[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Redway

You know I have a lot of time for you, Ammi, genuinely, butI personally have to draw the line at correlating female sports-commentators with a man’s suicide. I’d hardly call that empathetic, kind and considered.

He might have a background of care but then he can also just be … Zizu. He might know things about mental health and I might have a shade of neuroticism that in some circumstances you could see even parallels him, albeit at opposite ends (like Maru was pointing out and trying to psychoanalyse), but as far as I’m concerned he’s just toxic. We all have our value and his value is definitely better-known to the people who know him personally, I’d never downplay that, but I just can’t with Zizu. I hear what you’re saying, I hear what Maru’s saying (even if I have to reject some of the psychoanalysis, because I’m not instinctively driven by anxiety in the way that she thinks), but we’re never gonna be mates, me and him.

…Redway, I wasn’t suggesting that you were both alike or that a ‘mate situation’ could happen…just that you both have showed an awareness and consideration for mental health and well-being in regards to the impact of hurtful language etc …especially on the internet and with those we don’t know…it can’t feel or be healthy for either of you and ignoring is an option that would feel like the better way for you both…I’ve seen it mentioned but not really so much applied…anyway, I leave you both to continue with whatever this is ….