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Originally Posted by Jack_

To be fair I am yet to actually see the episode as I've been out so will need it to be contextualised, but I don't understand people's issues with others being open about sex either. I had the same opinion when people were criticising Helen/Ash etc at the start of the series and Jasmine/Lee/Luisa back in January. If you don't want to be open about it that's fine, but if others are that doesn't make them a horrible person or deserved of being insulted either

...I can never understand it ..maybe it's a kind of 'no sex please, we're British..' type thing but it always seems the worst thing for a female especially to use certain sexual language/talk openly etc about sex and probably even exaggerating as well and 'playing it up' like a male would say he'd slept with so many people and probably hadn't at all...I mean, who keeps count if you sleep with a lot of people..?...and it's often seen as much worse than someone being nasty/mean/spiteful and making others feel bad about themselves and generally having a horrible personality...I really just don't get it because if someone like Bianca 'hurts' anyone by what she says, then it's only herself she hurts which is more than can be said about some housemates this year and most especially someone like Helen..who could in the true definition of the word be called a 'slag'...

...so is it ok to do it (sex, sleeping with numerous people..)..but not ok to talk about it..?...