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Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 03:42 PM

Another question I want to discuss on TIBB.

People thoughts?

Doogle · 26-04-2011, 03:43 PM

If they're okay with it.

And as long as you feel okay with it.

Depends on how the relationship ended I guess.

Locke. · 26-04-2011, 03:45 PM

No.

Smithy · 26-04-2011, 03:45 PM

If they're ok with it then I dont see why not

CharlieO · 26-04-2011, 03:48 PM

Depends if you still want the friend.

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 03:49 PM

I believe it is No.

I mean anyone can say "they are okay with it" but I would still believe that it would ruin a friendship.

Doogle · 26-04-2011, 03:49 PM

Yeah, I agree. People can claim they're alright but if they ever really loved the ex-partner it's going to be too difficult usually.

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 03:51 PM

It would also be wierd.

Going out etc. as you whould be with their ex.

Mystic Mock · 26-04-2011, 03:54 PM

I think you would be betraying your friend if you slept with there ex partner.

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by jedward fever

I think you would be betraying your friend if you slept with there ex partner.

I agree.

Tom4784 · 26-04-2011, 03:56 PM

If the shoe was on the other foot I'd be fine with it, When a relationship ends there's no point in wallowing about it. I'd just be happy for my friend and wsh them the best. We don't live in some glossy American teen drama so why bother acting like we do?

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy

If the shoe was on the other foot I'd be fine with it, When a relationship ends there's no point in wallowing about it. I'd just be happy for my friend and wsh them the best. We don't live in some glossy American teen drama so why bother acting like we do?

I am sorry but I would not be fine with it.

I would feel backstabbed and it would cause me to become suspicious as if they had an affair when they where together etc.

MTVN · 26-04-2011, 04:01 PM

Umm after a while and, like others have said, if they're genuinely alright with it.

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by MTVN

Umm after a while and, like others have said, if they're genuinely alright with it.

So if they said No they where not alright with it you would not continue with the relationship.

Josy · 26-04-2011, 04:03 PM

My answer to the poll question is no, I personally wouldn't date a friends ex partner.

Tom4784 · 26-04-2011, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr XcX

I am sorry but I would not be fine with it.

I would feel backstabbed and it would cause me to become suspicious as if they had an affair when they where together etc.

Why waste your time obsessing over other people's relationships though, just deal with the fact it's over and move on. It's something that annoys me when an ex just doesn't let go and makes everything about them,

What's the point of ruining someone else's happiness just because of a little unfounded and pointless paranoia?

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy

Why waste your time obsessing over other people's relationships though, just deal with the fact it's over and move on. It's something that annoys me when an ex just doesn't let go and makes everything about them,

What's the point of ruining someone else's happiness just because of a little unfounded and pointless paranoia?

I would never throw my friend in the gutter just for a FAKEmance like JJJosie.

No, I would not. You would betray your friend and then the relationship would not work out.

A friend would expect the other not to do that!!!!!

Locke. · 26-04-2011, 04:10 PM

You would always be wondering if they always fancied each other when you were together.

I definitely wouldn't be ok with it, an I'd never go with a friends ex either.

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Locke.

You would always be wondering if they always fancied each other when you were together.

I definitely wouldn't be ok with it, an I'd never go with a friends ex either.

My point.

Tom4784 · 26-04-2011, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr XcX

I would never throw my friend in the gutter just for a FAKEmance like JJJosie.

No, I would not. You would betray your friend and then the relationship would not work out.

A friend would expect the other not to do that!!!!!

Why would you make it an ultimatum though? It's just stupidly irrational. It's not cheating so why would you waste your time getting upset over it? To me it's just projecting your own issues onto other people.

Mr XcX · 26-04-2011, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Dezzy

Why would you make it an ultimatum though? It's just stupidly irrational. It's not cheating so why would you waste your time getting upset over it? To me it's just projecting your own issues onto other people.

No it is not.

IMO if a friend did that to me then they were not a friend in the first place. How is that "projecting issues" onto others.

Locke. · 26-04-2011, 04:18 PM

Mr XcX is actually right on this one

Tom4784 · 26-04-2011, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr XcX

No it is not.

IMO if a friend did that to me then they were not a friend in the first place. How is that "projecting issues" onto others.

If you so willingly throw away friendships because you don't like who your friend is going out with then you won't have many in the long run. What I mean by projecting is that your putting all your suspicion and paranoia on them to taint what they have for no reason other then jealousy. It's just very childish I think.