[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

I understand that point of view completely. However, I know her daughter would have asked about me loads, and when she can see me. I know that I will have cropped up.

I think I'm definitely going to take them round to her parents, and whatever happens from there, I will deal with in whatever way I have to.

thats your choice,but i think its not fair to involve the parents even tho they liked you!,they will always take their daughter's side.

Originally Posted by triplexxxmas

thats your choice,but i think its not fair to involve the parents even tho they liked you!,they will always take their daughter's side.

I'm not asking them to take my side. I've bought their grandaughter a gift. I'm asking nothing in return other for them to pass this on if their daughter deems it appropriate. I don't wish for them to take my side, I just wish for them to explain to their daughter, that their grand daughter doesn't have to be caught in the middle of what happened between us.

That's it. No more, no less. She has 2 tops, both of which combined cost just over £20 combined. So no one can misconstrue my intentions.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

I'm not asking them to take my side. I've bought their grandaughter a gift. I'm asking nothing in return other for them to pass this on if their daughter deems it appropriate. I don't wish for them to take my side, I just wish for them to explain to their daughter, that their grand daughter doesn't have to be caught in the middle of what happened between us.

That's it. No more, no less. She has 2 tops, both of which combined cost just over £20 combined. So no one can misconstrue my intentions.

you talk about the grand daughter not being caught in the middle but thats exactly where she will be in the middle by you giving your gift.
at least your not in the position like many father's who can even see their own daughter's.