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Old 04-08-2024, 05:06 PM #1
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I'm a bit like my late dad, a bit of a loner.
Really uncomfortable in social settings.
I mean I love my family, but going to see them every year it's such a chore
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Oh, absolutely. Just recently I've been reconnecting with a friend who I had a bad falling out with, but we're having to take it slow on my account because, in my own words, I've grown comfortable with being alone again.
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Oh, absolutely. Just recently I've been reconnecting with a friend who I had a bad falling out with, but we're having to take it slow on my account because, in my own words, I've grown comfortable with being alone again.
I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.
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I'm easy doing both. Sometimes I cant be arsed with either though.
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I have to visit some relatives before I go back. Not looking forward to it
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Yes I am very happy in my own company and dislike social settings as I don't
like chit chat and am not very much interested in people.. I remember as a
child only being interested in football stats and really hated in my annuals
interviews with players and I had no interest in who they were etc. Same as I
grew older and started reading magazines if i came across and interview with
some celeb i would always skip it even if i liked their music or films. Give me
stats and numbers than peoples lives..
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My brother just hit a significant birthday and had a party
I was driving so the kids could drink and I found it excruciating and was very pleased
when I could go

Its the opposite of what I would want to do for that type of birthday but I'm not
knocking it if its for you
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Yep a long time loner here ..

No idea how I came to be married with kids amd grandkids …

I don’t really like most people




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Yes I am very happy in my own company and dislike social settings as I don't
like chit chat and am not very much interested in people.. I remember as a
child only being interested in football stats and really hated in my annuals
interviews with players and I had no interest in who they were etc. Same as I
grew older and started reading magazines if i came across and interview with
some celeb i would always skip it even if i liked their music or films. Give me
stats and numbers than peoples lives..

How did you read my mind !!!


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I'm a bit like my late dad, a bit of a loner.
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I mean I love my family, but going to see them every year it's such a chore

Same


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Reckon I am in the common group.
Love company and also my own space.
Very lucky lady here that manages both very well…plus I do exactly what I want, I have my own mind.
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I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.
You can still do that when living with people.
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Being socially introverted isn’t a rare thing. It’s a natural and normal personality dimension. You won’t need to be a Jungian philosopher or MBTI-socionics analyst to understand the basic concept of introversion.
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Being socially introverted isn’t a rare thing. It’s a natural and normal personality dimension. You won’t need to be a Jungian philosopher or MBTI-socionics analyst to understand the basic concept of introversion.
Thank God you understand it at its most complex level
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Seriously, Vanessa, being a bit of an introvert isn’t exactly a rare thing. There are many, many people out there who prefer their own company and feel more comfortable by themselves or in small groups when they are socialising, for a wide variety of reasons. Some people lean more towards extraversion on the social scale and some are pretty-much exactly 50/50. And that’s just fine, too. People are different. You need to get out of this idea that it’s an uncommon personality trait.
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I love being around my family.

But I'm not comfortable talking to strangers, although I am trying to fix that a little bit.
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I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.
You don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, Vanessa?

Understandable tbh, I keep telling myself that I would want a girlfriend, but then I realise that I just don't like people very much.

Don't get me wrong I like people on here, but I'm talking about in person.
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You don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, Vanessa?

Understandable tbh, I keep telling myself that I would want a girlfriend, but then I realise that I just don't like people very much.




Don't get me wrong I like people on here, but I'm talking about in person.
Not at the moment. But then I love being single.
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Not at the moment. But then I love being single.
Fair play, there's no rule that says that you have to be in a relationship.
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Oop sorry

Do people not all use the mobile theme these days, it auto adjusts pictures for me
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