[lostalex]

I can't say it better than Kelly! And we saw Kelly together last weekend! (she was amazing btw)

Youtube video

[Niamh.]

awww sorry Alex

[Smithy]

What song did she cover when you saw her btw?

[LeatherTrumpet]

she looks a lot thinner in that vid than last time I saw her

[Josy]

Sorry to hear that Alex

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Smithy

What song did she cover when you saw her btw?

sunday morning maroon 5

this was my show...

Youtube video

[LeatherTrumpet]

how long a bf was he?

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Josy

Sorry to hear that Alex

it's okay, I was expecting it for at least a month. honestly i think the only reason we held on this long was because we had kelly tickets lol.

The final straw was when he actually said to me after a big fight "i'm sorry for having to yell at you"... and i said "you didn't have to" and then he said " well then i'm sorry that you made me feel like i had to".... I was like ummmm, NOPE.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

how long a bf was he?

8 months. my longest ever!

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by lostalex

8 months. my longest ever!

och thats not long

[Ammi]

..Alex....(I never liked him anyway....)..obviously I'm joking but I hope that you're ok.....

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

och thats not long

well we packed a lot into 8 months. we spent every weekend together since our 2nd date, and went on 2 vacations (1 trip to seattle for a week, and 1 4 day weekend at his parents house out in wine country) in that time period, not to mention we hosted my sister for 1 weekend, and also my oldest friend for a weekend. so it was a lot, and felt like more.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..Alex....(I never liked him anyway....)..obviously I'm joking but I hope that you're ok.....

thanks babe. he's a good guy, just not right for me. plus he was 5 years younger. i think in 5 years he will realize i'm the best he ever had. (i guess everyone thinks that after they break up though)

[Vanessa]

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

thanks

[Vanessa]

I have to say, i'm always happier when i'm single. Men give me headache.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I have to say, i'm always happier when i'm single. Men give me headache.

I've read a study that shows that married women live shorter lives than single women. but married men live longer lives than singe men.

So it seems the evidence is that single women do live longer, happier lives.

Unfortunately for me, single men live shorter, unhappier lives.

I do get lonely easily. but i'm sure i will find someone amazing in the next year. I do get a lot of attention on growlr. but i probably will wait a few weeks before i try to date.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by lostalex

I've read a study that shows that married women live shorter lives than single women. but married men live longer lives than singe men.

So it seems the evidence is that single women do live longer, happier lives.

Unfortunately for me, single men live shorter, unhappier lives.

I do get lonely easily. but i'm sure i will find someone amazing in the next year. I do get a lot of attention on growlr. but i probably will wait a few weeks before i try to date.

I'm very independent, so i find it hard to have a relationship. I like to do what i want when i want.

[Braden]

Sorry to hear about that, Alex

The song is good though, I find it brilliant that music can get people through all sorts of things.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Braden

Sorry to hear about that, Alex

The song is good though, I find it brilliant that music can get people through all sorts of things.

Thanks!

to be fair, us humans have pretty common experiences, even though we all like to think we are unique! but we all go through pretty similar struggles, and it's great when an artist like kelly is so honest in her songs and just makes you feel like you are singing the song yourself.

[lostalex]

my favorite song from the night...

Youtube video

[Natalie.]

Sorry to hear that

[Ashley.]

Aw.

Don't worry, your life isn't over.

[lostalex]

you guys are so cute! i really am not upset at all. i really am grateful that he did the dirty work, because i've been thinking about it for months. I was willing to put some more work into it, but i straight up asked him, do you wanna work on this? or do you think we are just wasting our time. I' grateful that he just admitted to me that he was;t wiling to work on it. and that's that.

I honestly didn't wanna waste any more time, and i've felt like i was wasting time for at least a month.

You guys are acting like i was DUMPED, i definitely wasn't "dumped".

to me someone who is dumped is someone who is totally in love and happy and then their boyfriend just breaks their heart. That is definitely not what happened here. I've been harassing him for months about how we can make our relationship better, and he basically said he's not willing to challenge his own ideas and try to change the things i was unhappy about.


I'm going to miss him, but i'm also very excitied about all new guys i'm gonna meet!

(or maybe i'm just being very positive, and in a few days i will break down crying, i don't know, but i'm pretty sure i won't)