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Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:25 AM

JEREMY KYLE

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I asked out this girl and she said no, Could I change her mind?

You know when a girl, you have a good friendship with and stuff, and you've known her for 11 years and sh*t and everything's going great but then suddenly she rejects you when you ask her out and basically ruins your day?

Yeah, well like you know when that happens..

Is it possible to change a 'rejected' mind?

Like seriously girls that reject you, is there a possibility they could ever change their mind and go out with you?

And why?

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:26 AM

Sorry I mean and HOW not why pfft

Vicky. · 27-10-2010, 12:29 AM

*Throws envelope at patrick*

Benjamin · 27-10-2010, 12:30 AM

Honestly, probably not. As hard as it is, at least she gave you an honest answer rather than not be interested but play you along.

It may also be because you have a good friendship that she said no, maybe she doesn't want to ruin what you guys already have, trust me it sucks when that happens with a friend, I'm sure a lot of us have been there. I know I have and wish that our friendship was still the same, but too much bitterness came about

There are plenty of people out there, and you never know, one day she may change her mind

Miss Ivy Balls · 27-10-2010, 12:30 AM

Did she give you a reason, Patrick?

She may change her mind. How do you go as friendship is concerned?

Do you click?

Don't harass her, though, just be a smooth operator.

Jords · 27-10-2010, 12:30 AM

And the DNA results show that Patrick...
...
...
YOU ARE the father of the baby.

Oh sh!t wrong envelope *scruffles about*

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

*Throws envelope at patrick*

'you do that again, Ima ask you to leave!'

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:32 AM

lol Jords

Thank you Thomas and UKTurtle *Reads your replys*

Shasown · 27-10-2010, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

Sorry I mean and HOW not why pfft

Depends on the girl.

Dont chase after her, buy her things or anything. Just leave it a few days and see what happens between you.

Go back to exactly the same kind of relationship/friendship you had before you asked her out.

Ideally you want her to see that you arent bothered by her refusal, this shows her you arent clingy in need of a relationship etc, and it may actually make her change her mind.

If she changes the state of the friendship between you then there are a few things you can do, the best thing is if she ignores you etc then give her space, dont approach her, talk to her, email, text or otherwise contact her for a while.

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:36 AM

YAY She texted me there now,
I get so happy when she texts

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Originally Posted by ukturtle

Honestly, probably not. As hard as it is, at least she gave you an honest answer rather than not be interested but play you along.

It may also be because you have a good friendship that she said no, maybe she doesn't want to ruin what you guys already have, trust me it sucks when that happens with a friend, I'm sure a lot of us have been there. I know I have and wish that our friendship was still the same, but too much bitterness came about

There are plenty of people out there, and you never know, one day she may change her mind

Yeah possibly,

That's a fair reason like.

I feel like there's something proper wrong with me, because I asked about 2 girls out this year [not including her] and they both said no.

One was far more harsh about it though than the other.

And then everyone else is like in a relationship, even people who are complete and utter wankers.

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Originally Posted by Thomas C

Did she give you a reason, Patrick?

She may change her mind. How do you go as friendship is concerned?

Do you click?

Don't harass her, though, just be a smooth operator.

Yeah we get along great

We like talk every day and stuff.

She didn't give me a reason, I asked her basically after I had my little FML Sleep afterwards, I said 'Are you just not ready or something? Like do you not want to go out with me or do you basically not want to go out with ANYONE?' and she just said 'Both' that was as close I got to a reason I think.

Benjamin · 27-10-2010, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

YAY She texted me there now,
I get so happy when she texts

Yeah possibly,

That's a fair reason like.

I feel like there's something proper wrong with me, because I asked about 2 girls out this year [not including her] and they both said no.

One was far more harsh about it though than the other.

And then everyone else is like in a relationship, even people who are complete and utter wankers.

Don't be in such a rush to be in a r/ship, it'll happen when it happens, just enjoy being single while you can.

As for the girl that was harsh, thank god you are not with her, if she is like that then she is not worth your time.

And I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you, we all get rejections now and again, and it's hard, but you survive them

Jords · 27-10-2010, 12:39 AM

Oh Paddy I know loads of people getting in relationships too, and loads that are desperate to be.

Not too bothered myself, would be nice but meh I know Im not exactly on the top of people's menu.

Yet! I will get a bit fitter, just cba right naaaaa.

Do you really want to be? Or just a bit disappointed she said no?

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Shasown

Depends on the girl.

Dont chase after her, buy her things or anything. Just leave it a few days and see what happens between you.

Go back to exactly the same kind of relationship/friendship you had before you asked her out.

Ideally you want her to see that you arent bothered by her refusal, this shows her you arent clingy in need of a relationship etc, and it may actually make her change her mind.

If she changes the state of the friendship between you then there are a few things you can do, the best thing is if she ignores you etc then give her space, dont approach her, talk to her, email, text or otherwise contact her for a while.

Yeah like, I was going to call her later tonight and ask her abit more about it and stuff like why and that.

But It probably will come across as full on desperate.

