[fruit_cake]

daft as brush Trish let her emotions get the better of her, it wasn't even her who nominated Dylan

all the while the sly calculating Noky sobbed on the sofa milking the sympathy

(or so some might say it happened!)

[Niamh.]

I don't know, people are different, Trish is more able for that type of confrontation, Noky is too meek and mild mannered

[vesavius]

I have zero problems with the way Trish handled Dylan. The guy deserved what he got and kudos to her for not being intimidated by his anger.

Honestly... Trish gets it in the neck for standing up for herself, Noky gets it in the neck for not standing up for herself.

These two can't do anything right for most of you. They are damned either way.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by vesavius

I have zero problems with the way Trish handled Dylan. The guy deserved what he got and kudos to her for not being intimidated by his anger.

Honestly... Trish gets it in the neck for standing up for herself, Noky gets it in the neck for not standing up for herself.

These two can't do anything right for most of you. They are damned either way.

yes but that's it, Trish didn't even nominate him. Why didn't Noky put that straight instead of just cowardly hiding on the sofa.. not much of a friend to Trish is she

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

yes but that's it, Trish didn't even nominate him. Why didn't Noky put that straight instead of just cowardly hiding on the sofa.. not much of a friend to Trish is she

She was probably terrified of him

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

yes but that's it, Trish didn't even nominate him. Why didn't Noky put that straight instead of just cowardly hiding on the sofa.. not much of a friend to Trish is she

If Noky had ploughed in and got into a fight with him, because a fight with him was all anyone was getting unless they were content to just be raged at, she would be criticised for that as well

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

daft as brush Trish let her emotions get the better of her, it wasn't even her who nominated Dylan

all the while the sly calculating Noky sobbed on the sofa milking the sympathy

(or so some might say it happened!)

The only daft people in all of this is Dylan, Olivia and Paul .

Trish will stand her ground, it's just who she is ...she doesn't back down to bullies and I love that about her.

Noky doesn't react well to being shouted at ,she will get her point across when things settle down. But she's more reserved.

Both women are very strong imo ,but Trish is just more assertive and vocal .

Noky was visible exhausted ,and she even said she just wants to stay and quiet and she wants peace .

It's rubbish about emotions getting the better , what about Dylan??...he was the one acting like a baby who didn't get his bottle . He was the one kicking off in the first place. And Trish showed him. Up for the fool he truly is . I think more people ...well the upstairs gang atleast,can see him for what he is now .

It was disgusting the way he spoke to both Trish & Noky. He breaks his own silly mind set rules by Nominating Trish previously. Now he wants to guilt trip them both .... it's completely garbage .

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by vesavius

If Noky had ploughed in and got into a fight with him, because a fight with him was all anyone was getting unless they were content to just be raged at, she would be criticised for that as well

I'm not suggesting Noky should have got into a fight with him at all, she could gently and respectfully have said, "Dylan, it wasn't Trish, it was me who nominated you" in a calm way.. but instead she just let him shout poor Trish down

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

The only daft people in all of this is Dylan, Olivia and Paul .

Trish will stand her ground, it's just who she is ...she doesn't back down to bullies and I love that about her.

Noky doesn't react well to being shouted at ,she will get her point across when things settle down. But she's more reserved.

Both women are very strong imo ,but Trish is just more assertive and vocal .

Noky was visible exhausted ,and she even said she just wants to stay and quiet and she wants peace .

It's rubbish about emotions getting the better , what about Dylan??...he was the one acting like a baby who didn't get his bottle . He was the one kicking off in the first place. And Trish showed him. Up for the fool he truly is . I think more people ...well the upstairs gang atleast,can see him for what he is now .

It was disgusting the way he spoke to both Trish & Noky. He breaks his own silly mind set rules by Nominating Trish previously. Now he wants to guilt trip them both .... it's completely garbage .

I also like that about Trish, but it probably renders her vulnerable to sticking up for people who really do not deserve it. In this case Noky

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

yes but that's it, Trish didn't even nominate him. Why didn't Noky put that straight instead of just cowardly hiding on the sofa.. not much of a friend to Trish is she

Why does it matter, Trish already explained fully who nominated who in the house meeting. And guess what Dylan the big oaf , Olivia the sour pus & STD Paul still didn't believe it . So as mentioned before... they're damned if they do and damned if they don't.

