[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Its not common sense, common sense is inherant you dont need friends of any colour to teach you that.
Its mixed messages, it was acceptable in her social group.
If it is so derogatory and so offensive why is it used?
You don't get any other groups using a discriminatory word in general conversation.
In Bradford I would never hear 'Hi taj my p***! how are you?

Not true. Many homosexuals will refer to themselves/others as, for example, a faggot or poofter.