Miss Ivy Balls · 27-10-2010, 12:43 AM

Ladies and Gentle, welcome to the new Jeremy Kyle.

Your new host Thomas C. The Thomas C Show!

Live with you to deal with your problems. Apply to be on the show now. Send me a PM with your problem and we'll have you on the show to help you. Advice from audience members too (forum members).

Thank you.

P.S - This is a fantastic idea for a bit of fun. Thanks for giving me the idea Patrick. Instead of starting a new thread we could do it in here?

Also, serious problems are accepted as well. We'll deal with any problems and do lie detector tests etc.

Shasown · 27-10-2010, 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Thomas C

Ladies and Gentle, welcome to the new Jeremy Kyle.

Your new host Thomas C. The Thomas C Show!

Live with you to deal with your problems. Apply to be on the show now. Send me a PM with your problem and we'll have you on the show to help you. Advice from audience members too (forum members).

Thank you.

P.S - This is a fantastic idea for a bit of fun. Thanks for giving me the idea Patrick. Instead of starting a new thread we could do it in here?

Also, serious problems are accepted as well. We'll deal with any problems and do lie detector tests etc.

Bit like the blind leading the blind there then Thomas!

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Jords

Oh Paddy I know loads of people getting in relationships too, and loads that are desperate to be.

Not too bothered myself, would be nice but meh I know Im not exactly on the top of people's menu.

Yet! I will get a bit fitter, just cba right naaaaa.

Do you really want to be? Or just a bit disappointed she said no?

LMAO Jords.

Love the confidence.
Oh my god, you should ask Christina out

I seen her liking your statuses on Facebook alot

She wants abit :P

Jk.

Actually she might but still let's just say LOL Jk.

Abit of both.
Like I'm quite upset she said no because our families and stuff get along and her parents tease her about me and mine do the same so like it's so annoying when mine did that today after her saying no, everything seems abit weird now because of it.

And yeah, like on Facebook everyday more and more chavs 'Is in a relationship' and it's like 'HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET A GIRLFRIEND? When you don't even know how to treat yourself right?'

You know?

So Yeah abit of both.

Patrick · 27-10-2010, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thomas C

Ladies and Gentle, welcome to the new Jeremy Kyle.

Your new host Thomas C. The Thomas C Show!

Live with you to deal with your problems. Apply to be on the show now. Send me a PM with your problem and we'll have you on the show to help you. Advice from audience members too (forum members).

Thank you.

P.S - This is a fantastic idea for a bit of fun. Thanks for giving me the idea Patrick. Instead of starting a new thread we could do it in here?

Also, serious problems are accepted as well. We'll deal with any problems and do lie detector tests etc.

Oh my god epic.

You should actually make a new thread 'cause I'd love to see this take off and I reckon my thread will be forgotten soon lol

Jack_ · 27-10-2010, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Thomas C

Ladies and Gentle, welcome to the new Jeremy Kyle.

Your new host Thomas C. The Thomas C Show!

Live with you to deal with your problems. Apply to be on the show now. Send me a PM with your problem and we'll have you on the show to help you. Advice from audience members too (forum members).

Thank you.

P.S - This is a fantastic idea for a bit of fun. Thanks for giving me the idea Patrick. Instead of starting a new thread we could do it in here?

Also, serious problems are accepted as well. We'll deal with any problems and do lie detector tests etc.

No thanks

Shasown · 27-10-2010, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

LMAO Jords.

Love the confidence.
Oh my god, you should ask Christina out

I seen her liking your statuses on Facebook alot

She wants abit :P

Jk.

Actually she might but still let's just say LOL Jk.

Abit of both.
Like I'm quite upset she said no because our families and stuff get along and her parents tease her about me and mine do the same so like it's so annoying when mine did that today after her saying no, everything seems abit weird now because of it.

And yeah, like on Facebook everyday more and more chavs 'Is in a relationship' and it's like 'HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET A GIRLFRIEND? When you don't even know how to treat yourself right?'

You know?

So Yeah abit of both.

Some of them only put in a relationship to make themselves feel better mate. The only relationships some have is with their hand.

Miss Ivy Balls · 27-10-2010, 12:47 AM

Patrick.

*wissles to runner........"tissues please"

Now, it must be hard, but we'll deal with this.

It is hard out there. Don't feel like you've got to follow the normal.

Wait until you find the right person. What does your family and goldfish think about this?

Lee. · 27-10-2010, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

Yeah like, I was going to call her later tonight and ask her abit more about it and stuff like why and that.

But It probably will come across as full on desperate.

Funnily enough,I'm watching Jezza just now; he is super hot!!

Anyway, under NO circumstances do this ^^

Miss Ivy Balls · 27-10-2010, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by happyland

Funnily enough,I'm watching Jezza just now; he is super hot!!

Anyway, under NO circumstances do this ^^

This audience member speaks sense.

Don't do this Patrick. It will just be awkward.

She has already said no and she will think you're pestering her.

You don't want to ruin the friendship because if you do that then the relationship side is totally blown.