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Old 27-10-2010, 12:32 AM #1
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Sorry I mean and HOW not why pfft
Depends on the girl.

Dont chase after her, buy her things or anything. Just leave it a few days and see what happens between you.

Go back to exactly the same kind of relationship/friendship you had before you asked her out.

Ideally you want her to see that you arent bothered by her refusal, this shows her you arent clingy in need of a relationship etc, and it may actually make her change her mind.

If she changes the state of the friendship between you then there are a few things you can do, the best thing is if she ignores you etc then give her space, dont approach her, talk to her, email, text or otherwise contact her for a while.
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Depends on the girl.

Dont chase after her, buy her things or anything. Just leave it a few days and see what happens between you.

Go back to exactly the same kind of relationship/friendship you had before you asked her out.

Ideally you want her to see that you arent bothered by her refusal, this shows her you arent clingy in need of a relationship etc, and it may actually make her change her mind.

If she changes the state of the friendship between you then there are a few things you can do, the best thing is if she ignores you etc then give her space, dont approach her, talk to her, email, text or otherwise contact her for a while.

Yeah like, I was going to call her later tonight and ask her abit more about it and stuff like why and that.

But It probably will come across as full on desperate.
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Yeah like, I was going to call her later tonight and ask her abit more about it and stuff like why and that.

But It probably will come across as full on desperate.
Funnily enough,I'm watching Jezza just now; he is super hot!!

Anyway, under NO circumstances do this ^^
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Funnily enough,I'm watching Jezza just now; he is super hot!!

Anyway, under NO circumstances do this ^^
This audience member speaks sense.

Don't do this Patrick. It will just be awkward.

She has already said no and she will think you're pestering her.

You don't want to ruin the friendship because if you do that then the relationship side is totally blown.
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Funnily enough,I'm watching Jezza just now; he is super hot!!

Anyway, under NO circumstances do this ^^
Is Darren the cad the dad?
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Is Darren the cad the dad?
Yay! Somebody as sad as me!

Yeah I reckon he is!
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Yay! Somebody as sad as me!

Yeah I reckon he is!
Well done you!
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Well done you!
Why thank you..

I am very seldom wrong when it comes to matters of the Jezza though
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dude 11 years? thats deep
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Huh? Jeremy Kyle?
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Huh? Jeremy Kyle?
Erm.. that was just a joke

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Erm.. that was just a joke

Honest...
I'd consider doing him.
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Erm.. that was just a joke

Honest...
Yeah yeah. See Patrick, this teaches you a valuable lesson about women and people in general - their taste is up their arse It's not you baby, it's them.
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Yeah yeah. See Patrick, this teaches you a valuable lesson about women and people in general - their taste is up their arse It's not you baby, it's them.
Your right.

Women and Men dont speak the same language, want the same things or even understand what the other wants or needs.
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