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To be fair, he was pointing out the double standard and he was 100% right about that? She said she likes her men "broad shouldered and well hung" and that's seen as totally fine and just her saying what she likes... But he pointed out that if a man in there stood up and said "I like my women with a tight pussy and a giant arse", it would be considered totally unacceptable / probably "disgusting".

It all got a bit confused after that with what he was trying to say, but that was his original point (and the point he reiterated in the kitchen AFTER she left, for some reason) and I can find no flaw in his thinking. He's 100% on the money, they would all suddenly understand why it was "not OK" if it was a male "just stating his preferences" about women.