I'm not asking them to take my side. I've bought their grandaughter a gift. I'm asking nothing in return other for them to pass this on if their daughter deems it appropriate. I don't wish for them to take my side, I just wish for them to explain to their daughter, that their grand daughter doesn't have to be caught in the middle of what happened between us.

That's it. No more, no less. She has 2 tops, both of which combined cost just over £20 combined. So no one can misconstrue my intentions.