[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

It does seem that way doesn't it. I thought we were beyond thinking sexualities were wrong and that people had to have any specific reason for saying they would not shag anyone. Seemingly not.

On a slightly different though related topic...what are peoples thoughts on if passing transpeople should tell their potential partners they are trans before it gets to a sexual level (at which stage it would become pretty obvious)? I think they should. I expect to be in the minority though.

That sort of thing, I believe, should be discussed way before the relationship becomes sexual. I'd even go as far as to say it should be one of the first things that's discussed.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

no iv been to Dobbies and bought a goldfish

It's a good thing it's only got a 3 second memory or he would be bored already

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

It does seem that way doesn't it. I thought we were beyond thinking sexualities were wrong and that people had to have any specific reason for saying they would not shag anyone. Seemingly not.

On a slightly different though related topic...what are peoples thoughts on if passing transpeople should tell their potential partners they are trans before it gets to a sexual level (at which stage it would become pretty obvious)? I think they should. I expect to be in the minority though.

Of course!If i got duped into even kissing a trans woman(not very likely) i’d probably twat them.

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by Withano

If thats all you have to add to my pretty lengthy paragraph, i think weve already came to a mutual understanding. You did afterall, only want to know so you could understand where I was coming from, right?

You were badgering people about their sexual preferences, I was asking if you have any. If you don't then clearly you won't understand others that do, if you do then why are calling others into question?

Its not that comfortable though is it? Perhaps a thought for others when you do that.

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

It does seem that way doesn't it. I thought we were beyond thinking sexualities were wrong and that people had to have any specific reason for saying they would not shag anyone. Seemingly not.

On a slightly different though related topic...what are peoples thoughts on if passing transpeople should tell their potential partners they are trans before it gets to a sexual level (at which stage it would become pretty obvious)? I think they should. I expect to be in the minority though.

I feel like it's something that should be explained at the first date tbh.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

thats not what's happening

Yes it is, members have been honest and said no they they have been basically asked to explain themselves

[Withano]

Originally Posted by jaxie

Tell me Withano, do you date girls?

Originally Posted by jaxie

I don't need permission. And you didn't answer the question. I'm trying to understand where you are coming from.

Originally Posted by jaxie

Still waiting for an answer?

Originally Posted by Livia

I'm still waiting with great anticipation to find out whether withano dates girls. I can't make a proper judgement of him if I don't know.

Originally Posted by jaxie

Me too but he seems to have exited stage left.

Shameful sexual orientation bullying attempt towards you from 2 people on this thread.

Originally Posted by jaxie

You still didn't answer my question.

Originally Posted by Cherie

So members are being brow beaten into explaining their sexual preferences, I thought I had seen it all ...

Thanks Cherie, I'm actually fine with it, I've talked about my sexuality before on here - will do again, if it was relevant to the discussion ofcourse.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I know she said that, but the point is that smithy and withano were trying to make is you could find a trans attractive without knowing but once you know they are trans do they they become unattractive

The answer is clearly yes. Knowing makes a huge difference to many.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Yes it is, members have been honest and said no they they have been basically asked to explain themselves

I've not asked her to justify liking real cock.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

Of course!If i got duped into even kissing a trans woman(not very likely) i’d probably twat them.

I asked my husband ,and he said exactly the same as you

[Withano]

Originally Posted by jaxie

You were badgering people about their sexual preferences, I was asking if you have any. If you don't then clearly you won't understand others that so, if you do then why are calling others into question?

Its not that comfortable though is it? Perhaps a thought for others when you do that.

Ive only discussed the things that they, themselves brought up Jaxie. Unlike you.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Withano

Ive only discussed the things that they, themselves brought up Jaxie. Unlike you.

This true, we don't agree on much, but people on here are trying to make us into a mob ganging up on livia

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

Of course!If i got duped into even kissing a trans woman(not very likely) i’d probably twat them.

That is another issue. For a trans to try and dupe someone into sex is disgusting. If they deliberately don’t tell someone and in the heat of the moment that person is unaware that is abuse in my opinion. The shock could be quite damaging to some people.

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

I asked my husband ,and he said exactly the same as you

I think it’d be a standard reaction.You’d feel violated.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

This true, we don't agree on much, but people on here are trying to make us into a mob ganging up on livia

People can read the thread themselves and come to whatever conclusion. It did look like you were scolding Livia for her personal sexual choices though to me Almost as if trying to find an 'aha' movement from which to tell her her own sexuality and choices was wrong

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

It does seem that way doesn't it. I thought we were beyond thinking sexualities were wrong and that people had to have any specific reason for saying they would not shag anyone. Seemingly not.

On a slightly different though related topic...what are peoples thoughts on if passing transpeople should tell their potential partners they are trans before it gets to a sexual level (at which stage it would become pretty obvious)? I think they should. I expect to be in the minority though.

I think they should be 100% honest about who they are. Love doesn't live on lies. Also the person the trans person is dating might be religious or want their own children and this would have a strong bearing on the relationship.

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

That is another issue. For a trans to try and dupe someone into sex is disgusting. If they deliberately don’t tell someone and in the heat of the moment that person is unaware that is abuse in my opinion. The shock could be quite damaging to some people.

Totally

[Vicky.]

You as in the royal you btw. Not just you personally

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

Of course!If i got duped into even kissing a trans woman(not very likely) i’d probably twat them.

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

I asked my husband ,and he said exactly the same as you

Punching women. Nice.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

This true, we don't agree on much, but people on here are trying to make us into a mob ganging up on livia

Thing is we have seen it many times before from some people - it is a pattern of behaviour.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Withano

Thanks Cherie, I'm actually fine with it, I've talked about my sexuality before on here - will do again, if it was relevant to the discussion ofcourse.

You should have quoted your own posts as well for proper context

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Punching women. Nice.

As they still have the physical strength of men they are more able to defend themselves.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Is it now would you fight a transexual?

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Punching women. Nice.

It depends on what your perception of a woman is.To me cosmetic surgery and hormones doesn’t make a woman.It makes a cosmetically altered man on steroids.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

Of course!If i got duped into even kissing a trans woman(not very likely) i’d probably twat them.

This happened to a lesbian friend of mine, except she ended up being the one twatted

In a club, was dark, they were drunk, transwoman did not reveal they were actually a transwoman until they had my friend alone in her house. Then tried to guilt trip friend into shagging them anyway even though lesbians friend is obviously..lesbian so not into penises. Transwoman ended up assaulting her as she was apparently transphobic and went round slagging her off to everyone. Was all awful really.

Sadly not even a rare thing these days. Lesbians are being scolded for their sexualitites on a depressingly regular basis. And usually, the ones saying that the lesbians are transphobic are pre-op anyway. So fully expecting a gay female to be shagging male people. But yeah, this is 'progressive'.