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Originally Posted by Speedster

Here we go AGAIN. She can flirt with WHO she WANTS he CANT because he's in a RELATIONSHIP.

Exactly! I hate to think of what people on here would think of me - I met my fiancee (who I've been with for 6 years now and have 2 children with) when she was engaged to another guy so... yeah.

<<< Homewrecker, guilty!

I mean we didn't start anything while they were together but I was clear enough about my feelings / flirted plenty... so by Hazel haters standards, was I in the wrong?? Am I evil for "stealing" her from someone else? Oh wait no because I'm male.

And because maybe people aren't property to be stolen and can make up their own minds! And because maybe someone being in a relationship already isn't a good enough reason to write them off if you think you'd be good together.