[Ashley.]

What are your feelings on it? Could you date someone knowing that they're married?

[Mokka]

No...what would be the point? Even if their marriage is bad...or ending... then deal with that and end it first....then we can talk

[Amy Jade]

Yeah I would not my fault their husbands a cheat

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Yeah I would not my fault their husbands a cheat

[Lostie!]

No. I think it's pretty awful and makes you no better than the person cheating if you're fully aware of it.

I also don't see why someone would be content with being the bit on the side.

[Oaker]

if I really liked them then yeah why not

[Niamh.]

No, it'd be the first clue that this person is an untrustworthy arsehole

[Natalie.]

No I couldn't do that, I'd feel guilty and don't see the point

[T*]

if he dick long

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Yeah I would not my fault their husbands a cheat

completely the wrong attitude imo

fully against it

[T*]

i'm kidding btw

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by T*

if he dick long

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Jake.

completely the wrong attitude imo

fully against it

Yeah, it's kind of a "I'm going to help these men load their van, not my fault they just stole it all".

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by T*

i'm kidding btw

We know Tom

[VanessaFeltz.]

thats disgusting

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Yeah I would not my fault their husbands a cheat

Oh yes!

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Yeah, it's kind of a "I'm going to help these men load their van, not my fault they just stole it all".

Dating a married man is not illegal though. There must be problems or he would be faithful. I'd never cheat if I happened to be in a relationship but if I met somebody who happened to be married and we had feelings for each other i wouldnt ignore those feelings

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Dating a married man is not illegal though. There must be problems or he would be faithful. I'd never cheat if I happened to be in a relationship but if I met somebody who happened to be married and we had feelings for each other i wouldnt ignore those feelings

I think you're ignoring the fact that there are people who are prepared to cheat regardless of the quality of their marriage - and you're ignoring the fact that whilst you're with him, there's an innocent woman who isn't.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Dating a married man is not illegal though. There must be problems or he would be faithful. I'd never cheat if I happened to be in a relationship but if I met somebody who happened to be married and we had feelings for each other i wouldnt ignore those feelings

I'm not suggesting it's illegal.

I'm commenting on the fact of aiding someone doing something wrong but absolving yourself of any blame in the proceedings.

You wouldn't ignore the feelings? That's you actively disrupting a marriage.

[Crimson Dynamo]

No thanks.

[Amy Jade]

Still not my fault. I owe nobody my loyalty if im single.

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Still not my fault. I owe nobody my loyalty if im single.

So if you're on the receiving end of a cheating husband, you wouldn't feel any animosity towards the woman that he cheated on you with?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Still not my fault. I owe nobody my loyalty if im single.

Oh, the responsibility of the cheating is solely on the person who's in a relationship/married etc. But to think it absolves you/the other person of ANY blame is completely false IMO.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Ashley.

So if you're on the receiving end of a cheating husband, you wouldn't feel any animosity towards the woman that he cheated on you with?

No not at all. I got cheated on and I blamed my boyfriend as he was the one who had commitments to me

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

No not at all. I got cheated on and I blamed my boyfriend as he was the one who had commitments to me

How did you feel when he cheated?