[Toy Soldier]

...AND YET sort of encouraging her a bit? WHY? Can he literally not help himself? It's hilarious... it's like, he does it and then is instantly horrified with himself... and then does it again... and then vomits in his mouth a bit... and then winks at her .

[Nancy.]

I don't think he's encouraging her, he's just being a gent and letting her down gently. I can't see how telling her to f-off would've helped matters, tbh. It's just as well he didn't based on what we saw from her later. lol

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by Nancy Littlebottom

I don't think he's encouraging her, he's just being a gent and letting her down gently. I can't see how telling her to f-off would've helped matters, tbh. It's just as well he didn't based on what we saw from her later. lol

Yes, I just saw the end where he mentioned that he "sometimes flirts just to be polite".

I personally think that's a mistake. You can be polite and engage with someone whilst not sending a confusing message. There are people who get that flirting is just flirting, but it's pretty obvious that Chloe is NOT one of those people and that she will mistake his polite flirting for genuine interest. I'm not saying he should have told her to **** off, just that if he doesn't want a girl like Chloe boiling his bunnies, he should probably avoid talking about getting in bed with her / complimenting her arse.

[waterhog]

very hard situation to handle and its for sure putting him on edge. he is a nice guy.

[Gusto Brunt]

So embarrassing.

[jaxie]

I don't think letting her down gently will work. She is going to be relentless with him when she is drunk unless he tells her straight.

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by jaxie

I don't think letting her down gently will work. She is going to be relentless with him when she is drunk unless he tells her straight.

That's my thinking, she's just going to take "letting her down gently" as "leading her on"... then when she realises it isn't happening she'll kick off even more, accusing him of just that.

He needs to take her aside when she's sober and say that he isn't interested and it has to stop.

I think he gets and ego boost from the attention though. He isn't interested at all and wouldn't touch her with a barge pole but he still enjoys the fact that she's trying... makes him feel like he's not "past it".

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

That's my thinking, she's just going to take "letting her down gently" as "leading her on"... then when she realises it isn't happening she'll kick off even more, accusing him of just that.

He needs to take her aside when she's sober and say that he isn't interested and it has to stop.

I think he gets and ego boost from the attention though. He isn't interested at all and wouldn't touch her with a barge pole but he still enjoys the fact that she's trying... makes him feel like he's not "past it".

LOLing at how this is turned round to be Calums fault,wtf,do you really think Cloe would listen to reason ? you might not like Calum,but really this is reaching.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

That's my thinking, she's just going to take "letting her down gently" as "leading her on"... then when she realises it isn't happening she'll kick off even more, accusing him of just that.

He needs to take her aside when she's sober and say that he isn't interested and it has to stop.

I think he gets and ego boost from the attention though. He isn't interested at all and wouldn't touch her with a barge pole but he still enjoys the fact that she's trying... makes him feel like he's not "past it".

Yeah, because she's 21 as well probably (eventhough she's a repulsive 21 year old)

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

LOLing at how this is turned round to be Calums fault,wtf,do you really think Cloe would listen to reason ? you might not like Calum,but really this is reaching.

I don't think it's reaching at all, I think it's pretty spot on

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by jaxie

I don't think letting her down gently will work. She is going to be relentless with him when she is drunk unless he tells her straight.

I think he will when push comes to shove...he didn't hesitate to tell her about the food throwing.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I don't think it's reaching at all, I think it's pretty spot on

I think it's reaching,how is Chloe all over him,his fault ?

[johne]

Poor Callum. He's in a no win position here. This fat, ugly, deluded, crude, self obsessed female is incapable of taking a hint. If he tries to be kind by staying friendly she will smother him, and if he tells her he's not interested in her, or makes a move on one of the other girls she will go into melt down. What will the poor man do?

[Vanessa]

He was enjoying the attention

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I think it's reaching,how is Chloe all over him,his fault ?

It's not his fault but him encouraging it is going to encourage her. He should draw a line with her

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It's not his fault but him encouraging it is going to encourage her. He should draw a line with her

I didn't see him encouraging her,I just saw that he didn't want to be nasty to her,if he was encouraging her he would have been asking her to get into bed etc,but I guess it depends on who you like and who you don't, I quite like him and cant see what he has done that is so bad.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I didn't see him encouraging her,I just saw that he didn't want to be nasty to her,if he was encouraging her he would have been asking her to get into bed etc,but I guess it depends on who you like and who you don't, I quite like him and cant see what he has done that is so bad.

I don't think he's done anything bad as such but he can see what Chloe is like he should tell her to back off unless he wants to be sexually assaulted every night

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I don't think he's done anything bad as such but he can see what Chloe is like he should tell her to back off unless he wants to be sexually assaulted every night

He needs to sleep with one eye open with Chloe about

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Nancy Littlebottom

I don't think he's encouraging her, he's just being a gent and letting her down gently. I can't see how telling her to f-off would've helped matters, tbh. It's just as well he didn't based on what we saw from her later. lol

I think he is mortally embarrassed and more than slightly disgusted at having a skank fawning all over him

Lets not forget, also, that he is 35 and she looks and acts like a 12 year old with implants!

VILE

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I don't think he's done anything bad as such but he can see what Chloe is like he should tell her to back off unless he wants to be sexually assaulted every night

I agree. I felt quite sorry for him last night when he had Jess on one side, Skank on the other, and then Stacey (for fun) jumped in between, he didnt know where to look

Makes me think what would happen if 3 guys were throwing themselves onto a female contestant, would they be called into diary room??

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Nancy Littlebottom

I don't think he's encouraging her, he's just being a gent and letting her down gently. I can't see how telling her to f-off would've helped matters, tbh. It's just as well he didn't based on what we saw from her later. lol

Thats how I saw it too

[Northern Monkey]

He should just shag her in the toilet.She obvs wants abit.Aslong as he explains beforehand that it's just a one off and that he has bigger fish to fry then it'll be all good.Give the poor lass what she wants.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

He should just shag her in the toilet.She obvs wants abit.Aslong as he explains beforehand that it's just a one off and that he has bigger fish to fry then it'll be all good.Give the poor lass what she wants.

He's worked tirelessly over the last 7 years to change his reputation NM

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

He's worked tirelessly over the last 7 years to change his reputation NM

But now he just looks like a meany.He has been blessed with a talent for womanising and he should share his talents with whoever wants to.A good will gesture.He's just being a tight arse.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I didn't see him encouraging her,I just saw that he didn't want to be nasty to her,if he was encouraging her he would have been asking her to get into bed etc,but I guess it depends on who you like and who you don't, I quite like him and cant see what he has done that is so bad.

Im with you Kazanne, any normal person would have taken the hint last night, she is not normal!