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Old 06-11-2010, 12:39 PM #401
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Lovely.

That's the difference though. no one would have to resort to doing that with friends.

Mario and Ben were not friends in the traditional sense. A false enviroment, forged allegiances for the sake of a game show, does not forever friends make. That is the very big difference and one that Mario simply cannot comprehend. It's quite simplistic - and given Mario's supposely intellectual status as mentioned by you in the past - Id have thought it was a very easy thing for Mario to understand.
they are not friends they don't like each other that's fine, I think ben's fans are doing him a massive diservice by bullying mario over the fact that he doesn't want to be friends with someone like ben
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I have to say I disagree totally on this. The proe and facts are there both on another forum and twitter. You may be unaware of it but Mario has done this to non Mario fans.



talk about chinese whispers, mario only said the ben fans attacking him are idiots not all ben fans. There is only a handfull of you that are abusive about him and towards him

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Now ... on the subject of Mario and his loyalty to his 'friend in the BB house'... someone please remind me here.

Which person was it that Mario decided to select during the save and replace task........ I know the answer, just wondering who else recalls how much of a loyal friend Mario thinks he is.!!!! Seems that Mario, apart from being disloyal to his 'friends', also might suffer a little bit of amnesia.

And he has the cheek to moan about being 'backstabbed' when this is the man who does exactly what he bemoans others of doing. The man is a walking contradiction of terms,he really is.
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talk about chinese whispers, mario only said the ben fans attacking him are idiots not all ben fans. There is only a handfull of you that are abusive about him and towards him
I'll ask you to retract your accusation and allegation Laura C. Once again, you are deliberately making comments of an inflammatory nature towards members of this forum by the use of your wording here.

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Now ... on the subject of Mario and his loyalty to his 'friend in the BB house'... someone please remind me here.

Which person was it that Mario decided to select during the save and replace task........ I know the answer, just wondering who else recalls how much of a loyal friend Mario thinks he is.!!!! Seems that Mario, apart from being disloyal to his 'friends', also might suffer a little bit of amnesia.

And he has the cheek to moan about being 'backstabbed' when this is the man who does exactly what he bemoans others of doing. The man is a walking contradiction of terms,he really is.
Sam, he also told him the reasons why he did it and sam accepted the reasons, last one in and all that
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I'll ask you to retract your accusation and allegaton Laura C.
no why? it's true
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they are not friends they don't like each other that's fine, I think ben's fans are doing him a massive diservice by bullying mario over the fact that he doesn't want to be friends with someone like ben
Having an opinion does not mean bullying. It means having an opinion.
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Having an opinion does not mean bullying. It means having an opinion.
the names he is called for not being bens friend are nasty pathetic and idiotic, childish in the extreme, imagine if we were told who we had to be friends with and abused if we didn't

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they are not friends they don't like each other that's fine, I think ben's fans are doing him a massive diservice by bullying mario over the fact that he doesn't want to be friends with someone like ben
LauraC, I have never bullied Mario over the fact that Ben and him aren't friends -to be brutally honest I couldn't give two figs.

I think what upsets non-Mario fans whether they support Ben or others is that we all get lumped into a category and tarred with the same brush. I am an individual and have my own opinion - Mario is a 30 year old man who knows better. If one or two non-mario fans are unkind to him, I don't condone it. The word bully is being used wrongly here and shouldn't be used as it upsets people.

As I and several other posters have said Ben and Mario aren't and weren't friends - end of - that is just a fact. Why is this a diservice to Ben? Ben is an individual who can look after himself. What someone says on an internet forum is their opinion about a tv show and behaviour after.

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no why? it's true
What you appear not to be able to differentiate is the difference in people having the right to offer their views and opinion, and instead, it appears you are unable to discuss housemates without trying to insult and belittle forum members on a person level. If this is how you wish to continue - fee free. I won't bother with you and will simply ignore anything you have to say if you seem hell bent on insulting members of this forum - of which I am one.

I'm happy either way. I'm happy enough discussing the actual housemates. I don't need to slag off fms.
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Can we get this back on topic, and stop insulting each other.

It is possible to debate without resorting to insults and accusations.
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the names he is called for not being bens friend are nasty pathetic and idiotic, childish in the extreme, imagine if we were told who we had to be friends with and abused if we didn't
I am not his friend. (sometimes I am thankful for small mercies).

I throughly dislike Mario. I have a thousand reason why. I'm more than happy to continue listing them. This is a forum to discuss our views on housemates.

