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Originally Posted by Kate!
Ahh you're so lovely.
Yes what happened was that after my mum died I had a breakdown and was admitted to the mental health ward for 6 months. The council put my son into a flat on his own. At just 17 years of age. It's no wonder he felt abandoned. Lost his nan traumatically ( he was with me when we found her body) and then lost his home and his mum. Very sad circumstances. I don't blame my son for cutting ties. I just hope one day he gets in touch. X
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…it was all so much for him to process as well, as you say..he was with you and that’s a traumatic time that he still might not have processed or processed his grief over losing his grandmother…he may have blocked so much emotionally and that might have manifested in not being able to see you …I would say that he may have his own ‘battles’ and things to face as a first step …but that’s something/a place that he’ll have to get to himself…