[Parmy]

Their, now husband/wife?

[Candy Annie Cane]

It depends on the context. If they were saying "when I met my now wife" I would know they were talking about the time we met, before we were married but as we are married I am now their wife.

I would have more of a problem if they said my "current" wife as that sounds more like they were thinking of me as a temporary thing and there could be a future wife.

As they have been married before if they said when I met my wife - there could be some confusion as to if they meant their first or second wife so by saying my now wife would explain they were talking about me.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

It depends on the context. If they were saying "when I met my now wife" I would know they were talking about the time we met, before we were married but as we are married I am now their wife.

I would have more of a problem if they said my "current" wife as that sounds more like they were thinking of me as a temporary thing and there could be a future wife.

As they have been married before if they said when I met my wife - there could be some confusion as to if they meant their first or second wife so by saying my now wife would explain they were talking about me.

The last scenario you mention! Wouldn't you expect them to say my ex husband/wife, if thats who they were referring to, whilst always saying simply, my husband/wife when referring to their husband/wife.

[Candy Annie Cane]

Originally Posted by parmnion

The last scenario you mention! Wouldn't you expect them to say my ex husband/wife, if thats who they were referring to, whilst always saying simply, my husband/wife when referring to their husband/wife.

I honestly don't think I'd think about it really.....it probably wouldn't even register

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I honestly don't think I'd think about it really.....it probably wouldn't even register

Not even being introduced at a party in front of their work collueges?

[Candy Annie Cane]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Not even being introduced at a party in front of their work collueges?

If they referred to me as that in person it would be weird but if they referred to me when talking about me and the time we met....nah wouldn't be arsed

[The Slim Reaper]

Me at our wedding reception, when she introduces me to her great auntie as her now husband.

[thesheriff443]

I don’t think harry gets a say anymore
He is living meghans life she is the planet and he is a just a moon in orbit around her.

[Christmas Lights]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I don’t think harry gets a say anymore
He is living meghans life she is the planet and he is a just a moon in orbit around her.

I didn't realise Meghan was the only person... in the world to have already been married before.

Maybe look at people like Boris Johnson & the endless other people in the public eye.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I didn't realise Meghan was the only person... in the world to have already been married before.

Maybe look at people like Boris Johnson & the endless other people in the public eye.

What you have posted has got nothing to do with what I have posted, try reading it again.

[The Slim Reaper]

I'd probably shrug, then secretly plot to destroy every fibre of her being.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

I'd probably shrug, then secretly plot to destroy every fibre of her being.

[bots]

i don't know why she had to mention it at all given that he is significantly more famous than her

[Tinsel Toes]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

i don't know why she had to mention it at all given that he is significantly more famous than her

We all know why ~ she thinks its the reverse ~ hence everyone laughing at her.

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

i don't know why she had to mention it at all given that he is significantly more famous than her

Precisely

[Father Chris Mouse]

I know a trio with a really strange situation. She divorced him, Married a bloke she met at work. The ex had nowhere to stay, and is currently living with them in the SAME house he had with her, only now he sleeps in the spare room.

His room is next to theirs. i wonder if he hears them having sex, how weird would that be lol.

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Swan

I know a trio with a really strange situation. She divorced him, Married a bloke she met at work. The ex had nowhere to stay, and is currently living with them in the SAME house he had with her, only now he sleeps in the spare room.

His room is next to theirs. i wonder if he hears them having sex, how weird would that be lol.

That sounds like a Sitcom.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Parmy cant a woman be ambitious??

think of the fake fire

think of the children

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Parmy cant a woman be ambitious??

think of the fake fire

think of the children

This thread is to deflect me away from all that nonsense.


Do you have an opinion on how you would feel if it were you?

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by parmnion

This thread is to deflect me away from all that nonsense.


Do you have an opinion on how you would feel if it were you?

id feel like the world's biggest CUCK

[bots]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

id feel like the world's biggest CUCK

better get you on the next series of master chef

[Jordan.]

Some people are the husband the wife divorced in this scenario so they needn't worry.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Some people are the husband the wife divorced in this scenario so they needn't worry.

They could be interested to know they are still getting talked about though...

What about you on a personal level? Whats your opinion if it were you being referred to as my now wife?