[MTVN]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

yes but that's it, Trish didn't even nominate him. Why didn't Noky put that straight instead of just cowardly hiding on the sofa.. not much of a friend to Trish is she

That's why they called the house meeting to put things straight and explain it calmly. Dylan left no chance of doing that initially with the way he burst in like a bull in a china shop. Also it was worse for Olivia to think Noky nominated her than for Dylan to think Trish nominated him so it wasn't really advantageous to Noky to stay silent. She was just probably taken aback a. by BB suddenly outing them and b. Dylan's aggressiveness. Many people would have done the same.

Noky was aware that Trish took on the responsibility of standing up to him though and even said that to Trish afterwards and apologised to her which I think showed a lot of humility. We don't always react how we'd like to react. How many times hours after an argument or conversation have we thought 'damn I've got the perfect response now'

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

I'm not suggesting Noky should have got into a fight with him at all, she could gently and respectfully have said, "Dylan, it wasn't Trish, it was me who nominated you" in a calm way.. but instead she just let him shout poor Trish down

Dylan wasn't listening to anything. he came in raging. If she had engaged he would have been the same with her.


Look, I will admit, I would also liked to see her have her friend's back, but I doubt there was anything to be gained by it until he had calmed down. He was not being rational. Trish can handle his bullshit easily, Noky is the kind of person who waits until the situation is calm and the person is receptive. I don't think that this makes her a bad person.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by MTVN

That's why they called the house meeting to put things straight and explain it calmly. Dylan left no chance of doing that initially with the way he burst in like a bull in a china shop. Also it was worse for Olivia to think Noky nominated her than for Dylan to think Trish nominated him so it wasn't really advantageous to Noky to stay silent. She was just probably taken aback a. by BB suddenly outing them and b. Dylan's aggressiveness. Many people would have done the same.

Noky was aware that Trish took on the responsibility of standing up to him though and even said that to Trish afterwards and apologised to her which I think showed a lot of humility. We don't always react how we'd like to react. How many times hours after an argument or conversation have we thought 'damn I've got the perfect response now'

Exactly and like I said up thread some people are just not able to deal with that kind of confrontation. Noky is very mild mannered and I doubt she's ever had a big man like Dylan come shouting aggressively in her direction before

[Zizu]

Noky isn’t a coward by any means .

She’s just more reserved and doesn’t like confrontation

Look how she reacted when Paul was shouting loudly and aggressively at her and Olivia .

Noky could just sit there staring nervously


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[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by MTVN

That's why they called the house meeting to put things straight and explain it calmly. Dylan left no chance of doing that initially with the way he burst in like a bull in a china shop. Also it was worse for Olivia to think Noky nominated her than for Dylan to think Trish nominated him so it wasn't really advantageous to Noky to stay silent. She was just probably taken aback a. by BB suddenly outing them and b. Dylan's aggressiveness. Many people would have done the same.

Noky was aware that Trish took on the responsibility of standing up to him though and even said that to Trish afterwards and apologised to her which I think showed a lot of humility. We don't always react how we'd like to react. How many times hours after an argument or conversation have we thought 'damn I've got the perfect response now'

yes fair enough but I've heard the 'Noky doesn't like confrontation' excuse quite a few times now.. nobody likes confrontation!

Noky seems to deal with things after the fact and often when it's too late.. as exemplified when Olivia didn't believe her story.

Olivia would have believed it if she said the story straight away I feel

[bots]

Noky took the de-escalation route. Seems perfectly sensible to me

[arista]

Noky can not Fight Big Dylan
she would cry
it is not her way.


But Tough Trish Can


Well Done Trish

[arista]

[Dylan wasn't listening to anything. he came in raging.]


Yes
Ready for a Fist Fight.................

[Adamw92]

Not everyone is comfortable in confrontations, there’s nothing wrong with that

[arista]

Originally Posted by Adamw92

Not everyone is comfortable in confrontations, there’s nothing wrong with that

Yes it is normal
in every big brother

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Adamw92

Not everyone is comfortable in confrontations, there’s nothing wrong with that

Yes this.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Adamw92

Not everyone is comfortable in confrontations, there’s nothing wrong with that

Exactly... i' m just glad Trish had her back and she fought the corner for them both.

[Jordan.]

Noky doesn't say anything = weak
Trish defends herself = aggressive

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Noky doesn't say anything = weak
Trish defends herself = aggressive

Ridiculous isn't it .

[Beso]

And she was still hiding under her blanket on last night live feed.

Pathetic the way she pretended to be sleeping when olivia went into bed last night as well.