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Old 18-09-2015, 03:38 PM #1
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How do you feel about this and be honest have you ever or are you?

It happens a lot and it could be happening to you or about to






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I cheated on a guy once when I was 16, in my defence though, I'd been going out with him and he cheated on me and he dumped me, then a few months later he wanted to go out with me again so I said yes, then I cheated on him and dumped him (back then cheating on meant kissed someone else lol)

Anyway now I'm an adult I despise cheaters
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I despise cheaters too.
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Hate it. Easily one of the most disgusting things you could do to a person. It can seriously mess people up - make them never trust anyone again and I think that's incredibly sad.
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As you get older you realise trust is really what its about
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I cheated when I was 16. I've already justified myself on a different thread a couple weeks back so I won't justify myself again.

Nobody's ever cheated on me before.

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I cheated when I was 16. I've already justified myself on a different thread a couple weeks back so I won't justify myself again.

Nobody's ever cheated on me before.
not that you are aware
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Oh as an adult I suspect that my ex cheated on me but I'm not 100% sure about it
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I was the other person once on accident and I was disgusted in myself, I wouldn't cheat on anyone and I wouldn't knowingly enable someone to cheat on their other halves, whatever suits people I guess but I have no respect for cheaters or people who take pride in cheating or being the person someone cheats with.
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I don't cheat and can't imagine myself ever doing that.
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Oh I'm aware alright. I don't date wrong'uns and I slap them hard if they try to confront me at the bar.
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Oh as an adult I suspect that my ex cheated on me but I'm not 100% sure about it
usually instincts are pretty reliable
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If you're in a relationship where the other person is of the understanding that it's meant to be monogamous then in my view it's pretty weasely if you cheat.

My tolerance levels for people who are ultra possessive about their partner, following them all over, making them disclose all their conversations and otherwise interfering with their personal life when it turns out they have been the unfaithful ones all along is about as low as you get.

You see it all the time on Jeremy Kyle, makes me want to throw the TV through the window. Hate hypocrites.
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I'm not a cheater and if I dated one, he'd be out the door. I don't do shares-ies.
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Yeah I agree
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If you're in a relationship where the other person is of the understanding that it's meant to be monogamous then in my view it's pretty weasely if you cheat.

My tolerance levels for people who are ultra possessive about their partner, following them all over, making them disclose all their conversations and otherwise interfering with their personal life when it turns out they have been the unfaithful ones all along is about as low as you get.

You see it all the time on Jeremy Kyle, makes me want to throw the TV through the window. Hate hypocrites.
Yep and that's usually the case in real life too. Judging their partner by their own standards
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There is also Emotional Cheating

An "emotional affair" is an affair between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of an affair while never being physically consummated. An emotional affair is often colloquially referred to as an affair of the heart. An emotional affair may emerge from a friendship outside the relationship, and progress toward greater levels of personal intimacy and attachment. What distinguishes an emotional affair from a friendship is the assumption of emotional roles between the two participants that mimic of those of an actual relationship - with regards to confiding personal information and turning to the other person during moments of vulnerability or need.

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There is also Emotional Cheating

An "emotional affair" is an affair between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of an affair while never being physically consummated. An emotional affair is often colloquially referred to as an affair of the heart. An emotional affair may emerge from a friendship outside the relationship, and progress toward greater levels of personal intimacy and attachment. What distinguishes an emotional affair from a friendship is the assumption of emotional roles between the two participants that mimic of those of an actual relationship - with regards to confiding personal information and turning to the other person during moments of vulnerability or need.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_affair
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There is also Emotional Cheating

An "emotional affair" is an affair between two people that mimics the closeness and emotional intimacy of an affair while never being physically consummated. An emotional affair is often colloquially referred to as an affair of the heart. An emotional affair may emerge from a friendship outside the relationship, and progress toward greater levels of personal intimacy and attachment. What distinguishes an emotional affair from a friendship is the assumption of emotional roles between the two participants that mimic of those of an actual relationship - with regards to confiding personal information and turning to the other person during moments of vulnerability or need.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_affair
I would describe a lot of 'internet' affairs like this.
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I would describe a lot of 'internet' affairs like this.
I think the advent of the internet and mobile phone have made it much easier to carry out affairs
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I don't think you realise how wrong and hurtful cheating is when you are young.
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Yep and that's usually the case in real life too. Judging their partner by their own standards
A lad at my last workplace regularly cheated on his lass but told me he wouldn't tolerate it if she did it to him. When I asked him about the double standards he said he was aware of it but he just couldn't describe why he saw it that way. Always sticks in my mind that, never broached the topic further with him though he probably would have knifed me the mentalist.
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