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Originally Posted by parmnion

I think it's worse for the girl who has also watched porn and feels like this is what every girl wants.

Indeed Parmy the number of young girls who engage in painful (and sometimes dangerous - "choking" being a prime example) sexual activity in large part because porn has made it seem "normal" is sky high. It's bloody awful.

Adults are obviously entitled to engage in whatever experimentation they find interesting to find out what they might genuinely enjoy ... but that's a million miles from the expectation. Expectation from boys that it's normal to ask for it, acceptance from girls that it's abnormal to say a flat no to it.

(Just to acknowledge, this expectation-acceptance dynamic does sometimes go the other way from girls to boys, but much less often)