[arista]

Originally Posted by bananarama

It's because of male ego thinking they are better than women and as such they think how would any respectable female jump into bed with many instead of one dominating self loving male....So they get name called.....

Translated its all about the double standards of many males and indeed jelousy of some females.....

Will such attitudes change any time soon..Nah..Sad inferior people like to hurt people with name calling........

Rubbish
I love Woman On top of me.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by bananarama

It's because of male ego thinking they are better than women and as such they think how would any respectable female jump into bed with many instead of one dominating self loving male....So they get name called.....

Translated its all about the double standards of many males and indeed jelousy of some females.....

Will such attitudes change any time soon..Nah..Sad inferior people like to hurt people with name calling........

You're spot on actually. I remember this boyfriend my friend used to go out with, once said that if she had slept with him on the first night he wouldn't have had her as his girlfriend. happy enough to be a slut himself but a girl who sleeps with him on the first night isn't good enough for him..............w**ker

[lostalex]

I've known plenty of male sluts. In the gay community there is definitely the same kind of culture that the str8 community has when it comes to people being too promiscuous. Same kind of judgements and stereotypes.

[billy123]

It is hard coded into the male of just about any species that to reproduce is to succeed there is no getting around it that is the genetically encoded aim of males is to spread their seed so it shouldnt come as any suprise to see a man puff his chest up with pride when being told (via the word slut) he is successful at his aim in life.

Females on the other hand are hard coded not only to reproduce but equally if not predominately to nurture and raise offspring so to be focused on what might be seen as the wrong part of their instinct is seen as a failure on their part by women and so it becomes an insult to them.

Might be harsh but its true we are just animals with primal instincts.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by bobnot

It is hard coded into the male of just about any species that to reproduce is to succeed there is no getting around it that is the genetically encoded aim of males is to spread their seed so it shouldnt come as any suprise to see a man puff his chest up with pride when being told (via the word slut) he is successful at his aim in life.

Females on the other hand are hard coded not only to reproduce but equally if not predominately to nurture and raise offspring so to be focused on what might be seen as the wrong part of their instinct is seen as a failure on their part by women and so it becomes an insult to them.

Might be harsh but its true we are just animals with primal instincts.

females are hard-coded to nurture? I guess you didn't hear that story recently about the california lady that microwaved her baby...

[billy123]

Originally Posted by lostalex

females are hard-coded to nurture? I guess you didn't hear that story recently about the california lady that microwaved her baby...

No i didnt but you cant account for the mentally ill when your talking about the entire species.
Evolution will throw up every possible exception along the way just to see if it works.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by bobnot

No i didnt but you cant account for the mentally ill when your talking about the entire species.
Evolution will throw up every possible exception along the way just to see if it works.

so i guess it's more of a "semi-hard" coding then? like a carrot that's been boiled for just a few seconds... a bit limp, but still crunchy on the inside?

[letmein]

Originally Posted by bobnot

It is hard coded into the male of just about any species that to reproduce is to succeed there is no getting around it that is the genetically encoded aim of males is to spread their seed so it shouldnt come as any suprise to see a man puff his chest up with pride when being told (via the word slut) he is successful at his aim in life.

Females on the other hand are hard coded not only to reproduce but equally if not predominately to nurture and raise offspring so to be focused on what might be seen as the wrong part of their instinct is seen as a failure on their part by women and so it becomes an insult to them.

Might be harsh but its true we are just animals with primal instincts.

Uh, no. One of sex's main functions is in getting creatures to interact with one another, and to blow off anxiety and aggression. Females go after males all the time in the animal kingdom. Some even kill them after they're done mating.

As for human beings, they have evolved outside of the animal kingdom. Roles change. Women have centuries of persecution for even thinking about sex. This is what happens in a male-dominated society. Women have held the same level of power and prestige centuries ago in many societies. Unfortunately, much of this was rubbed out thanks to misogyny.

The majority of women I know, **** for the fun of it, and even have **** buddies. Granted, having a growing fetus inside of you does make you more susceptible to taking on a nurturing role, but there are tons of women who don't even want to have children, and if they do, they can do it without having sex with a man.

How do you explain homosexuality, btw? If all we're here for is to procreate, why the hell are there so many damn homosexuals running around?

[Livia]

Originally Posted by bobnot

It is hard coded into the male of just about any species that to reproduce is to succeed there is no getting around it that is the genetically encoded aim of males is to spread their seed so it shouldnt come as any suprise to see a man puff his chest up with pride when being told (via the word slut) he is successful at his aim in life.

Females on the other hand are hard coded not only to reproduce but equally if not predominately to nurture and raise offspring so to be focused on what might be seen as the wrong part of their instinct is seen as a failure on their part by women and so it becomes an insult to them.

Might be harsh but its true we are just animals with primal instincts.

That was probably true once. We are animals with primal instincts, but we've evolved over a lot of years and we are evolving still. I think this whole "men are programmed to spread their seed around" is an excuse made up by men, and one that men still grimly cling to when they can't keep it in their trousers. You might as well say you’re hard-wired to drink beer and leave the toilet seat up and you’ll never have to make an excuse again.

It's been a while since men went out and killed an animal for the family to eat, and in this day and age the idea is as silly as the "men are hunters, women are nurturers" thing. We've evolved beyond it, at least in the West we have. On the other hand, I know a lot of women who are just as promiscuous as any man, just as predatory and not in the least maternal because women don't have to be any more. Women can choose whether they get pregnant because contraception is free and effective. Efective contraception is something that wasn't available to women prior to the 60s, and this along with the advance of equal rights has given us the freedom to choose whether we want a family and if so, when we want one. It's also given us the opportunity to sleep with whomever we want and to keep safe in the process.

[cub]

It's a nonsense to suggest men and women are today the same because we have (largely) equal opportunties. Biologically there are differences and they affect our behaviour and the way we think.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by cub

It's a nonsense to suggest men and women are today the same because we have (largely) equal opportunties. Biologically there are differences and they affect our behaviour and the way we think.

I didn't say they were the same. I said, in a roundabout way, that the gap has closed. A couple of generations ago women had hardly any rights at all, and contraception was unheard of, but now that's changed. There are massive differences between men and women biologically and there always will be. However, just because I am in the 50% of the population that doesn't have a penis, it doesn't mean I'm an Earth Mother and I don't feel any pressure to have a child if I don't want one whereas years ago it would have been natural to expect it. There is more choice for women now, and fewer social and economic restraints... that's what I meant.

[Sam:)]

Ok pretend men are keys and girls are locks.

If a key opens many locks its a Masterkey,but if a locks opened by lots of keys its a ****ty lock

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Sam:)

Ok pretend men are keys and girls are locks.

If a key opens many locks its a Masterkey,but if a locks opened by lots of keys its a ****ty lock

yeah.........read the OP

[Ammi]

You just have to watch an episode of Geordie Shore or similar to see that males and females have the same attitude towards sex and we have evolved a long way to see this type of equality. I sometimes feel let down by my fellow females, as they often appear to be the ones attatching the slag label more than men do