[Me. I Am Salman]

We're used to hearing *celebrities come out as gay – but brave Jessie J has taken the unusual step of declaring herself straight.

The star, who had previously said she was bisexual, spoke candidly to 3am about her changing sexuality.

“For me, it was a phase,” she says. “But I’m not saying bisexuality is a phase for everybody.

“I feel that if I continue my career not speaking on it, I almost feel more of a liar than if I didn’t. I just want to be honest, and it’s really not a big deal. Who cares?”

The 26-year-old singer , who is headlining the UK Live festival this summer, told one fan on Twitter: “I fancy/date/love men and only men.”

Brilliantly, she also joked online that “vegetarians eat meat *sometimes”. When asked about the comment yesterday, she said: “I thought that was quite funny.”

We thought so too. But it hasn’t been easy for her to speak out, having basically been labelled “gay” since coming out as bisexual back in 2011.

One downmarket newspaper even put the enlightened headline: “Jessie Gay” on its front page.

She says of her past revelations: “I did talk about it, and I was open about it, and I do support being lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgender - love who you want.

“That’s what I’m doing.

“I don’t regret anything I ever said, but I never knew back then that whatever I said became a fact that I couldn’t change. I’m just so bored of it, and that’s kind of it – I want to stop talking about it completely now and find myself a husband.

She adds: “It’s a true struggle. All the chick flicks that didn’t make sense to me, I now understand – Sex and the City is real!”

Now, she does not wish to label her sexuality , adding: “I’m not anything.

“I’m aware of who I want to be and I want to marry a man. That’s it.”

But in a strong hint that she already has a boyfriend, the Do It Like a Dude singer posted a photo on Instagram last week with the intriguing caption: “Something tells me I’m going to love him forever.”

She has also posted: “I miss you.”

In another online post, she writes: “I have changed and grown up A LOT, and that’s allowed.

“And I feel more comfortable in my own skin now than ever before.

“I refuse to feel boxed and judged because of how I felt once! A long ass time ago. People change.”

If she’s happy, we’re happy.

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[reece(:]

bye

[Saph]

she must have a new song coming out

[Shaun]

see: "I had a debut record coming out at the time"

twat

[Firewire]

bitch loves fanny

[Saph]

Originally Posted by Firewire

bitch loves fanny

[the truth]

just goes to show the gay dogma is wrong. not all gay people are born or are gay forever

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

just goes to show the gay dogma is wrong. not all gay people are born or are gay forever

Not really, I doubt she was ever gay, sounds like she's just looking to get herself into the headlines

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Not really, I doubt she was ever gay, sounds like she's just looking to get herself into the headlines

yes really. there are zillions of people who are sometimes gay sometimes not, who change through life. the whole gay army mantra everyone is born gay is a load of BS. there is no one size fits all everyone is different.

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by the truth

yes really. there are zillions of people who are sometimes gay sometimes not, who change through life. the whole gay army mantra everyone is born gay is a load of BS. there is no one size fits all everyone is different.

Look on the bright side, if you're right and you're straight now, chances are you'll turn gay soon.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

Look on the bright side, if you're right and you're straight now, chances are you'll turn gay soon.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

Look on the bright side, if you're right and you're straight now, chances are you'll turn gay soon.

yeah Im looking forward to it. AT least Im open to the possibility people are allowed to change. unlike you and the radical liberalists on here

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by the truth

just goes to show the gay dogma is wrong. not all gay people are born or are gay forever

oh jesus where do you begin

1) What's being gay got to with this? She claimed to be bisexual, not gay. There's a difference

2) Experimenting does not change your sexuality. It actually has nothing to do with it. It is just that...experimenting. That's what this was, it's just that like hundreds of other people she wrongly thought it meant she was bi when she wasn't

3) Your sexuality does not change. Period. And neither is it a choice, before you inevitably take us down that road

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

oh jesus where do you begin

1) What's being gay got to with this? She claimed to be bisexual, not gay. There's a difference

2) Experimenting does not change your sexuality. It actually has nothing to do with it. It is just that...experimenting. That's what this was, it's just that like hundreds of other people she wrongly thought it meant she was bi when she wasn't

3) Your sexuality does not change. Period. And neither is it a choice, before you inevitably take us down that road

If you believe her at all......it was all about publicity imo

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

If you believe her at all......it was all about publicity imo

yes when a person goes hetro its just publicity, but when they come out as gay its to be taken serious? endless double standards

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

yes when a person goes hetro its just publicity, but when they come out as gay its to be taken serious? endless double standards

Ok then Captain

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Jack_

oh jesus where do you begin

1) What's being gay got to with this? She claimed to be bisexual, not gay. There's a difference

2) Experimenting does not change your sexuality. It actually has nothing to do with it. It is just that...experimenting. That's what this was, it's just that like hundreds of other people she wrongly thought it meant she was bi when she wasn't

3) Your sexuality does not change. Period. And neither is it a choice, before you inevitably take us down that road

absolute complete and utter nonsense
that may be YOUR experience. You have no right to speak for the rest of the entire world.
everyone is an individual they do not all conform to your radical liberal straight jacket of made up rules

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by the truth

absolute complete and utter nonsense
that may be YOUR experience. You have no right to speak for the rest of the entire world.
everyone is an individual they do not all conform to your radical liberal straight jacket of made up rules

That last sentence is a complete contradiction. You can't be a 'radical liberal' and have a 'straight jacket of made up rules'. Liberalism (in its social form) is about being open minded, tolerant, believing that the paradigms of the world are liable to change, freedom etc etc the list goes on. There is no solid set of rules within liberal thinking. Make up your mind

Sexuality is a spectrum and various people fall on different places along the line. It is not a black and white issue (i.e. you're either straight/gay/bi), on that I will agree, there are numerous differences and sliding scales involved that revolve around physical, social and sexual attraction that make sexuality such a complex enigma that differs from person to person. But that does not mean it is a choice or something that's interchangeable.