I feel you should note one thing. Mario is not Ben's friend - for one reason - Ben made that choice - not Mario.

Ben wants nothing to do with Mario. Mario needs to accept that.

As for Mario himself, I find him to be childish in the extreme. Highly immature. Given the slight age differences between Mario and Ben, it is very clear who more emotionally developed, and who is the more rounded, well balanced person. That's my opinion, that's not abuse.
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LauraC, I have never bullied Mario over the fact that Ben and him aren't friends -to be brutally honest I could give two figs.

I think what upsets non-Mario fans whether they support Ben or others is that we all get lumped into a category and tarred with the same brush. I am an individual and have my own opinion - Mario is a 30 year old man who knows better. If one or two non-mario fans are unkind to him, I don't condone it. The word bully is being used wrongly here and shouldn't be used as it upsets people.

As I and several other posters have said Ben and Mario aren't and weren't friends - end of - that is just a fact. Why is this a diservice to Ben? Ben is an individual who can look after himself. What someone says on an internet forum is their opinion about a tv show and behaviour after.
But you all jumped on mario because he said that the ben fans who were abusing him are idiots, you all took that personally therefore you are the ones who are grouping yourselves together and flying under the same flag.
I think you are doing ben a disservice because Ben didn't like mario he bitched about him that's fine, he has to live with the consequences of that and he is, that's the loss of mario's friendship, that's between the two of them but when you see mario abused on forums and done under ben's name people remember the bad things about ben and not the good.
Every time I see another thread like this one, Is mario jealous of ben? I just remember all the horrible things ben has said and done. You are not giving people the chance to forget
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Can we get this back on topic, and stop insulting each other.

It is possible to debate without resorting to insults and accusations.
Agreed.
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I am not his friend. (sometimes I am thankful for small mercies).

I throughly dislike Mario. I have a thousand reason why. I'm more than happy to continue listing them. This is a forum to discuss our views on housemates.

I feel you should note one thing. Mario is not Ben's friend - for one reason - Ben made that choice - not Mario.
Ben wants nothing to do with Mario. Mario needs to accept that.

As for Mario himself, I find him to be childish in the extreme. Highly immature. Given the slight age differences between Mario and Ben, it is very clear who more emotionally developed, and who is the more rounded, well balanced person. That's my opinion, that's not abuse.
Exactly! now you are getting it, he made the choice in the house when he bitched behind his back, so why do people choose to persecute mario for it?
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I think Mario thought he found a kindred spirit, mario also doesn't argue, he never raised his voice in the house at another person.
How wrong he was though.
You pity Mario for respecting people? I pity Ben for having no respect for people who love and care for him
I think you should save your Ben pity, its not needed, Ben has full respect for people who love and care for him, he loves and cares for them in return, or have you never listened to what one of his much loved friends has to say about him.A friend who is privvy to his life and shares the warmth and love and respect of Ben.
You are mistaking alliances within the house for that of friendship, I remember Ben quite openly stating on many occasions that he did not view the housemates as friends in the true sense of the word, indeed he said he could not forsee anything other than aqquaintance with them, only later on did he say that he thought he might stay in touch with Dave and Corin.

Ben is a people watcher, he picks up on the traits and charachteristics of those around him and brings it out in humour, its an observation and analysis and Mario was not the only one to be spoken of in that way, Its funny and the other housemates thought so too.If you watch The JJJ interview with Sam Dean you will even hear JJ saying that Ben was the most hilarious, funny and entertaining guy he had ever come across, and that his comments were down to the fact that Ben is just being Ben in his honesty.

Everyone who meets Ben seems to say the same thing, Bianca on Coach Trip is full of praise for him, her words, Amazing, funny, intelligent,. caring.

Now I want to ask you a question, you say that you would not be friends with someone who had bitched about you, what if you had a friend who was constantly sexually harrasing you,if all they talked about was what they wanted to do with you, and what if you tried to talk to this person about it but they would not do so but instead gave you the silent treatment, started sulking and being moody, would you accept it and carry on that friendship in the same vein, or would you talk to someone else about it, question what could be meant by their behaviour, I know what I would do.....and I certainly would not consider that person a friend.I would think them a stalker and call the police, and I would talk about them to my friends because I would need to have some sort of understanding of why they were doing it.
Lets not forget that Ben only turned on Mario because of Mario's behaviour towards him, not the other way round.
So I would like to hear your reply
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I can't stand either Ben or Mario
I loved Ben in the house, seems a bit full of himself out of the house.

