[Cromwell1900]

I want to meet your Mom

I want a Range Rover

We want such different things, i can't see us together

Yes Massively edited but how did we go from Aaron wanting to Meet Mum to Dumping Faye again all in the space of 1 day max?

[Vicky.]

He didnt dump her though...he just said they want different things in life...which has been made obvious to him by her recent conversation.

Not every relationship has to be one where you end up being married and have kids, and theres no reason to think that it should be like that...so how you can see this as him dumping her, I really dont know

[Niamh.]

I think it was more to do with the fact she wants kids in 10 years which would make him 40 etc

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

He didnt dump her though...he just said they want different things in life...which has been made obvious to him by her recent conversation.

Yep! Sounded like a Process that you go through if your thinking of a Dumping.


He was the one gazing into the future and considering Kids, in the Dumping process being fair, so i'm not sure where that fact leaves your following reasoning.

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Not every relationship has to be one where you end up being married and have kids, and theres no reason to think that it should be like that...

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I think it was more to do with the fact she wants kids in 10 years which would make him 40 etc

So he's put off by a revelation that a 19/21 yr old (still aren't sure) doesn't want kids till she's 30. I think that's part of Loving Faye though, it's not unreasonable for a Woman to wait till she's 30 before having kids.

[Vicky.]

OK rather than spending time writing out a reply(only for me to be told that I am wrong again), I will quote someone elses reply that I agree with 100% as its easier and less time consuming

He didn't say he sees no future with Faye or that he doesn't want to be with her. He confided in the Diary Room (that's what it's there for) that he wasn't sure him and Faye wanted the same things for the future and that he wasn't sure how he felt about that. He didn't say he'd made any decision about whether he wanted to be with her. He hasn't done anything Louise didn't do when telling Big Brother how she felt she had no chemistry with Jay.

If he had just randomly popped out with the comment to Faye saying "oh I'm not sure if we want the same things for the future", he would have left her feeling unnecessarily confused and worried, and I'm sure he'd still be being attacked, this time for being 'cruel and manipulative'. Perhaps, just perhaps, he was employing some tact and getting things off his mind to Big Brother so that he could organise his thoughts without causing any upset to Faye by getting into a serious discussion at an inappropriate time. He didn't make ANY decision about their future, he was just talking about what was worrying him. For all we know he could have been in there for an hour before Faye even came up in the conversation.

And thats me done in here. As this is a thread that will just go round in circles I imagine

[Cherie]

He was quite pissed .....

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OK rather than spending time writing out a reply(only for me to be told that I am wrong again), I will quote someone elses reply that I agree with 100% as its easier and less time consuming



And thats me done in here. As this is a thread that will just go round in circles I imagine

Please feel free to not reply if you feel it would be a waste of time, rather that than find fault with the topic and/or Me the Op. Thanks

[rusticgal]

Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by CherieB

He was quite pissed .....

But he's always dumping the girl. and in this instance on the same day as talking about meeting her Mum. It's not right tbh. And smacks of Game Play.

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by Cromwell1900

But he's always dumping the girl. and in this instance on the same day as talking about meeting her Mum. It's not right tbh. And smacks of Game Play.

But he didn't actually dump her did he? He simply went into the diary room to talk to Big Brother about things he had heard Faye say. What's wrong with that?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....

i am surprised to be honest he's put up with faye so long,she is always pushing him on the relationship,I think she is rushing it far too much and to be brutally honest,they say like mother ,like daughter,If I was Aaron i would have moved on weeks ago,shame he likes her so much really,fancy asking him and telling him what he needs to be like with her mom,after her mom had been so nasty the day before,FFS Faye LEAVE the bloke alone,not surprised she hasn't had much luck with boyfriends.

[BJ]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....

I agree

It's just a shame it's taken him so long to come to this conclusion

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Having experienced the venom of Fayes sister and mum....I'd be looking for an easy way out too....

Ok so he's looking for a way to escape the family. And lets assume he decided to seek a way out after talking about meeting the family earlier on the same day.

If he reverses direction & continues to encourage Faye (like after burpgate) it's a clear sign he is using her.

The bloke is horrible at best and God only knows what Faye would make of his DR performances.

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

But he didn't actually dump her did he? He simply went into the diary room to talk to Big Brother about things he had heard Faye say. What's wrong with that?

No your right not exactly,

BB "if these things matter to Faye how are things going to pan out"
Aaron "I don't see that it does"

To me that's decision made.

Btw apologies for last night i think it was you i said "Absolutely Crap" to. i realized later it was uncalled for.

[karezza]

Faye's horrible mother & sister have put him off her.

[Vicky.]

Deleted a load of posts in here. Stick to discussing the housemates, not the fans. Cheers

(If your post was deleted and you didnt discuss fans, then you quoted someone that did )

[Josy]

He never dumped her though he just pointed out they want different things, also Faye sat there in front of Aaron and said she doesnt want any kids for another 10 years or so and it looked to me like she completely forgot he already has one, if she want's to make a go of the relationship with him outside the house then she will have to be willing to make some commitments regarding his son.

[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by Josy

He never dumped her though he just pointed out they want different things, also Faye sat there in front of Aaron and said she doesnt want any kids for another 10 years or so and it looked to me like she completely forgot he already has one, if she want's to make a go of the relationship with him outside the house then she will have to be willing to make some commitments regarding his son.

Sounded like a Dumping to me, anyway i think everyone with eyes can see this relationship is doomed except Faye & Aaron (lol isn't it always the way)
Faye won't drop it, but Aaron does, then resurrects it, and off we go again.

[Jords]

Its never gon' last on the outside, hes too up and freaking down.

[cell]

I am surprised that being a observant guy it took him so long to realize they are on 2 totally different levels and at different stages in their lives. He has finally observed the non-compatibility the public see.

[rk3388]

on BBOTS he pretty much called her a gameplayer :O
HE. called her a gameplayer

[Jords]

Originally Posted by rk3388

on BBOTS he pretty much called her a gameplayer :O
HE. called her a gameplayer

I know right! What the **** was that about.

[exoticrosebud]

im not sure i understand this 'dumping' business....how the hell can you dump someone when you havent even been out the door with them...some late night kisses and boring conversations does not make a relationship......

[Ammi]

There are obvious differences between Faye and Aaron..hence the conversation in the sauna when Harry pointed out it's not a great sign when a couple need counselling after only knowing each other a couple of weeks.....Aaron and Faye are both complex personalities..I believe there is an attraction of some sorts but I don't think it's a 'healthy' relationship..they are too different in too many ways..
The other housemates see it......the public see it....Faye's family see it and I'm guessing both of their families and friends have doubts about them as a couple......but if Aaron sees it, he is 'dumping her'...........streuth!!!!!!
Haven't we all been saying this all along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[chuff me dizzy]

He NEEDS to dump her ,the sooner the better