhh I see they couldn't get the time off from basket weaving !!!! Lol ... sorry my little attempt at humour ...

Smithy · 07-01-2018, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Lynette69

Sadly throughout my life my choices have been made (I hope) without any bias or prejudice ... am I a saint ? Nope but as a fat bi disabled person I have been constantly aware of the unequality and bias that exists. My point is though I do believe that people assume that ur acceptance and support is 100% guaranteed if for example a bi woman goes to a gay bar and trust me on many many levels a gay bar to me offers as many problems as visiting a 'straight' bar in fact more in some experiences. Just on cbb examples of bias is constant from EVERYONE ... the misgendering ... likening a drag queen to a clown ... I don't need go on do I ?? And on a purely personal note ... if its the year of the woman and all aspects of society have been given a voice where is a disabled womans voice ? Ohhhhh I see they couldn't get the time off from basket weaving !!!! Lol ... sorry my little attempt at humour ...

Lilbro stop making multis

thesheriff443 · 07-01-2018, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

It's nothing to do with words.

It's a physical thing. I am not physically attracted to men who used to be women and who have a constructed penis.

You and the fear of a constructed penis, lol snunday afternoon on the tibb forum, more tea vicar?

Lynette69 · 07-01-2018, 12:31 PM

On this word constructed ... does that mean a so called straight man wouldn't sleep with a woman who had had breast reconstruction then because surely just by definition they would have been constructed? In fact any kind of cosmetic surgery ....

Withano · 07-01-2018, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

It's nothing to do with words.

It's a physical thing. I am not physically attracted to men who used to be women and who have a constructed penis.

But that is to do with words. You would be physically into that man, until you learn he is a transman? (Unless youre an expert at spotting 'constructed penis', I'd argue that your issue is only in your own mind)

Ant. · 07-01-2018, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy

Lilbro stop making multis

I'm a skinny gay disabled person! Okay maybe I've got a bit of a stomach but it's my inability to exercise :Oh

Lynette69 · 07-01-2018, 12:33 PM

Oiiiii I'm me .... who is lilbro ????

Cherie · 07-01-2018, 12:34 PM

The question in the OP suggests you would know from the get go, you can move the goalposts and add in all other variables which is what is happening here, in truth unless it has actually happened to us none of us know what we would do if we didn't know from the outset but that is not the question