I didnt like or dislike Mario in the house, him and his testicle were just there and shoved in my face occasionally...and I havent heard anything about him since he left.

Though apparently a lot has been going on 0.o


Oh, and to keep on topic...I dont know if mario is jealous of ben. Though I would imagine he is if ben is getting more work/money than him out of BB.

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I loved Ben in the house, seems a bit full of himself out of the house.

I didnt like or dislike Mario in the house, him and his testicle were just there and shoved in my face occasionally...and I havent heard anything about him since he left.

Though apparently a lot has been going on 0.o


Oh, and to keep on topic...I dont know if mario is jealous of ben. Though I would imagine he is if ben is getting more work/money than him out of BB.
ben hasn't really done much since leaving the house
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But you all jumped on mario because he said that the ben fans who were abusing him are idiots, you all took that personally therefore you are the ones who are grouping yourselves together and flying under the same flag.
I think you are doing ben a disservice because Ben didn't like mario he bitched about him that's fine, he has to live with the consequences of that and he is, that's the loss of mario's friendship, that's between the two of them but when you see mario abused on forums and done under ben's name people remember the bad things about ben and not the good.
Every time I see another thread like this one, Is mario jealous of ben? I just remember all the horrible things ben has said and done. You are not giving people the chance to forget
I think you will find that Truth Teller was not taking anything personally but was simply reporting on what Mario himself stated about Ben fans.

In doing so, Mario therefore distanced himself even further - alienated himself further.

I really don't understand the 'doing Ben a disservice' idea comes into play. Ben doesn't use the internet much. He certainly doesn't read the forums, doesn't do twitter, is very much is own man, with his own life outwith webland (clearly he has a far more fulfilling life than any of us posting on here !! LOL )

You may indeed recall things that Ben did or said that you view or consider horrible. That is your perogative.

Just as it is my perogative to view many things that I saw and heard from Mario that I found deeply unsettling, and not to put too fine a point on it... creepy and skin crawling. Are these harsh words? Yes, they are. But that is the impression that Mario made on me. I can't change that. The only person who could have, would have been Mario.

If he had taken stock once the show was over, he could have redeemed himself, but he didn't. He continued in the same way that I saw him be in the house, immature, bitter and had himself up on some pedestal. He continues to think like this as seen by his twitterings.
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Now I want to ask you a question, you say that you would not be friends with someone who had bitched about you, what if you had a friend who was constantly sexually harrasing you,if all they talked about was what they wanted to do with you, and what if you tried to talk to this person about it but they would not do so but instead gave you the silent treatment, started sulking and being moody, would you accept it and carry on that friendship in the same vein, or would you talk to someone else about it, question what could be meant by their behaviour, I know what I would do.....and I certainly would not consider that person a friend.I would think them a stalker and call the police, and I would talk about them to my friends because I would need to have some sort of understanding of why they were doing it.
Lets not forget that Ben only turned on Mario because of Mario's behaviour towards him, not the other way round.
So I would like to hear your reply
If I liked the person who was coming onto me and I didn't like them back like that I'd just tell them nicely that I would like to be friends and nothing more, I wouldn't flirt with them the way ben flirted with mario, that's just giving the wrong signals.
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Exactly! now you are getting it, he made the choice in the house when he bitched behind his back, so why do people choose to persecute mario for it?
Mario is the one carrying around the bitterness because Ben rejected him (rejected him on the basis of Mario's continued sexual advances).

Ben tried to discuss the matter whilst in the house with Mario if you recall. Mario being immature Mario, wasn't interested in discussing it with Ben. It was at that juncture that Ben realised that Mario was indeed not a 'friend' .... that all Mario wanted was to get Ben in the sack.

That if you recall, is more the truth of the matter.
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Hasn't he? You don't think so? Before offering up what Ben has indeed done, let me ask you this. What work exactly has Mario done since leaving the house.
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If I liked the person who was coming onto me and I didn't like them back like that I'd just tell them nicely that I would like to be friends and nothing more, I wouldn't flirt with them the way ben flirted with mario, that's just giving the wrong signals.
Ben made it clear he wasnt interested in any sexual advances, he made it clear that flirting was flirting. I'll put it to you this way: Mario also flirted with Corin...... should she have made it clear that she wasn't interested? Mario may have have been bisexual for all anyone knew.....

Mario continued relentlessly with Ben. To the point that he literally forced Ben to pull away from him.

Mario could be doing with some 'self awareness' lessons - he may not even be aware of how he is around males that he 'fancies'.
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