[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Enid

Exact same mentality that a lot of bullies have. Low self opinion, make themselves feel better by picking on someone younger, weaker, less "established".

You just said I thought I was better than her. Have I called her names, have I? The members calling her stupid are bullys. I most certainly am not. I try my best to get on with her a lot of the time, I admit I wind her up about Leona sometimes but I talk to her on MSN every so often. Don't pretend you know everything please.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jessica..

You just said I thought I was better than her. Have I called her names, have I? The members calling her stupid are bullys. I most certainly am not. I try my best to get on with her a lot of the time, I admit I wind her up about Leona sometimes but I talk to her on MSN every so often. Don't pretend you know everything please.

Look Jess, you know you are one of my favorite people on here but sometimes it does come across as bullying, like telling her not to post lyrics for example, why do you feel like you have the right to tell people what they can or cannot post on a public forum?

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Look Jess, you know you are one of my favorite people on here but sometimes it does come across as bullying, like telling her not to post lyrics for example, why do you feel like you have the right to tell people what they can or cannot post on a public forum?

It is annoying. I don't mind her posting lyrics tbh but it really annoys me when she posts the same line over and over. Then if someone posts the same thing twice she says they are spamming. It is no harm to help her realise that what she is doing annoys people.

I know what it is like to be bullied. I would never intentionally put someone through that.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Twilight

You're the same lol

Your almost as bad as her so wtf are you talking about.
And I have changed since my ban I havent said two ****ing words to upset anyone so dont even try that on me.

[Enid]

Jess, it's not just MM&I either. You do it with other members too. You criticize their spelling and grammar, you'll tell them what they can and can't post. You nit pick, which can get very exhausting after a while. You definitely have bullying tendencies because I've seen it and so have others.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jessica..

It is annoying. I don't mind her posting lyrics tbh but it really annoys me when she posts the same line over and over. Then if someone posts the same thing twice she says they are spamming. It is no harm to help her realise that what she is doing annoys people.

I know what it is like to be bullied. I would never intentionally put someone through that.

I know you wouldn't Jess, just maybe give her a chance is all, I think she's probably overly defence right now because of all the backlash she's been getting and maybe I'm wrong as well, only time will tell I suppose.

[Jack_]

Firstly, what did Luva actually say to get him banned?

Secondly, if I remember correctly, I was the first person on here to publicly question her identity. I've since then had people telling me they agree. Whether they are choosing to agree with me for the sake of it or not is irrelevant to me. I'm sticking by what I believe, and I couldn't care less if anyone else agrees or not. Sure, I have cut down on saying it to her on the forum, but that doesn't change my opinion.

It's not my problem if like me, people don't like 'her'. Sure, a collective group of people being nasty to her may be considered as bullying. I have considered that myself. But as far as I'm concerned, I'd still be saying things to her whether other people were or not.

As for my reasons for not liking her, well, I don't believe they are who they say they are & they're pretty ignorant - which is irritating.

Originally Posted by Jessica..

"When I was 13 I had my first love,
there was nobody that compared to my baby
and nobody came between us, no-one could ever come above
She had me going crazy, oh I was star-struck,
she woke me up daily, don't need no Starbucks.

She made my heart pound, I skip a beat when I see her in the street and
at school on the playground but I really wanna see her on the weekend.
She knows she got me dazing cause she was so amazing
and now my heart is breaking but I just keep on saying…."

Good girl

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Good girl

haha I don't like bib's bit though

[Stephanie]

her age doesn't even matter tbh. some of the members on here are quite young aswell and they don't act as stupid and ignorant as her.

everyone has their reasons for disliking people, and a lot/few people can dislike someone, so why does it get classed as ganging up on or bullying?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stephanie

her age doesn't even matter tbh. some of the members on here are quite young aswell and they don't act as stupid and ignorant as her.

everyone has their reasons for disliking people, and a lot/few people can dislike someone, so why does it get classed as ganging up on or bullying?

because you should be able to dislike someone without picking at every thing they say Stef.

[zotler.]

People wonder why I don't like telling people online that I'm 13, and this thread is a prime example why. I don't want people to excuse my mistakes because of my age. "Oh well, she's 13 - what do you expect?"
I'm not denying my age but it's frustrating that people practically judge your mental capabilities by your age, or automatically stereotype you!
Just let her, whoever, make her own mistakes. Rest assured she will remember this in a few years and think, "God, why did I act like that?".
I remember first posting on forums when I was about eleven, and typin liek dis cos i thought it was kewl. (Soon corrected that) Of course we expect you to acknowledge our age and take it into account in some situations, but sometimes it's nice to feel like people on a forum aren't treating us significantly differently because of our age. MM&I is probably a bad example, but meh.

[Stephanie]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

because you should be able to dislike someone without picking at every thing they say Stef.

i havn't seen anyone picking at every single thing tbh. but if you say something mind shatteringly stupid, or try to cause an argument deliberately, what do you expect?

[Jords]

Everybody is different and mature at different rates, not that I see the problem she causes anyway..

[Jack_]

To be honest I just can't stand immaturity. Even in real life.

It's one of the main reasons why I can't stand going to school; having to waste six and a half hours of my life with people, that quite frankly, are pointless.

[Stephanie]

Originally Posted by Jack_

To be honest I just can't stand immaturity. Even in real life.

It's one of the main reasons why I can't stand going to school; having to waste six and a half hours of my life with people, that quite frankly, are pointless.

i feel your pain. you don't know how flipping glad i am that i don't have to go to school anymore, and that i'm going to do online work instead.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stephanie

i havn't seen anyone picking at every single thing tbh. but if you say something mind shatteringly stupid, or try to cause an argument deliberately, what do you expect?

Look I'm just going on what I've seen Stef and that's what I've seen

[Stephanie]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Look I'm just going on what I've seen Stef and that's what I've seen

cool.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

To be honest I just can't stand immaturity. Even in real life.

It's one of the main reasons why I can't stand going to school; having to waste six and a half hours of my life with people, that quite frankly, are pointless.

People aren't born mature though Jack that has to be learned

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Jack_

To be honest I just can't stand immaturity. Even in real life.

It's one of the main reasons why I can't stand going to school; having to waste six and a half hours of my life with people, that quite frankly, are pointless.

I know what you mean, and the really immature ones are always the really popular people, beats me. Sometimes you act a little immature with your friends when laughing and joking about but nothing too pothetic like some people at school!

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stephanie

i feel your pain. you don't know how flipping glad i am that i don't have to go to school anymore, and that i'm going to do online work instead.

Oh really? like home schooling?

[Jessica.]

I think it is the same for everyone. Some members dislike/hate me and they agree on that others are meh or like me and they agree it is kinda hard to explain but Jess XVI is not the only member to ever be disliked by more than one person.

[Stephanie]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Oh really? like home schooling?

i'm going to have to do work on the computer, and print bits out ect. and then send it to the school.

[Twilight]

Originally Posted by Jessica..

I think it is the same for everyone. Some members dislike/hate me and they agree on that others are meh or like me and they agree it is kinda hard to explain but Jess XVI is not the only member to ever be disliked by more than one person.

Yeah, i was disliked by mostly everyone at one point.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Stephanie

i'm going to have to do work on the computer, and print bits out ect. and then send it to the school.

Well that might suit you better, you'd have to be motivated though, don't know I'd be any good at it, you see how well I do at making myself do some work!

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jessica..

I think it is the same for everyone. Some members dislike/hate me and they agree on that others are meh or like me and they agree it is kinda hard to explain but Jess XVI is not the only member to ever be disliked by more than one person.

But nobody is liked by everyone, that's almost impossible!