If you are attracted to men and marry a woman, that doesn't make you straight as you've tried to argue on here before. That means you've been brought up in an environment where you fear coming out. If you're a heterosexual woman and decide to have sex with a woman just 'to try it' because you live by the mantra of 'don't knock it until you've tried it', that means you're experimenting. This doesn't change your sexuality...in some cases those people experimenting may realise they actually quite enjoy it and that perhaps they were bisexual all along, but that doesn't mean they've just changed their sexuality, as if it's a tangible thing. That just means they hadn't discovered themselves before.

But for most experimentation is literally just that. If some straight man wasn't attracted to fat women but decided to sleep with one just to see what it's like, that's called experimentation. It's trying something you wouldn't normally do just to see what it's like. That doesn't change your sexuality, nor does it make it a choice.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Jack_

That last sentence is a complete contradiction. You can't be a 'radical liberal' and have a 'straight jacket of made up rules'. Liberalism (in its social form) is about being open minded, tolerant, believing that the paradigms of the world are liable to change, freedom etc etc the list goes on. There is no solid set of rules within liberal thinking. Make up your mind - YES THATS WHY YOUR POSITION MAKES NO SENSE AT ALL. YOU ONLY WELCOME DIFFERENT PEOPLE IF THEY AGREE WITH ALL THAT YOU SAY.

Sexuality is a spectrum and various people fall on different places along the line. It is not a black and white issue (i.e. you're either straight/gay/bi), on that I will agree, there are numerous differences and sliding scales involved that revolve around physical, social and sexual attraction that make sexuality such a complex enigma that differs from person to person. But that does not mean it is a choice or something that's interchangeable.

FIRSTLY YOU ARE NOT AN EXPERT SO DONT BOTHER PRETENDING TO BE ONE. TRYING TO TALK AS THOUGH ITS ALL FACT , ITS NOT. MUCH IS SUBJECTIVE. ALSO YOU INADVERTANTLY AGREE THAT NOT ALL GAY PEOPLE ARE BORN GAY JUST AS HETRO PEOPLE ARENT ALWAYS BORN HETRO. AND YES PEOPLE CAN CHANGE THEIR SEXUALITY TOO. THERE ARE 6 BILLION PEOPLE AND THEY DONT ALL CONFORM TO YOUR NARROW MINDED SET OF RULES

If you are attracted to men and marry a woman, that doesn't make you straight as you've tried to argue on here before. That means you've been brought up in an environment where you fear coming out. If you're a heterosexual woman and decide to have sex with a woman just 'to try it' because you live by the mantra of 'don't knock it until you've tried it', that means you're experimenting. This doesn't change your sexuality...in some cases those people experimenting may realise they actually quite enjoy it and that perhaps they were bisexual all along, but that doesn't mean they've just changed their sexuality, as if it's a tangible thing. That just means they hadn't discovered themselves before.
NO ONE SAID IT MADE YOU STRAIGHT. MAYBE HAVING SEX WITH A MAN DOESNT MAKE YOU GAY. WHO ARE YOU TO PIGEON HOLE ALL PEOPLE WITH YOUR LITTLE RULE BOOK. MAYBE THEY HAVE DISCOVERED THEMSELVES BEFORE AND ARE NOW RE-EXPERIMENTING. PEOPLE CAN CHANGE TO BECOME GAT OR HETROSEXUAL IN SOME CASES OR BI SEXUAL OR ASEXUAL. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO STOP THEM DOING SO

But for most experimentation is literally just that. If some straight man wasn't attracted to fat women but decided to sleep with one just to see what it's like, that's called experimentation. It's trying something you wouldn't normally do just to see what it's like. That doesn't change your sexuality, nor does it make it a choice.

YOU MAY CALL THAT EXPERIMENTATION , OTHERS MAY NOT.
IT MAY BE A CHOICE IN SOME CASES BUT NOT IN OTHERS. YOURE TRING TO CONTROL THE WHOLE WORLD OF SEXUALITY WITH YOUR OWN SMALL RULE BOOK BUT YOU CANNOT. YOURE NOT BIG BROTHER SO I SUGGEST YOU BECOME MORE OPEN MINDED AND ALLOW PEOPLE TO DEVELOP AND CHANGE AND LIVE AS THEY LIKE WITHOUT YOU LABELLING AND PIGEON HOLING BILLIONS OF PEOPLE

PS BEFORE you moan about petty matters like caps lock, I did that merely to make it clearer between your words and mine

[Marsh.]

So they've gone from sitting in the closet to ensure success to faking bisexuality for success?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Bad news for men

[Samm]

Urge I bet she just turned gay to get lesbians to buy her single

[the truth]

some people are not born gay. they experiement. some people are born gay but experiement the other way. some people are born gay but end up hetrosexual. either way the gay mantra that 100% of all gays areborn gay and stay gay, is complete and utter nonsense.

[Z]

Think she was going for the "yeah I'm totally bisexual, buy my music" angle but it backfired when it seemed quite believable that she wasn't heterosexual which obviously stung. I thought she was a lesbian pretending to be bisexual, turns out it was the other way... or so she says.

[Brother Leon]

You would be surprised the number of females I meet that say "I'm bi" and you can just say they were saying it because it was an in thing at one stage.