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Originally Posted by kate2013

Where she was at fault was not flirting, but flirting with a man who she knew had a girlfriend. As Gina said she has no girl code.

As my 3 year old would say: NON SENSSSE!!

Not her responsibility, in any way, shape or form. His girlfriend, his life, his decision. Contrary to popular belief, us menfolk do have brains in our heads as well as in our penises and he was more than happy to flirt with her. All he had to do was refuse to play along and tell her he wasn't interested flat out. He didn't do that, he was interested, and he did pursue her just as much as she pursued him. He also strongly hinted that his relationship status was "up in the air", dishonestly, because he WANTED to flirt with Hazel.

You literally cannot successfully flirt with someone who isn't receptive to it.