[westiebabe]

What a nasty piece of work Jem appears to be. I think this whole episode of being in BB house is less about the experience, and more about the serious issues of jealousy she harbours about her sister. I am not a fan of Faye at all, but feel Jem is determined to spoil any happiness or enjoyment Faye may have - in the house or not! Dearie me...

[Babschap]

Originally Posted by westiebabe

What a nasty piece of work Jem appears to be. I think this whole episode of being in BB house is less about the experience, and more about the serious issues of jealousy she harbours about her sister. I am not a fan of Faye at all, but feel Jem is determined to spoil any happiness or enjoyment Faye may have - in the house or not! Dearie me...

I had the same thought, poor Faye, 20 years old and her sister is emotionally blackmailing her with " mummy will be upset about you and Aaron," or about her smoking. Jem needs to go.

[Pyramid*]

Couldnt' agree more.

She's spiteful, nasty, self centred, dogmatic and completely resents Faye - in just about everything as far as I can see - from her as a person, to what she does, and which who.

I think Jem is a pretty despicable woman. No wonder she has no friends. !!

[westiebabe]

The argument she uses to manipulate and undermine Faye..."mummy wouldn't like what she is seeing" is food for thought.

Memo to Jem and Faye's parents: Worry less about Faye making a pratt of herself on BB.....worry a great deal more about her sister. Serious problems or what!!

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Couldnt' agree more.

She's spiteful, nasty, self centred, dogmatic and completely resents Faye - in just about everything as far as I can see - from her as a person, to what she does, and which who.

I think Jem is a pretty despicable woman. No wonder she has no friends. !!

You are blowing what has happened well out of proportion!

Jem and Faye clearly have a lot of sibling love for each other. Why would Jem be jelous? She has a boyfriend of her own, has a more successful career...

They have been brought up very differerntly and think very differently in result to it. Its just a matter of disagreeing a lot rather than having all those negative personality traits. But they still try their best to look out for each other.

Jem is obviously more serious more often than Faye.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Jords

You are blowing what has happened well out of proportion!

Jem and Faye clearly have a lot of sibling love for each other. Why would Jem be jelous? She has a boyfriend of her own, has a more successful career...

They have been brought up very differerntly and think very differently in result to it. Its just a matter of disagreeing a lot rather than having all those negative personality traits. But they still try their best to look out for each other.

Jem is obviously more serious more often than Faye.

I'm blowing nothing out of proportion. I'm commenting on what I see, and I can tell you now, there is something seriously wrong with Jem in the manner in which she tries to control and continually berate Faye.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

I'm blowing nothing out of proportion. I'm commenting on what I see, and I can tell you now, there is something seriously wrong with Jem in the manner in which she tries to control and continually berate Faye.

Its clearly just the 'Big sister looking out for little sister, little sister thinks she knows what she is doing' effect.

I think Jem should butt out a bit, but its really not that surprising whats going on!

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Jords

Its clearly just the 'Big sister looking out for little sister, little sister thinks she knows what she is doing' effect.

I think Jem should butt out a bit, but its really not that surprising whats going on!

I couldn't disgree more Jords. Jem is controlling, manipulating, using emotional blackmail, and clearly resents her far prettier, far more popular sister. that's very much my take on it, and nothing will steer me from thinking otherwise.

[Josy]

I wish one of them would just hurry up and leave, I don't even care which one.

[Pyramid*]

I wish jem would **** ..... I thought Faye was bad, but geezo... having seen Jem, no wonder faye wanted away for a couple of weeks from her.

[BJ]

Originally Posted by Josy

I wish one of them would just hurry up and leave, I don't even care which one.

I wish they'd both go. Faye is so needy and Jem is a vile spiteful person.

It's the Rex scenario all over again.

[SocietyIsRuined]

If I had her as my sister then I wouldn't need an enemy. Horrible woman.

[westiebabe]

You have your opinion - I have mine. Why is it that Jem constantly criticises and Faye always tries to placate? Why does she always use the adage.."I know what Mummy and Daddy are thinking...or.. I am always having to pick up the pieces after you"?
She would be better trying to enjoy her OWN experience, but then...(excuse me if I am cynical)..this is not about BBhouse, but about sibling rivalry in extremis! God help her if her machinations backfire...calling all psychologists.....get there quick!!!!!

[rusticgal]

Jem is totally jealous of Faye....I feel for Faye cos she so does not want to let her sister down an obviously loves her.....but Jem has a lot of issues. Jem needs to stop being selfish. Maybe its the big sister syndrome that she feels she should be the one with all the attention.
Faye is clearly the more attractive and probably has more male attention....that sounds cruel but maybe its true.
Jemma should never have gone into the BB house knowing her sister was in there...it was always going to take away her thunder... however Jem is so selfish she didnt give that a second thought...she has steamed in there dictating to Faye and completely undermining everything she does to choice of company she keeps down to smoking the odd cigarette...let her be.
Then to top it all despite the valant support she had she still wants to go....

I hope to god she goes within the next 24hrs....or be up and she will inevitably go on friday.

[Vanessa]

I'm back on this forum. I just left Digital Spy. I feel like crap!

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I'm back on this forum. I just left Digital Spy. I feel like crap!

Why did you leave DSgreat to have you on here anyway,their loss our gain

[joeysteele]

I wouldn't like to have a Sister like Jemma. She is too controlling, can see why Faye is the way she is partly because of her older Sister.
Everytime though that things are looking right between Fay and Aaron and they are happy,Jemma jumps in to bring her down, that is not what good Sisters do and it's not looking out for your Sister either.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I wouldn't like to have a Sister like Jemma. She is too controlling, can see why Faye is the way she is partly because of her older Sister.
Everytime though that things are looking right between Fay and Aaron and they are happy,Jemma jumps in to bring her down, that is not what good Sisters do and it's not looking out for your Sister either.

Big Brother sent Jem to the House to break Aaron and Faye up.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Big Brother sent Jem to the House to break Aaron and Faye up.

I agree and nice to see you back too.

[chid646]

Faye and Jem are so alike - Faye manipulation of Aaron with the "you're scaring me now" and with the on again and off again relationship - it's exactly like what Jem is doing with Faye down to the I'm leaving, I'm not leaving the house. Growing up in that family seems to have left a similar scar on both of them

[luminoussun]

haha should of got rid of her when you had the chance

[MTVN]

Actually felt sorry for Faye tonight, Jem was a bit out of order

[waterhog]

seen as its fay all i can say is oh dear lol

[rk3388]

she made a mistake but theres no need to be so harsh :O
I feel quite bad for her sometimes

[Cherie]

The really scary part is when Jem brings her Mum, Dad, friends, family, and the neigbour dog into in, and how DISAPPOINTED they all are (especially the dog)...WTF

In Fayes letter from home, her Mum said and I quote "say hello to Aaron for us", would you say that if you totally DISAPPROVED of the relationship...Jem is looking for airtime and trying to bring Faye and Aaron down.