[Crimson Dynamo]

1. I want my wedding to be abroad - so her family and friends are out of pocket to the tune of thousands

2. I want my wedding to be during the week - so you have to eat up your own personal holiday days to attend


what a selfish entitled person

[GoldHeart]

LT are you feeling ok ? , it's not that serious.

However if someone I knew got married thousands of miles away, it's unlikely I'd travel all that way. I'd just wish them all the best .

[rusticgal]

Yes I have gone right off her the last couple of days.

[Niamh.]

I was watching with my daughter last night and I said the exact same thing to her. She basically said I want to inconvenience my guests as much as possible as a test to see who loves me most. So selfish and entitled

[GoldHeart]

I guess Noky is getting evicted next now just because of a flippant comment about her hypothetical wedding plans .

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I guess Noky is getting evicted next now just because of a flippant comment about her hypothetical wedding plans .

Bloody hell Goldheart we're just commenting on stuff that happened in the program We've only got an hours worth

[MTVN]

Missed that, when did she say it?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Missed that, when did she say it?

In the highlights show last night (or maybe it was a clip shown on Late & Live?)

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Missed that, when did she say it?

Last nights highlights. During the noms.

[MTVN]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

In the highlights show last night (or maybe it was a clip shown on Late & Live?)

Originally Posted by Benjamin

Last nights highlights. During the noms.

Thanks I'll go back and watch it

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Bloody hell Goldheart we're just commenting on stuff that happened in the program We've only got an hours worth

I know but it went over my head ,was she even being serious ? .....they were all bored sat taking turns nominating. It's literally a hypothetical situation, but like I said I'm not being out of pocket for a friend who goes to ...I don't know,the Bahamas to get married . I'd congratulate them from my home in the UK lol.

It's interesting about wedding talk ,as Yinrun was discussing that with Dylan aswell.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I guess Noky is getting evicted next now just because of a flippant comment about her hypothetical wedding plans .

What she said...said a lot about her.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

What she said...said a lot about her.

tells you all you need know

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I know but it went over my head ,was she even being serious ? .....they were all bored sat taking turns nominating. It's literally a hypothetical situation, but like I said I'm not being out of pocket for a friend who goes to ...I don't know,the Bahamas to get married . I'd congratulate them from my home in the UK lol.

It's interesting about wedding talk ,as Yinrun was discussing that with Dylan aswell.

She sounded like she meant it and the people reacting thought she'd said something revolutionary Imagine being a close friend of hers that just couldn't afford it or to take time off work, would they fail her test then for not getting themselves in debt to go to her wedding?

[Ammi]

…maybe she’s looking for the prize money to pay for all of her guests to go to a lovely far off place and have a lifetime holiday…so they’ll be happy to take some of their annual leave for such a dream time…


…actually, I haven’t been to a weekend wedding for a while, weekday weddings are very popular and many employers allow some paid time off for them/…with discretion…

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…maybe she’s looking for the prize money to pay for all of her guests to go to a lovely far off place and have a lifetime holiday…so they’ll be happy to take some of their annual leave for such a dream time…


…actually, I haven’t been to a weekend wedding for a while, weekday weddings are very popular and many employers allow some paid time off for them/…with discretion…

Really? ,I don't think I've ever been to a weekday wedding...not to sound morbid,but usually I associate funerals with weekdays.

I guess it depends like you say on if they get time off work,and maybe she'll pay for them .

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

and maybe she'll pay for them .

no

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Really? ,I don't think I've ever been to a weekday wedding...not to sound morbid,but usually I associate funerals with weekdays.

I guess it depends like you say on if they get time off work,and maybe she'll pay for them .

….hmmmmm, I possibly just have very selfish/entitled friends and relatives..…but yeah, most of the weddings I’ve been to over the last few years have been weekday ones…actually, I haven’t asked about cost etc but maybe a weekday is cheaper than a weekend in terms of venues and ceremony/service costs etc…so that’s a thing as well, I guess…

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Ammi

….hmmmmm, I possibly just have very selfish/entitled friends and relatives..…but yeah, most of the weddings I’ve been to over the last few years have been weekday ones…actually, I haven’t asked about cost etc but maybe a weekday is cheaper than a weekend in terms of venues and ceremony/service costs etc…so that’s a thing as well, I guess…

Ammi your friends are cheapskates ... just joking .

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

no

She might if she has a big win fall .

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Ammi your friends are cheapskates ... just joking .

……we’ll that might have been a joke but….I’m going to keep an eye on them from now on, GH….

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Ammi

……we’ll that might have been a joke but….I’m going to keep an eye on them from now on, GH….

It's interesting though , I'm now wondering what a weekday wedding is like...I kind of want to experience it , if my schedule was clear and if it was still in the UK . As I'm not catching a plane ... just for a wedding .

[Crimson Dynamo]

Unless its a reg office dop no bride would want a weekday wedding

its meant to be special

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's interesting though , I'm now wondering what a weekday wedding is like...I kind of want to experience it , if my schedule was clear and if it was still in the UK . As I'm not catching a plane ... just for a wedding .

…actually I just googled if it was cheaper because it sparked my interest, it’s something I hadn’t thought of and would never ask…this site came up first…

https://www.hitched.co.uk/wedding-pl...0a%20Wednesday.

‘Opting for a weekday is one of the best ways to save money on your wedding venue. There is almost always a separate rate for weekend and weekday venue hire – in fact, sometimes the price difference is great enough to convince couples to wed on a Wednesday. Many wedding venues offer special weekday deals, allowing you to splurge what you’ve saved on something else to make your wedding (or honeymoon) even more amazing.

Some suppliers also offer discounted rates for weekday weddings so it’s always worth checking when you enquire.’


…it’s so expensive for couples these days so looking at their options and what’s affordable is the only way…

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…actually I just googled if it was cheaper because it sparked my interest, it’s something I hadn’t thought of and would never ask…this site came up first…

https://www.hitched.co.uk/wedding-pl...0a%20Wednesday.

‘Opting for a weekday is one of the best ways to save money on your wedding venue. There is almost always a separate rate for weekend and weekday venue hire – in fact, sometimes the price difference is great enough to convince couples to wed on a Wednesday. Many wedding venues offer special weekday deals, allowing you to splurge what you’ve saved on something else to make your wedding (or honeymoon) even more amazing.

Some suppliers also offer discounted rates for weekday weddings so it’s always worth checking when you enquire.’


…it’s so expensive for couples these days so looking at their options and what’s affordable is the only way…

It's understandable when you think how ridiculously expensive the average wedding is . Sky is the limit from anywhere from 10k -upwards . So I don't blame couples looking for cheaper options & bargains.

I also can see their point of view,when some of them just opt for a quiet get together, rather than a big stressful event.