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I was excited about mine but we did it really small, just immediate family and close friends. Civil ceremony and then a meal at a little hotel in the middle of nowhere. I think there were about 20 people there including us and the kids .

We were planning a much bigger wedding when we were younger, had a place booked and everything, then baby no.1 came into existence and we cancelled it all because of the expense. She was 4 by the time we actually got married. In some ways I regret not just going through with the original planned wedding, but also, I hate being the center of attention in a large group of people so I wasnt looking forward to that aspect at all.