[Maru]

Originally Posted by Redway

You know I have a lot of time for you, Ammi, genuinely, butI personally have to draw the line at correlating female sports-commentators with a man’s suicide. I’d hardly call that empathetic, kind and considered.

He might have a background of care but then he can also just be … Zizu. He might know things about mental health and I might have a shade of neuroticism that in some circumstances you could see even parallels him, albeit at opposite ends (like Maru was pointing out and trying to psychoanalyse), but as far as I’m concerned he’s just toxic. We all have our value and his value is definitely better-known to the people who know him personally, I’d never downplay that, but I just can’t with Zizu. I hear what you’re saying, I hear what Maru’s saying (even if I have to reject some of the psychoanalysis, because I’m not instinctively driven by anxiety in the way that she thinks), but we’re never gonna be mates, me and him.

I wouldn't have connected anxious behavior directly to either of you as far as TiBB is concerned (anyway)... but it's easy to get the tiniest bit of it mixed into communications with the way conversations like this are setup with society... that's why I said I don't really mind any oversharing that's being mentioned because I think it is easy to misinterpret where anyone is coming from, because it's sifting through more difficult things to get a point across. You both are keen to analyze things, which I see as a good? Like I would not worry to this extent how either of you are being perceived... you both bring valuable commentary to the forum and in the end, that's the point I was trying to make...