[Maru]

Full video of her partner talking about being dumped:

Youtube video

Notes:


-Kath says she didn't expect that a reality show would be real (lol) and thought she was maybe watching fiction. Turns out what she was watching was truth.

-She felt unsettling, hurtful and felt betrayed by the things she saw.

-She got offline because she couldn't go to her partner.

-The messages she received throughout and before were constant video messages with Jojo having huge admiration and love for her, which "indicated a sense of solidness and trust I chose to believe and get clarify around"

-She thought she'd get on with Jojo in that moment and tell everyone "It's just a TV show. It's all fabricated!" (Wow...)

-She still decided to come as showed up for her partner and hold up her end of the bargain of being in a partner and "being a teammate"

-Instead of it working out as she'd hoped, she said she was dumped at the afterparty with Chris in the next room. She says this part was crazy and starts laughing somewhat.

-"A lot of the things that were depicted were truth.. and I have become collateral in that truth"

-She still chose to believe in her despite all this up until that point

-She says she experienced a version of love-bombing,... particularly being asked to marry them before the social experiment; Being adored throughout behind closed doors"

-She said she feels humiliated... she's not sure it's fact, but that's how she feels...

-On being dumped; "There were confused feelings there and they had realized in the house they weren't the one they wanted to spend the rest of their life with in the foreseeable future.."

-She didn't see any of this coming

-It took Jojo less than an hour to follow through with dumping her

-She has opinions about Chris but won't say it yet

-Says Jojo said she wants to explore independence and "certain feelings"

-Says she is very tired from all the negativity online, etc. She wasn't "met with love" and it wasn't appreciated that she'd made the effort to fly 24 hrs to be there, instead got lots of anger around things like the letter and not wanting to be on TV... "but it's fine, everyone wants what they want from their relationships"