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Originally Posted by kefln

Emphasize?

How is refusing to talk about it to the group and saying to dan that she hopes what happened doesnt effect daleys career, or his image in the press, emphasizing the very moments of the incident and nothing else?

I'm not convinced she was never going to talk about it. She was probably thinking of ways to reveal it to housemates without any blame being shifted onto her because remember they had been against the way they acted towards each other since the beginning so they probably wouldn't have believed her all the way. As Dexter kind of said yesterday? He knows the bloke, no point sending out the lynchmob without knowing the full story or something like that.

But when Dan offered to tell them suddenly she wasn't reluctant to let the dirty laundry out. It would probably make her look more vulnerable if than said it rather than if she said it. As Dan told she got the chance to play extremely hurt victim then turn on the waterworks when she didn't even turn on the waterworks the morning after.

Just have to add that I am by no means saying what Daley did was excusable but I can't forget what the woman was like prior to this.
I'm also adding that I blame porn for the way this generation is unable to distinguish the fine line between playful flirting and bordering on threatening/abusive. You watch porn nowadays and all you see is men grabbing womens throats as she chokes on his privates or while she's screaming "yes just like that I love it.", and he says aggressive stuff to her. It's confusing for some, they can't decide that line. Still no excuse but I am just saying.