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Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Where did I mention Mickey? I agree with you that his behaviour towards her was bad, I still stand by that.

You said: “I remember some of us were even defending her against Mickey and his supporters.” as if her now fancying a ma somehow made that defence null and pointless.

And how on earth can someone be sexuality fluid? I'm genuinely curious about that one.

Some people have no attraction to certain genders, some have attraction to all, some fall in love with the person regardless of gender, etc… it’s a spectrum.

And when they're on Reality TV Show talking about their sexuality/overall identity a lot, then I'm sorry to tell you this but she's made it the audiences business, so you're wrong factually to say that it's "got nothing to do with me" when she basically made her entire stint in the house be about her sexuality and the community that she represents.

It’s got nothing to do with you in the way you were inferring, as if she specifically lied to mislead. If someone went on big brother and said they were straight and then met someone in there who they fell fall and came out and said okay it turns out they’re bisexual after all because they discovered something about themselves, would you feel misled?

And it is not a weird thing to say that a 22 year old should know what sexuality they are, I honestly don't buy that she didn't know, but that's just my very controversial opinion, and I do apologise if I am wrong about that, but I just don't believe that I am.

You’re speaking from your own experience alone. Not everyone’s experiences with sexuality are the same. I think you should consider that.

And just to add, is it really wrong to pull up a Housemate for potentially lying about themselves on a show where the public vote? I mean basic standards do need to be met.

It’s wrong to frame it as fact and that her falling for someone who was a different gender to who she is used to loving is somehow deceptive.

Nobody owes anyone an explanation for who they fall in love with and it’s strange to think we have ownership on the path of their sexuality to the point of feeling betrayed if they veer from the path we’ve put them on. You’re holding them to an unfair standard. Love and emotion and sexuality and attraction is complex.