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Old 24-08-2022, 07:30 PM #1
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Their, now husband/wife?
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It depends on the context. If they were saying "when I met my now wife" I would know they were talking about the time we met, before we were married but as we are married I am now their wife.

I would have more of a problem if they said my "current" wife as that sounds more like they were thinking of me as a temporary thing and there could be a future wife.

As they have been married before if they said when I met my wife - there could be some confusion as to if they meant their first or second wife so by saying my now wife would explain they were talking about me.
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I don’t think harry gets a say anymore
He is living meghans life she is the planet and he is a just a moon in orbit around her.
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I'd probably shrug, then secretly plot to destroy every fibre of her being.
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It depends on the context. If they were saying "when I met my now wife" I would know they were talking about the time we met, before we were married but as we are married I am now their wife.

I would have more of a problem if they said my "current" wife as that sounds more like they were thinking of me as a temporary thing and there could be a future wife.

As they have been married before if they said when I met my wife - there could be some confusion as to if they meant their first or second wife so by saying my now wife would explain they were talking about me.

The last scenario you mention! Wouldn't you expect them to say my ex husband/wife, if thats who they were referring to, whilst always saying simply, my husband/wife when referring to their husband/wife.
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The last scenario you mention! Wouldn't you expect them to say my ex husband/wife, if thats who they were referring to, whilst always saying simply, my husband/wife when referring to their husband/wife.
I honestly don't think I'd think about it really.....it probably wouldn't even register
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I honestly don't think I'd think about it really.....it probably wouldn't even register
Not even being introduced at a party in front of their work collueges?
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Me at our wedding reception, when she introduces me to her great auntie as her now husband.

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Not even being introduced at a party in front of their work collueges?
If they referred to me as that in person it would be weird but if they referred to me when talking about me and the time we met....nah wouldn't be arsed
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i don't know why she had to mention it at all given that he is significantly more famous than her
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If they referred to me as that in person it would be weird but if they referred to me when talking about me and the time we met....nah wouldn't be arsed
Fair enough!....but you wouldnt be there to know, and would likely never know that they had done that.
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I know a trio with a really strange situation. She divorced him, Married a bloke she met at work. The ex had nowhere to stay, and is currently living with them in the SAME house he had with her, only now he sleeps in the spare room.

His room is next to theirs. i wonder if he hears them having sex, how weird would that be lol.
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Fair enough!....but you wouldnt be there to know, and would likely never know that they had done that.
That's what I mean though....it would only be weird if they referred to me as that when I was there.
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i don't know why she had to mention it at all given that he is significantly more famous than her
We all know why ~ she thinks its the reverse ~ hence everyone laughing at her.
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That's what I mean though....it would only be weird if they referred to me as that when I was there.
What if fat fooking mavis overheard him/her one night on his/hers works outing and came back to tell you he/she said that in a discussion about you....

Wouldnt you be wondering why they were also talking about the ex?

I would.
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What if fat fooking mavis overheard him/her one night on his/hers works outing and came back to tell you he/she said that in a discussion about you....

Wouldnt you be wondering why they were also talking about the ex?

I would.
Can't say I'd care. I know you want me to say its weird but I just don't think its a big deal. I have no idea what situation meghan used it (I thought it was a hypothetical but now realise from comments its about Meghan). So I'm going to bow out as I have no interest in discussing her on here, its completely pointless
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Parmy cant a woman be ambitious??

think of the fake fire

think of the children
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Can't say I'd care. I know you want me to say its weird but I just don't think its a big deal. I have no idea what situation meghan used it (I thought it was a hypothetical but now realise from comments its about Meghan). So I'm going to bow out as I have no interest in discussing her on here, its completely pointless


I dont want you to say anything you dont want to say.

And its fair for you to say its not a big deal in ypur situation..that is what the question is, how would you feel. Youve explained how you would feel, and thats enough for me in this thread, as this thread isnt about meghan, but her words did inspire it.

The threads abou TIBB, and how its users would feel in certain scenarios.

Like ****ting at work etc etc...
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Parmy cant a woman be ambitious??

think of the fake fire

think of the children

This thread is to deflect me away from all that nonsense.


Do you have an opinion on how you would feel if it were you?
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This thread is to deflect me away from all that nonsense.


Do you have an opinion on how you would feel if it were you?
id feel like the world's biggest CUCK
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I know a trio with a really strange situation. She divorced him, Married a bloke she met at work. The ex had nowhere to stay, and is currently living with them in the SAME house he had with her, only now he sleeps in the spare room.

His room is next to theirs. i wonder if he hears them having sex, how weird would that be lol.
That sounds like a Sitcom.
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Some people are the husband the wife divorced in this scenario so they needn't worry.
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Some people are the husband the wife divorced in this scenario so they needn't worry.
They could be interested to know they are still getting talked about though...

What about you on a personal level? Whats your opinion if it were you being referred to as my now wife?
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