[Cherie]

People find all sorts of things to look down on so I can understand that sentiment, BB viewers get looked down on for watching the show, my view on people like that is get over yourself

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Friends of habit then? I don't know I'm just at a point in my life where I value my own time too much to waste it on people who are negative or who I don't even like very much

That's my view as well Niamh, life's too short to spend with people who want to do you down

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

That's my view as well Niamh, life's too short to spend with people who want to do you down

Yep exactly, my daughter is 15 and is having issues with friends of hers atm, I keep saying that to her but I guess it's one of those things you have to really learn for yourself

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Cherie

People find all sorts of things to look down on so I can understand that sentiment, BB viewers get looked down on for watching the show, my view on people like that is get over yourself

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Friends of habit then? I don't know I'm just at a point in my life where I value my own time too much to waste it on people who are negative or who I don't even like very much

Yeah i get what you're saying, my hubby says the exact same thing.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

My friends are like Helen from the film Bridesmaids, and i'm more like a cross between Annie and Megan

I don't see them often, i've been friends with 2 of them since i were 5 years old, but the sad fact is that we have nothing in common, time to move on i think

..if they're childhood friends that you want to still see occasionally, Ruby then that's your decision..if there are other things that you do like about them or benefit from spending time with them, only you can know that ..but I think that, what you have to think is...they might have 'stuff' that you don't have but it's just stuff/material things, which means nothing and says nothing about a person...and I doubt that they would make you feel like you do when you're with them, if that stuff was actually important to them either and they were truly happy with their lives and what they have...

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

Yeah i get what you're saying, my hubby says the exact same thing.

Your husband sounds very wise

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I just bought it!

I chrissy prezzie down..... Thanks ruby

Spoiler:

Awww that's great!

[Ammi]

...who would have thought that onesies could have had so much meaning, eh....

[Crimson Dynamo]

no of course not

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...who would have thought that onesies could have had so much meaning, eh....

I know right, what a deep thread this onesie one has turned out to be

Maybe i should move it to Serious Debates and give Arista heart failure

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I know right, what a deep thread this onesie one has turned out to be

Maybe i should move it to Serious Debates and give Arista heart failure

...see, jogging bottoms and hoodies are the best call, they're far more simple little creatures...

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

no of course not

Oh bog off you... debbie downer, you're killing our buzz!
Me and ruby are sat sipping mean green smoothies in our elegant onesis surrounded by the splendor of our social housing.....

[Ammi]

..Arista would end up sneakily buying that Stitch one for himself and putting it on Amazon fast track delivery, I reckon...

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yep exactly, my daughter is 15 and is having issues with friends of hers atm, I keep saying that to her but I guess it's one of those things you have to really learn for yourself

I think so, but you have to say it as well even though she may not take the advice for now

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..if they're childhood friends that you want to still see occasionally, Ruby then that's your decision..if there are other things that you do like about them or benefit from spending time with them, only you can know that ..but I think that, what you have to think is...they might have 'stuff' that you don't have but it's just stuff/material things, which means nothing and says nothing about a person...and I doubt that they would make you feel like you do when you're with them, if that stuff was actually important to them either and they were truly happy with their lives and what they have...

We're all different aren't we Ammi, and they are all very materialistic, whereas i'm not, i'm quite happy in my house with my life, i try to keep things as simple as possible, whereas they all work very hard and are entitled to whatever possessions that makes them happy, i just hate feeling inferior, which is why i thought they could come to mine before xmas, i place a higher value on time with my loved ones, days out and holidays over new cars and kitchen refurbs, it's important my time is spent making memories rather than painting and decorating, and i'm quite a spiritual person who loves, angels and crystals and......well.......they think i'm weird

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

no of course not

Are you judging us in our onesies

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Oh bog off you... debbie downer, you're killing our buzz!
Me and ruby are sat sipping mean green smoothies in our elegant onesis surrounded by the splendor of our social housing.....

Whoop whoop

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...see, jogging bottoms and hoodies are the best call, they're far more simple little creatures...

My personal favourite is a red pyjama fleece hoodie thing with antlers

[Kizzy]

Yooo hoooo arista.....

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I know right, what a deep thread this onesie one has turned out to be

Maybe i should move it to Serious Debates and give Arista heart failure

do it Niamh

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think so, but you have to say it as well even though she may not take the advice for now

Yeah, she does occasionally take a bit of advice so it's not all in vain!

Originally Posted by rubymoo

We're all different aren't we Ammi, and they are all very materialistic, whereas i'm not, i'm quite happy in my house with my life, i try to keep things as simple as possible, whereas they all work very hard and are entitled to whatever possessions that makes them happy, i just hate feeling inferior, which is why i thought they could come to mine before xmas, i place a higher value on time with my loved ones, days out and holidays over new cars and kitchen refurbs, it's important my time is spent making memories rather than painting and decorating, and i'm quite a spiritual person who loves, angels and crystals and......well.......they think i'm weird

I think you have everything the right way round Ruby

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

We're all different aren't we Ammi, and they are all very materialistic, whereas i'm not, i'm quite happy in my house with my life, i try to keep things as simple as possible, whereas they all work very hard and are entitled to whatever possessions that makes them happy, i just hate feeling inferior, which is why i thought they could come to mine before xmas, i place a higher value on time with my loved ones, days out and holidays over new cars and kitchen refurbs, it's important my time is spent making memories rather than painting and decorating, and i'm quite a spiritual person who loves, angels and crystals and......well.......they think i'm weird

I can identify...
I don't think you're weird I think you're fab! and I bet they do too
It would be a very bland world if we were all the same x

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

We're all different aren't we Ammi, and they are all very materialistic, whereas i'm not, i'm quite happy in my house with my life, i try to keep things as simple as possible, whereas they all work very hard and are entitled to whatever possessions that makes them happy, i just hate feeling inferior, which is why i thought they could come to mine before xmas, i place a higher value on time with my loved ones, days out and holidays over new cars and kitchen refurbs, it's important my time is spent making memories rather than painting and decorating, and i'm quite a spiritual person who loves, angels and crystals and......well.......they think i'm weird

They are the weird ones, why can't the accept everyone is different and has different aspirations in life

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yeah, she does occasionally take a bit of advice so it's not all in vain!



I think you have everything the right way round Ruby

I like to think so Niahm